April ‘baby’ showers 2020

[motherofboys]

You're not going on, that is what we are here for.

 

[baby D]

We will be here waiting on your news and sending you lots of positive thoughts Star xx

 

[RoseM87]

Really hope things are going okay, Star! That's so scary!

I have been mega paranoid myself the last few days as well. My boobs aren't hurting as much. I'm still getting nausea almost constantly throughout the day, but I'm starting to think: what if it's me making myself sick with nerves? I have a scan tomorrow (should be about 8 weeks) and it's really freaking me out because 8 weeks is when the embryo stopped developing last time. If you have any kind of miscarriage I think it really takes all the fun out of early pregnancy because you're always thinking the worst can happen.

 

[thexfadingpat]

Hi. May I join you all?
Due April 1st with my 3rd.

 

[beclou94]

I've just woken up in tears from an absolutely awful dream that I lost the baby. Jeeze, that was horrible! X

 

[swedengirl]

You’re not going on star- it’s what we are here for!! Really thinking of you today and hope your scan ends in promising news.

Sorry everyone is feeling a bit anxious! It’s not fun. Beclou it’s crazy how much dreams can effect you. They can put me in a bad mood all day! I hope everyone (including myself) starts to feel calmer soon.

 

[motherofboys]

Welcome thexfadingpat.
Rose I know what you mean. I'm 5 weeks, and that's when my loss was last time, I'm hoping that once I make it to 6 weeks I feel a little better, but like you say the fun is taken out of it. With my older ones I never even considered anything could ever happen to me.
I'm not feeling as many symptoms this morning so automatically think the worse.

Beclou how horrible, dreams can be so realistic.

 

[baby D]

Aww ladies we are feeling so anxious which isn’t nice for us! Star I really hope your scan goes well today!

Rose my boobs have stopped feeling so sore too and though I should be thankful, I’m not as it was reassuring!

The first 12 weeks in the hardest so they say!

 

[star25]

Sorry for the late update ladies
But...we still have a heartbeat!
Really can’t believe it
The bleed has got bigger though, it’s a bit bigger than 2cmx2cmx4mm
It can still bleed more and can still cause a miscarriage but again we’re ok for now
I’ve got a scan at the fertility clinic next Tuesday so epu have given me a copy of my notes and more scan photos to take so they can see what has been going on. Epu said it’s unlikely they will scanned me again before then (unless something drastic happens)
I’ve currently got a migraine so after not feeling anything yesterday, today the symptoms are back, lots of nausea and now the migraine which I can’t take anymore paracetamol until 6pm as I’ve taken 4 doses already since 6pm last night for the cramps arghh!
This little one is a fighter

I hope you’re all ok today

Welcome thex to the thread

Rose, how was your scan?

 

[baby D]

Yes Star!! So happy and relieved for you! Try to sleep off that migraine x

 

[motherofboys]

So pleased little one is hanging in there star.

 

[swedengirl]

What a little fighter star! So glad to hear there is still a heartbeat!

 

[star25]

Thank you ladies, so relieved to see little one again, probably will carry on bleeding until it heals or dissolves but for now it has stopped
Hope you’re all well

 

[beclou94]

So relieved for you star, what a little fighter you have there! X

 

[swedengirl]

So evening sickness has started for me. This is a bit different from DD. Then I was sick all day and night. Right now I’m pretty ok until 16.00ish and then nausea hits bad. No vomiting yet though thank god!

 

[motherofboys]

My sickness wasn't as bad this morning and I was just panicking that I realised I wasn't as tired when I realised I've been rushing about all day and will probably feel it when I sit down and I was actually very tired before lunch time today. My boobs are still sore, I'm still bloating. I need to relax. Although I just changed the ink in my pen, it stained my fingers a lovely pinky purple, which I then caught sight of when I went to the toilet and thought was pink blood

 

[RoseM87]

Oh Star, that's such a huge relief!! I'm so happy for you!

My scan is in a few hours and I basically haven't slept all night because I'm so nervous about it. I'm convinced my symptoms are fading and I'm having seriously upsetting flashbacks to the last time I got a scan when they said there was no heartbeat. I wish I could basically take a whole lot of valium beforehand haha! I'm taking my mum with me as she's a bit more helpful than my OH... Well, either way I'll know in about 4 hours.

 

[beclou94]

Oh Star, that's such a huge relief!! I'm so happy for you!

My scan is in a few hours and I basically haven't slept all night because I'm so nervous about it. I'm convinced my symptoms are fading and I'm having seriously upsetting flashbacks to the last time I got a scan when they said there was no heartbeat. I wish I could basically take a whole lot of valium beforehand haha! I'm taking my mum with me as she's a bit more helpful than my OH... Well, either way I'll know in about 4 hours.

Good luck! I'm sure everything is absolutely fine, but I completely understand your worry.. I'm a nervous wreck at the minute! Can't wait for the update. x

 

[beclou94]

I tested.. AGAIN! I really need to stop worrying. x

 

[motherofboys]

Good luck Rose!

Your line looks so good now beclou