Hello everyone. I think this is exactly the community I need right now. I have spent some time the past few days reading through all of your posts. I can relate to just about all of them and while I'm sad that a lot of you have to struggle, I'm also glad I'm not alone.
I'm 28 and DH is 27. We were married last June and began TTC in September. My best friend started TTC just a few weeks before us, and BANG pregnant her first time. Super happy for her. I hoped I would be so lucky, though after being on BC for so long, I wasn't surprised that it would take us longer (though she had been on it just as long). I was very lucky to ovulate regularly (though late CD21) right off the pill. In November I got pregnant but lost it a couple of weeks later on DH's birthday. It was early but still so incredibly heartbreaking. That was our cycle 3. Now on cycle 4 since (7 total) and each month that goes by it gets harder and harder. Especially being a late ovulater, which I know some of you are, it is like a whole extra week of failure and depression before becoming fertile and hopeful again. I felt lucky to at least have a predictable cycle and ovulation though. Then this month happened, I went on vacation and was sick the whole time, and my temps are abnormally low. Maybe the antibiotics and steroids interfered, but I have been done with those for a few days now, it is CD 26 and my temps went up a little yesterday but are still not to my normal cover line. I have been having EWCM, but no idea of I ovulated or not. DH and I have been struggling with BDing, I hate that it has become a chore, still enjoyable, but sometimes we are just so tired, but know we have to do it.
Sorry for the novel, but it is just one of my rough days on this journey. Good luck to all of you. Congrats on the BFPs, I hope all of your pregnancies are going beautifully.