April bfp....please!

[yellowduck]

Try not to let it upset you. Leave her to it, hide her updates on FB etc. it could be any number of reasons why she is like she is, maybe she's fighting her own private battle in her personal life, maybe she's shy or not good in social situations, maybe she has issues she wanted to sort out before getting pregnant.

I'm not married or engaged either but we have a very strong relationship. My OH doesn't want to get married for various reasons even though I was brought up very traditionally, it doesn't mean that I don't deserve a baby though, I hope I'll be a great mother whether married or not.

Hugs sharris I hope the shower goes well. Try not to let it upset you x

 

[Sharris]

I don't think anyone doesn't deserve a baby, it's just frustrating feeling like I did it backwards, I only know two couples near my age that were married first.. my banana is a single mom 3 times over. My cousin has always been snobby towards me, I never understood, and lately she's made it seemas though she's not even happy, I rarely see happy posts, unlike her big sis, sorry to rant, I think it's just one of those days, I started crying earlier, because I kept dropping stuff >.< I called my mil and we are going shopping for my cousin, my mil always puts a smile on my face. Either I'm finally pregnant, or af is coming... I went from sad to Pissed to crying in 5mins flat!

 

[yellowduck]

I don't think anyone doesn't deserve a baby, it's just frustrating feeling like I did it backwards, I only know two couples near my age that were married first.. my banana is a single mom 3 times over. My cousin has always been snobby towards me, I never understood, and lately she's made it seemas though she's not even happy, I rarely see happy posts, unlike her big sis, sorry to rant, I think it's just one of those days, I started crying earlier, because I kept dropping stuff >.< I called my mil and we are going shopping for my cousin, my mil always puts a smile on my face. Either I'm finally pregnant, or af is coming... I went from sad to Pissed to crying in 5mins flat!

You poor thing! I hate it when I'm feeling like that.
That's probably it, she's unhappy and so is horrible to everyone! try not to take it personally.
Have a lovely time with your mil!

 

[Mummy to be x]

Hi girls. Ah Sharris huge hugs like yellow duck said, try not to let it bother you, I hope you have a nice time anyway. Xx

 

[Sharris]

I'm determined to now! I am so blessed to have my mil... I have yet to see her mean side in 5+ years! Thank you ladies so much, I think yall are right, idk if she's just being this way to me or everyone lol, I'm going, to show her I'm happy for her, and still love her, even if we are completely different, she's designer shades and duds, and her big sis and I are thrift store bargain queens lol!

 

[Mummy to be x]

I'm determined to now! I am so blessed to have my mil... I have yet to see her mean side in 5+ years! Thank you ladies so much, I think yall are right, idk if she's just being this way to me or everyone lol, I'm going, to show her I'm happy for her, and still love her, even if we are completely different, she's designer shades and duds, and her big sis and I are thrift store bargain queens lol!

smile and just keep calm Hun, let us know how you get on!!

 

[yellowduck]

I'm determined to now! I am so blessed to have my mil... I have yet to see her mean side in 5+ years! Thank you ladies so much, I think yall are right, idk if she's just being this way to me or everyone lol, I'm going, to show her I'm happy for her, and still love her, even if we are completely different, she's designer shades and duds, and her big sis and I are thrift store bargain queens lol!

Ahh, she's lucky to have you as a cousin, like mummy to be says, let us know how you get on!

 

[Sharris]

Ok, I hope this works! Here are my non registry selections for my cousin, I truly hope she likes them... Pics later of what mil bought for her future grandbaby lol!!!

 

[jzgrace]

Hi Ladies, mind if I join you all?

Hi sharris, what's up! How many dpo?

 

[jzgrace]

I don't think anyone doesn't deserve a baby, it's just frustrating feeling like I did it backwards, I only know two couples near my age that were married first.. my banana is a single mom 3 times over. My cousin has always been snobby towards me, I never understood, and lately she's made it seemas though she's not even happy, I rarely see happy posts, unlike her big sis, sorry to rant, I think it's just one of those days, I started crying earlier, because I kept dropping stuff >.< I called my mil and we are going shopping for my cousin, my mil always puts a smile on my face. Either I'm finally pregnant, or af is coming... I went from sad to Pissed to crying in 5mins flat!

My email is not working right so I'm lost in this convo trying to catch up. I'm doing it backwards! I'm ttcand getting married in July! So with any luck I'll be walk-in down the isle With a bump.

 

[1stladyD]

Wow i just got married in March, we have been try since Aug last year.I think we have had delay due to me being on depo for so long. Fingers crossed that it didnt mess me up. but i started AF back immediately after not getting it, so my Obgyn says my body is awesome and it started getting back on track quick.

