anyone over 35 going for fertility treatments this year? IUI, IVF etc

[Desperado167]

 

[Redclaire]

me too !! big hugs xxxx

 

[onmymind17]

Sarah, i am lurking and praying for a great beta number for you today!! Congrats momma!!

 

[sarahincanada]

negative

well its actually a '6' and '5' is negative, so I have to go again tomorrow to make sure its going down...its not going to go up (theres no hope there at all), so something must have tried to happen but not continued. I just cant believe that those frer picked up something so faint

obviously dissappointed but I was keeping guarded as my tests werent all that dark so I had a feeling. THANK GOD I have the frosties otherwise I would feel a lot worse. the good news is I can go home for christmas (I wasnt going to fly if pregnant) then do my FET in January. January will be a busy month, how many others will be joining me that month?

thanks everyone for the support and dont feel bad for me....Im truely ok and just need a day feeling sorry for myself then will be positive for the next try!

 

[dachsundmom]

 

[NorthStar]

so sorry Sarah, but glad that there are other chances for you with the little frosties

 

[MommyToBeIsMe]

Sarah

 

[hockey24]

Sarah - I'm so sorry and so thankful that you have frozen embies to use in January.

So for me, I'm hoping IVF can help narrow down where the problem is - if there is a problem. So for you, clearly you can create lots of good eggs and there is no problem with fertilization as you had great results!! What do the doctors think of how the entire process went and would they do anything different the next time?

My biggest fear for me - is that for some reason I have implantation issues and that's why I have never had a BFP. So I'm curious if going through IVF helps to answer any concerns or as I suspect - it just wasn't right this time?

 

[OvenBunWanted]

Sorry to hear the news Sarah You're attitude is awesome and it's so wonderful that you have those little frosties... FXed for you darling

 

[sarahincanada]

Sarah - I'm so sorry and so thankful that you have frozen embies to use in January.

So for me, I'm hoping IVF can help narrow down where the problem is - if there is a problem. So for you, clearly you can create lots of good eggs and there is no problem with fertilization as you had great results!! What do the doctors think of how the entire process went and would they do anything different the next time?

My biggest fear for me - is that for some reason I have implantation issues and that's why I have never had a BFP. So I'm curious if going through IVF helps to answer any concerns or as I suspect - it just wasn't right this time?

I suppose I will never know if they were healthy blasts that didnt implant, or blasts that just stopped growing...this is something I dont think they will know either as my lining was good. I can book a review apt, but I probably wont see her before my FET in January so I think I will wait and see if the FET works then have a review. I feel pretty hopeful that at least 1 of the 10 will result in a baby! theres so many 2nd time success stories in the assisted folder....bfn first time then twins on 2nd, its so random!

 

[GreenFingers]

Oh Sarah I'm so sorry, well I'm going to be disappointed for you, stupid tests giving you false hope!

At least you have your chance again in January, it's going to be one busy ivf month! Relax and try and enjoy the festive season so you are in the best possible health come January.

Sending you lots of love and hugs x x

 

[readyformore]

I'm so sorry Sarah.

Let yourself cry honey. It's great to have a good attitude, but it's also ok to be upset and grieve.

 

[hockey24]

Sarah - I'm so sorry and so thankful that you have frozen embies to use in January.

So for me, I'm hoping IVF can help narrow down where the problem is - if there is a problem. So for you, clearly you can create lots of good eggs and there is no problem with fertilization as you had great results!! What do the doctors think of how the entire process went and would they do anything different the next time?

My biggest fear for me - is that for some reason I have implantation issues and that's why I have never had a BFP. So I'm curious if going through IVF helps to answer any concerns or as I suspect - it just wasn't right this time?

I suppose I will never know if they were healthy blasts that didnt implant, or blasts that just stopped growing...this is something I dont think they will know either as my lining was good. I can book a review apt, but I probably wont see her before my FET in January so I think I will wait and see if the FET works then have a review. I feel pretty hopeful that at least 1 of the 10 will result in a baby! theres so many 2nd time success stories in the assisted folder....bfn first time then twins on 2nd, its so random!

That is great news to hear! I forgot there were 10 - which is amazing!!! And I haven't read through all of the IVF stories yet so I'm very happy to hear the 2nd time success stories.

Enjoy the holidays with your family and on to 2012 for a fresh new start!!

 

[Natsby]

 

[LLbean]

So sorry to hear Sarah...and yes you have tons of Frosties so YEY!!!!!!!

I will be joining you on IVF in January as well!!!

FXd! and bring on the twins for our second tries!!!!

 

[Hopefulmom12]

Sarah - so sorry to hear your news. Great attitude though. Just the sort of realism mixed with optimism that we all need and can gain strength from.

I hope your break over the holidays is a good one. No one likes post-poning (I lost September and October that way) but sometimes it happens.

 

[crystal443]

So sorry Sarah...there's so many emotions riding on IVF its very devestating when it doesn't work. So glad you ended up with some frosties to use I'll be trying IVF in January again as well Let's hope the New Year brings all of us our BFP's

 

[sarahincanada]

So sorry to hear Sarah...and yes you have tons of Frosties so YEY!!!!!!!

I will be joining you on IVF in January as well!!!

FXd! and bring on the twins for our second tries!!!!

it will be nice to go through it all together, even though my protocol will be a bit different. so thats 3 of us, any more?

 

[dachsundmom]

Sarah, there was a thread in the HPT forum, where the FR picked up HCG of 4miu....it was confirmed by a beta, as well.

 

[sarahincanada]

Sarah, there was a thread in the HPT forum, where the FR picked up HCG of 4miu....it was confirmed by a beta, as well.

wow! I didnt test today but I tested last night which was the day of beta and my line was the same, so crazy it would pick up a 6 and it wasnt that light ...I had some real squinters in the middle of the week when I think the trigger had almost gone.