Anyone never had a bfp?

[manchester1]

just the sodding one line.........every month for me!!! cb digital are horrific you have to wait WAY to long!!!

 

[ald]

I am totally amazed at how many people have never seen those 2 lines, I really thought that there was only a few of us that had never had 2 lines.

There was a thread in 1st tri a few days ago asking how long it took the ladies to get there 1st bfp, as a TTC ladies was on her 4th month of trying and was starting to worry something was wrong etc. I really do hope everyone who is TTC gets there bfp very soon, but guess I am so jelouse of people now. I feel I have waited way over the average time, made all the changes I should, pumped my body with all sorts of stuff and still nothing ::

I remember thinking when we first started TTC that the average takes 6 months so if it doesnt happen this month it must happen next month, how wrong was I!!!

What do we have to do to see those lines?

 

[wishn2Bmom]

13 months and counting with no for me.... ever. I am pretty sure when that day finally comes I will be convinced i'm hallucinating

 

[chocci]

I think i will be sectioned! Dragged off in a white coat to a little padded cell!! haha

 

[chocci]

BUT i will have a smile on my face hehehee

 

[manchester1]

i want to see two sodding bloody lines!!!!!!!!!!
hahahahaha.....

 

[Nathyrra]

Thanks for this thread.

Was feeling like a right billy-no-lines

Never had a second line. Sucks.

 

[inayab]

First time i has a i rang my sis said i thought i had a she told me to drive to her house, i nearly crashed my car (scraped it along another car) took another two tests which confirmed then rang everyone. And have still got that test stored away safe lol I know sick but couldn't help it.

 

[genkigemini]

In ten years, I never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever had a second line.

When I did get it, I started SCREAMING my husbands name from the bathroom. He thought the freaking house was on fire!

 

[ald]

Thanks for this thread.

Was feeling like a right billy-no-lines

Never had a second line. Sucks.

I know what you mean about feeling like a billy-no-lines and it sucks!!!! When will it be our turn?

I feel that as I have never seen those lines I am not going to ever be able to get pregnant as my body has never done it so far.

This is soooo depressing!

 

[BigFoot1980]

3+ years and never seen the 2nd line

 

[vineyard]

I went 15 cycles without seeing double lines. 2 of those were IUIs and then finally got my after my first IVF. I actually didn't POAS though until after I knew the blood work was positive. The only time I actually POAS was during my IUIs. The first 12 months I just didn't test. Figured I would know when the time came and then it never came and I didn't want to disappoint myself by always seeing a single line.

 

[chocci]

I went 15 cycles without seeing double lines. 2 of those were IUIs and then finally got my after my first IVF. I actually didn't POAS though until after I knew the blood work was positive. The only time I actually POAS was during my IUIs. The first 12 months I just didn't test. Figured I would know when the time came and then it never came and I didn't want to disappoint myself by always seeing a single line.

I agree with the no testing until actually late period, i never have done either until really at least a day late apart from during my ICSI. Like you I dont see the point really, though in my year TTC naturally before we knew of hubs probs i was desperate to even get to a day late to at least be able to even think i was preg, but AF always came on time if not day earlier

Cant wait to see a BFP think i would pass out!!

 

[Kelly9]

I don't test either, never did very much in the first year before we knew about problems... just waited and now for sure I don't. I would if I got a day longer then my usual lp but that has never happened. I would scream like a silly little girl and jump up and down (delicately) if I did get one though.

 

[555ann555]

I've given up even testing now! One month I made the fatal mistake of using a CB with conception indicator... now one solitary line is painful enough but seeing in black and white NOT PREGNANT is devastating!!

I reckon my secret stash of frers will have gone out of date by the time I need them!!!

xx

I just did that to myself

I think I'm going to keep the second one from the pack for when I actually *know* I'm pregnant from a lab test... I imagine it'll be nice to see then, but seeing "not pregnant" hurt.

 

[555ann555]

After 2 years nearly for me TTC, i think i will just worry all way through pregnancy now, ai worry through 2ww for pos result and if i get that i will worry until 12 weeks until "safer" trimester then i will worry through that about anything going wrong until birth then as it gets near to birth i will worry about the birth then when its born i will worry about being a mother and taking baby home on my own then i will worry about my child forver...........i think i need to chill out haha

I think the exact same! I think I'll worry like crazy that it won't last, but I'm kind of like that anyway (like I bought a new car last week, but was terrified I'd crash my old car before I traded it in and not be able to afford the new car after all! Guess I'm a born worrier!)

I'm sure I'll have trouble believing it... But at this point it wouldn just be so good to see those lines... I've never been pregnant & like a lot of you I've been on contracepion for years, 15 in my case! (I either sound ancient or slutty!)

 

[chocci]

I've given up even testing now! One month I made the fatal mistake of using a CB with conception indicator... now one solitary line is painful enough but seeing in black and white NOT PREGNANT is devastating!!

I reckon my secret stash of frers will have gone out of date by the time I need them!!!

xx

I just did that to myself

I think I'm going to keep the second one from the pack for when I actually *know* I'm pregnant from a lab test... I imagine it'll be nice to see then, but seeing "not pregnant" hurt.

I so agree, after my failed ICSI that was the longest 3 mins of my life and really really hurt, not sure it would be any less painful with a normal test though? Next time i think i may start testing from around 6dpo so at least i see the HCG drug on the test and then its just a case of seeing it fade away....which of course it WONT do cos i will be preggers hahaha XX

 

[HAYS]

I've longed to see two lines on a test for what feels like a lifetime!! I reckon when I finally do, I wont believe it atall, will probably take 5 more tests for it to actually sink in!!xx

 

[Nicnac]

Just over two years of trying and can't even summon up an evap line!

Stopped buying Digi's due to expense and missing out on the scrutinising, sending myself blind staring for lines!! Glutton for punishment.

 

[jeanettekaren]

2+ years for me, I don't even bother testing anymore