Welcome to all the newcomers! So glad to see the group getting bigger and bigger!
MrsA22, some OBs don't check your hcg levels. I had mine checked with my last pregnancy because I was seeing an RE and doing fertility treatments. This time they didn't check them but did draw blood for a prenatal panel. Your story about keeping the pregnancy a secret from your dad is hilarious!!
mommyof2peas, I also had 3 blood draws for betas with my DS even though they were doubling properly. Mine were 47, 98, and then 220. At the time it made me paranoid thinking that they didn't like the numbers they were seeing, even though everything I read online said my numbers were great.
I'll definitely be finding out gender. I am just so impatient, there is no way I could wait! I don't care either way at all, but I'm kind of leaning towards thinking it may be a girl this time because DH had a dream awhile back and we had a boy and a girl and they were about 2 years apart according to him, haha. Also, every time I ask DS if he wants a baby brother or sister, he says "sissy".
I know MS can be a great sign that your hcg levels are high, but I had minimal MS with DS and I'm hoping it's the same this time around, although I've been having some queasy moments and my gag reflex has been out of control the last couple of days!