anyone over 35 going for fertility treatments this year? IUI, IVF etc

[readyformore]

I'm going with cd14. I can only once recall ovulating on cd13. I just know that it's too early.

As it is, without femara, last month, O was on cd15 or possibly 16. So, even with IUI on cd14, if I O on cd 16, the jizz will be dead anyway. May as well go for cd14 and pray the egg drops later that day, or on cd15. With my ds, I had IUI and about 6 hours later, I O'd. I know through temping and the fact that I was nearly doubled over from the O pain.

Hopefully, next month, I will be able to get the timing just right. That is providing my body responds to femara the same each month.

 

[readyformore]

Can I just say that I love you Sarah!

Thanks for the post about correcting the message of 'hope'. All those messages ever do is remind me of how abnormal I am.

 

[readyformore]

Have you decided for sure to do 1 this cycle Sarah? It seemed like you were leaning in that direction.

yes! it feels weird when everyone else choses 2 or more, but I feel its best for me right now. I was googling SET last night and found that in europe some countries have a law to only transfer one, and that overall pregnancy rates are the same whether you do 1 or more. It just takes longer when you are doing 1, but the rates are more or less the same. It will be a lesson in patience for me, but at least if I get a bfn I know I can try again 2 weeks later.

just hope my blasts survive the defrost, Im so lucky to have a good number to start with.

when will your iui be?

. sounds like a good plan. Singleton pregnancies are preferred by far.

What is the % of successful defrost?

I think I am going to shoot for IUI on cd14. Hopefully, this month will give me an idea of exactly when I do O, then maybe next month will have perfect timing.

 

[dachsundmom]

Can I just say that I love you Sarah!

Thanks for the post about correcting the message of 'hope'. All those messages ever do is remind me of how abnormal I am.

 

[dachsundmom]

So much for that...the doc's office just called me....my beta was 575 at 4+2, which they say is low and he wants a repeat tomorrow.

This is exactly where I didn't want to go....

 

[LLbean]

So much for that...the doc's office just called me....my beta was 575 at 4+2, which they say is low and he wants a repeat tomorrow.

This is exactly where I didn't want to go....

Oh no.... Well I hope tomorrow your numbers shut him up again

 

[readyformore]

His jizz was low too.

You are NOT allowed to panic!!

 

[dachsundmom]

They are telling me the numbers are more like 2-3 weeks...there is no way I OV that late. And, I can't find a stupid scale to try and figure this shit out.

I am telling you, they weren't supposed to tell me.

 

[readyformore]

Breath in, breath out. Then go get a coke, or a few.

 

[dachsundmom]

Every scale I can find on the net says I am right in range....so, hell if I know.

But, thank you.

 

[sarahincanada]

Can I just say that I love you Sarah!

Thanks for the post about correcting the message of 'hope'. All those messages ever do is remind me of how abnormal I am.

I feel like a bit of a b**ch replying like that, but I feel if they can write their hope I can write my negative reply!! I tend to stick to my subscribed threads now but somehow I stumbled upon that one

have you noticed they are always 'drive by' messages of hope, I suppose they have to be 'drive by' people as anyone that spends any time in this section would know not to write that, as the majority are not getting their bfps quickly.

 

[sarahincanada]

So much for that...the doc's office just called me....my beta was 575 at 4+2, which they say is low and he wants a repeat tomorrow.

This is exactly where I didn't want to go....

urghhh sorry you got the number Im no expert but I cant see how 575 is low and supposed to be 2-3 weeks, dont most betas start off in the 50-250 range and thats when someone is 4 weeks as they just missed their period???

 

[readyformore]

That's what I would think Sarah.

Hey, maybe the people that entered the result, were the same compentent staff that refused to handle the jizz.

 

[dachsundmom]

I am going to try and clarify if with the lab tomorrow...IDK if they are counting LMP or DPO.


Sigh, lol.

 

[sarahincanada]

I am going to try and clarify if with the lab tomorrow...IDK if they are counting LMP or DPO.


Sigh, lol.

regardless of lmp or dpo, if you are 4 weeks and 2 days I dont see how that can be low. urghhhh im so annoyed, as you didnt want to know the number and especially didnt want his opinion on it. if he had just said 575 I would be jumping up and down as that seems high to me

 

[dachsundmom]

 

[readyformore]

Just go POAS again, (I know you have a stockpile). Those 2 lines will make you happy.

 

[LLbean]

Brooke, your doctor keeps giving me the creeps...I swear!!! Can I just go slap him around a bit?

 

[dachsundmom]

I am getting a new one, after he scans me next week. Can't do this anymore.

 

[crystal443]

So much for that...the doc's office just called me....my beta was 575 at 4+2, which they say is low and he wants a repeat tomorrow.

This is exactly where I didn't want to go....

Let's hope its a high number so you don't have to repeat the bloods again

LL-You are an egg machine and I wouldn't be a bit surprised if you grew 2 more eggs in one day You go for it girl and get as many eggs as possible

Ready-Let's hope you don't need to go down the IUI road next cycle and this will be it for you

Sara- I had a good go at someone on here awhile ago over unexplained infertility...she had a poll going about reasons for unexplained infertilty and I think her top reasons were age, being overwieght and a few other ridiculous reasons. She had been trying for a few months I think Anyway I had a go at her I didn't really care if I got told off because #1 I'm not a child and #2 why would baby and bump let someone post false information?? The hope thread I'd like to completley eliminate those from ever being typed again...as Ready said it only makes me feel more broken, you have a right to type a thread in response