 

[Sharris]

Jzgrace hi! I'm not sure, I know I'm on CD50 now, my cycles average 35 days according to webmd, my af was due 3.22 I've taken 2 tests so far, both answer brand and both negative. :/ banana is what I call my best friend, and I've got a baby, shower in three hours, for my cousin, who doesn't seem too thrilled to be a first time mommy :/ I'm going anyway, and thanks to a couple ladies in here and my mil, just asked banana to tag along, fxed she can go!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Fxed you have to get an empire waist wedding dress to cover your bump!

 

[1stladyD]

Last night was another bad night for me, couldn't sleep at all, just cried. My back was aching soooo bad last night. I truly doubt that this is gas and AF never tortures me with back pain. BB's feel light bricks under my skin( TMI i know) but they do. I hope this isn't another let down. Age is really catching up on me and want another NOW!

 

[jzgrace]

Wow i just got married in March, we have been try since Aug last year.I think we have had delay due to me being on depo for so long. Fingers crossed that it didnt mess me up. but i started AF back immediately after not getting it, so my Obgyn says my body is awesome and it started getting back on track quick.

I read that 60% of women go back to normal shortly after BC. Others may take a little longer. Fx for your bfp!!

 

[1stladyD]

Do you have other kids already jzgrace?

 

[jzgrace]

Jzgrace hi! I'm not sure, I know I'm on CD50 now, my cycles average 35 days according to webmd, my af was due 3.22 I've taken 2 tests so far, both answer brand and both negative. :/ banana is what I call my best friend, and I've got a baby, shower in three hours, for my cousin, who doesn't seem too thrilled to be a first time mommy :/ I'm going anyway, and thanks to a couple ladies in here and my mil, just asked banana to tag along, fxed she can go!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Fxed you have to get an empire waist wedding dress to cover your bump!

Oh maybe ur cousin is depressed? Some girls get really depressed in pregnancy.
I talked to a girl who didn't get her bfp til 3 months pregnant! Have you had bloods done?
Thanx haha! My mom had a bump when her n my dad got married, she was pregnant with my twin brothers so hers was bigger than mine will.....unless!?
Have fun at ur shower! R u gonna play the poopie diapie game? That one is old but soooo much fun! And the pictures, oh the pictures!

 

[1stladyD]

Jzgrace hi! I'm not sure, I know I'm on CD50 now, my cycles average 35 days according to webmd, my af was due 3.22 I've taken 2 tests so far, both answer brand and both negative. :/ banana is what I call my best friend, and I've got a baby, shower in three hours, for my cousin, who doesn't seem too thrilled to be a first time mommy :/ I'm going anyway, and thanks to a couple ladies in here and my mil, just asked banana to tag along, fxed she can go!

Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! Fxed you have to get an empire waist wedding dress to cover your bump!

Oh maybe ur cousin is depressed? Some girls get really depressed in pregnancy.
I talked to a girl who didn't get her bfp til 3 months pregnant! Have you had bloods done?
Thanx haha! My mom had a bump when her n my dad got married, she was pregnant with my twin brothers so hers was bigger than mine will.....unless!?
Have fun at ur shower! R u gonna play the poopie diapie game? That one is old but soooo much fun! And the pictures, oh the pictures!

I dint get BFP with either of my kids until I was about 5-6mnths,of course i already new i was pg, but stick always gave BFN.

 

[jzgrace]

1stlady I have two 14 and 10. I am 34 will be 35 in June. Don't you worry about age ! It ain't no thang!! I read an article about age and fertility and all the bs they say about declining fertility with age is rhetoric! I can post the link if you want to read it. How old are you?
And I know how the crying is, I just started sobbing last night when talking to dh. H was like WHAT is wrong with you? Nicely tho. Lol you do seem to have signs of pregnancy. So just stay calm and all we can do is wait.

 

[1stladyD]

1stlady I have two 14 and 10. I am 34 will be 35 in June. Don't you worry about age ! It ain't no thang!! I read an article about age and fertility and all the bs they say about declining fertility with age is rhetoric! I can post the link if you want to read it. How old are you?
And I know how the crying is, I just started sobbing last night when talking to dh. H was like WHAT is wrong with you? Nicely tho. Lol you do seem to have signs of pregnancy. So just stay calm and all we can do is wait.

Im 29, I know sounds young. I have 11 and 6yr old. I had a plan to have 3rd before 30. I have plenty of time but getting tired of just sitting here

 

[jzgrace]

1stlady I have two 14 and 10. I am 34 will be 35 in June. Don't you worry about age ! It ain't no thang!! I read an article about age and fertility and all the bs they say about declining fertility with age is rhetoric! I can post the link if you want to read it. How old are you?
And I know how the crying is, I just started sobbing last night when talking to dh. H was like WHAT is wrong with you? Nicely tho. Lol you do seem to have signs of pregnancy. So just stay calm and all we can do is wait.

Im 29, I know sounds young. I have 11 and 6yr old. I had a plan to have 3rd before 30. I have plenty of time but getting tired of just sitting here

How do you know when you ovulate? Do you do a cervical mucus check? Or opk's? Or just kinda wing it?