Sweetmama26
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Ok what to tell you.... I started dating him when I was 22 and he was 36 , yes yes I know there is quite the age gap there but I'd been best friends with his brother Jason who was around my age for 4 years prior to us dating. I'd had relationships with other men, whom I thought I was in love with because I was naive and even though they abused me I thought that they loved me and that's what love was, well I had moved in with his youngest brother Jason after leaving my first child's father. My first child was given up for adoption because of his father's abuse and death threats. So I got to know him then, he was married at the time so we just chatted here and there when I seen him. Well I ended up dating his middle brother Mike, and we only dated for a short while but I was going through a rough time so I ended up moving in with Mike and sleeping on his couch. Jason and his wife at the time ( who also happens to be my best friend as well) were also living with Mike. Now Paul (that's his name) was living in Saskatoon, Saskatchewan (a province away) at the time but he was working in Edmonton. It's a 4 hour drive so he would work 10 days on and get 4 off. Well around the time I was living with Mike and sleeping on his couch Paul's marriage was starting to dissolve and so he and I used to have super long chats at night after he'd get home from work and everyone else had gone to bed. In the 18 months before we had started dating we became really close. In this time I had been dating and engaged to Corrie's (Paul's youngest brother's wife at the time) brother whose name is Micheal and became pregnant. Well he ended up cheating on me so I broke up with him and I really wasn't mentally in a place at that time to be having a baby so I ended up giving the baby up for adoption too. There is a really long story behind it that I really don't wish to get into at the moment. Well at the time I had become pregnant I really just decided I needed time to myself so I ended up separating myself from Paul and Mike. Well just after I had, had my 2nd child I ended up getting a text message to my email asking how I was and what I had been up to and if Paul could take me out so we could talk. I emailed back and told him NO problem. So that night he picked me up and we went back to his newly purchased home. Well we ended up watching a movie and talking all night and I ended up falling asleep at 4 am. He carried me to his bed and we cuddle for the rest of the night until we woke up that afternoon. I ended up staying the whole weekend and we had our first real date a week later where he took me to the exhibition that was on and wound up spending close to $1000 on me. Our relationship can only be described as whirlwind and I fell for him very fast. It wasn't hard he was one of my best friends for the longest time. Well around the year mark he decided that he and I at that time were on way different pages, I had a lot of growing up to do, he knew I had the potential because he'd seen me through some of the worst times a person could ever go through. Our relationship was very bumpy due to the fact I have depression issues and I was going through a lot. It was very hard on him but he held me up and helped me through it. When he felt I was ready to do the rest of the journey to finding myself on my own he told me that we had to part ways. There were things he wanted to do but he couldn't do with me. That break up was by far the hardest I have ever been through. It took me a year to actually accept that we were over and we may never be again. But it's taken me 3 years to get over him and I'm still not fully over him. He had been in a relationship with a woman whom I REALLY dislike and who he was not happy with and everyone could tell he wasn't happy. Well about 3 weeks ago he started emailing me non-stop, up till this point he and I only had contact once every couple of weeks for maybe a day or two until we would stop talking because he drives tow truck so he is very busy and doesn't have a lot of time. Well the last 3 weeks it's been non-stop and it's not just asking about life, it's talking about us, and how he wishes we were together, sending me dirty pictures. Just stuff I know if he was in a relationship he would not do. So we just decided yesterday to try and make this work. It will be hard because at this point we're on opposite ends of the country and so I won't get to see him often but I do talk to him everyday. So I'm cautiously hopeful that this will be the start of our forever.
Oh and thanks for the birthday wishes!
Oh and thanks for the birthday wishes!
no krystal you have not! i'm going to have to look that one up. 
thanks for the sweet wishes gossip. 
i get a smile on my face when i see your preggo ticker. eek! i hope i'm next! my husband said the sweetest thing to me yesterday. he said "you make me happier a million miles away than anyone has ever made me face to face" 
i've already got my referral to the off post fertility specialist here in germany just waiting for word back from my insurance to see which ones they cover and what my next steps are. i'm pretty stoked!
