Anyone never had a bfp?

[chefamy1122]

me

 

[ald]

OMG I didnt realise there was so many of us here who had never had a it has totally amazed me.

 

[sparkle83]

I was on my 3rd clomid cycle, and then m/c'd. Same again on 6th cycle. The last time I got pg was an accident (withdrawal methid without withdrawal lol), ovulating on cd#83, and got strong BFP on standard and digital test (this was when they first came out and were in two pieces, and no conception indicator!). Seeing it in words is amazing. However, it did make that loss harder.

 

[WendyB]

ive never had one either, i think i would be in shock and not believe it till the Dr tells me that it is real.

 

[Ilove]

Never seen one. Not even a hint of a line

 

[Mendy]

I've never seen one either after 22 long months of trying. Even after 3 IUI's with Clomid and a round of IVF, still nothing. Makes me think I'll never get one, and if I do, I will probably not believe it! LOL!!!

 

[Kelly9]

I have never had a BFP I think I would pass out or not believe the pee stick and have to take like 30 of them like in the movie knocked up just to make sure it was real! I can see screaming and crying and jumping up and down then calling all those family members that have been there for us then I would log onto BnB and type it away to tell everyone else there. We should keep this thread open for first times who do get their BFP's so we can compare how they think they will react to how they actually do!

 

[Jasmine79]

I have also never seen a BFP. If i ever see one I think I will break down and cry! And I totally agree to the fact that I might as well as not used any bcp's when I was in uni bs I probably didnt need them anyways.
:=(

 

[chocci]

ME! I have bought 3 in my whole life and i am 33. 1 was when i was about 24 and had a freak late period, of only a day but was neg. I bought one when trying to concieve early on and used it when i again had a period 1 day late this xmas. the last one i bought is a set of 2 which i only got as i had been through ICSI and thought i stood a chance

Dont see the point in early testing i find it totally pointless and dont understand why people test all the time???

I have always been uber careful so never had a reason to worry besides been with my partner 11 years and we recently found out he has probs so shoulda not bothered using any contraception!!! haha Hindsight is great isnt it! x

 

[chocci]

Oh and all 3 were BFN - i feel i will never erver see a BFP

 

[Farie]

Nope, not a sausage, not even a hint of a line, not in 2 long years ................

 

[chocci]

I've given up even testing now! One month I made the fatal mistake of using a CB with conception indicator... now one solitary line is painful enough but seeing in black and white NOT PREGNANT is devastating!!

I reckon my secret stash of frers will have gone out of date by the time I need them!!!

xx

I agree i used a clear blue digital and it was the longest hour glass flashing 3 mins of my life to se NOT PREGNANT i just cried instantly! I would rather use traditional line next time! x

 

[Smurfette]

Never had one either but I live in hope. I agree about not testing automatically each month as I think it would completely destroy all my hope and drive me utterly insane.

Coming up to 23 months of ttc and have now decided to take a more relaxed approach to it as every other day without fail does not seem to be getting us anywhere so here's hoping I finally get to experience the elusive soon.

Not sure how I'll react but crying and being unable to speak are the most likely reactions I think coupled with complete disbelief.

for everyone in the hope that we'll all get our soon!
xxxx

 

[MrsR32]

I've never had one either (13 cycles of TTC) and I don't think I'll believe it until I actually see something on a scan or hear a heartbeat!

 

[cazhd]

In 2 years i've never seen that , i think when i finally see it i will faint or something i certainly won't believe it.

 

[chocci]

After 2 years nearly for me TTC, i think i will just worry all way through pregnancy now, ai worry through 2ww for pos result and if i get that i will worry until 12 weeks until "safer" trimester then i will worry through that about anything going wrong until birth then as it gets near to birth i will worry about the birth then when its born i will worry about being a mother and taking baby home on my own then i will worry about my child forver...........i think i need to chill out haha

 

[BizyBee]

Nope, nothing for me. I may faint if I ever see a pink line...

 

[kristy87]

ive never had one either. 3 and a half years, and never even an evap!

 

[Ilove]

ive never had one either. 3 and a half years, and never even an evap!

Its strange how often people over in the "regular" ttc forums get these mysterious evaps...Ive never seen one either! Just old fashioned absolutely blankness No guessing needed

 

[Millnsy]

Nope - Never - Ever - Not a hint... Its just not fair...