Anyone never had a bfp?

[puppymom32]

With my first three 1 tubal and 2 MC I didnt test I just had a lot of pains and went to the dr only to find out too late. This last time 5 years after first MC I actually got to take a test. I couldnt believe it so I took like 3 afraid it was a chemical or something. Only to go to my five week scan and find out the baby was in the tube. Bummer I kinda wish I hadnt had that excitement to have it all taken away from me. I think it kinda hurt more and now I probably wont ever be able to be excited again about a BFP for fear of what next.

 

[hopeful4baby]

I have had 2 BFPs in the past inwhere if either them worked, I couldn't have been one of those lucky woman who never know our pain, but I lost both of them around the same time. Getting a second BFP was not at all an exciting, we just sat there quietly praying it won't happen again and it did. So devastating.

And since then it's been 2+ years without it completely.

to everyone!

 

[puppymom32]

hopeful,
I totally know how you feel I am so afraid to even test!!

 

[ald]

How sad is this - I had the HCG jab to ovulate and 7 dpo I decided to POAS just to see those 2 lines - Nope nothing - couldnt even see a slight second line with an HCG jab, i even tried all different angles against light, in front of white paper and nothing what does that tell you!!!!! lol

 

[chocci]

How sad is this - I had the HCG jab to ovulate and 7 dpo I decided to POAS just to see those 2 lines - Nope nothing - couldnt even see a slight second line with an HCG jab, i even tried all different angles against light, in front of white paper and nothing what does that tell you!!!!! lol

I read another girl doing IVF on here who decided to test early for same reason and she too had negative reading!! Its not fair is it

 

[Zipp]

Four years and not even flippin hint of a BFP. Who knew two straight lines could be so exciting and elusive.

 

[TrixieLox]

Over a year and a half and zilch. It's crazy. I can't even imagine how I'll react if ever I get a BFP. I think I'll have a cardiac arrest. No, I'm serious.

But equally, I pray I don't get one only to be devestated with a m/c. I know, if I get a BFP, I won't celebrate too earnestly until I get past the 12 week scan. x

 

[Blue12]

I have never had one in 3 years - not even a faint line to hold up to a light.

I start to feel like it never will happen.

It seems like those commercials for the tests sell false hope....find out so many days sooner...........blah...

If i ever get a falso positive I will be devastated.......I know they are rare.........but......anyway

 

[Nightnurse]

I too have been with my BF for ten years and been TTC maybe about 8 years and never got a BFP,only have took one last year(too expensive over here) and almost had a stroke thinking what if it came out BFP,caol you imagine when i do get one?

 

[JASMAK]

almost five years without birth control (2.5 of ACTIVELY ttc) and in there THREE BFP's...only to suffer miserably with miscarriages with ALL of them. I would rather have no BFP. I hope we ALL get our sticky BFP very soon, and lots of hugs to ALL of us!

 

[Ena]

I have been TTC from the last 4 ½ years. Even after 3 IUI and 1 ICSI I still have not had the pleasure of a single BFP.

It’s so frustrating especially when everyone else around me seems to be able to fall pregnant without even trying……….


to all of you

 

[brumbar]

what?pee sticks that give you 2 lines...where do they sell those?
I even dismantled one once to make sure the second line isn't hiding underneath somewhere and simply isnt strong enough to show itself. We've always used just the pull out method....i wonder why we bothered...should've let the boy have fun....