I think it helps just to know what's going on poco - if
you know and
he knows what's going on, it can really help to diffuse things
Mr Urch was warned that I would most probably get monster PMT from all the hormones I'm on, so he doesn't take it to heart if I am grumpy with him
and it helps me to understand that I'm not cross because he's doing anything dreadful, it's just hormones
Having said that, Mr Urch is a bit of a wind-up merchant, which I am normally very good at rising above - but lately I have found myself saying quite a lot
'Are you
sure you want to go on a wind-up mission tonight? cuz if you do, please don't be surprised if it works!'
which is usually enough to get him to back off a bit
)