August I'm so sorry, I wish I could give you some words to make you feel better but there are none, so glad DH is there for you, and cupcakes can do a world of good!!
Suzy, I'm the same way, I actually don't want to eat as much as I used to and I can't eat as much as I did. I do okay to snack occasionally but I am really only hungry about 2 hours after I get up in the morning. I was already losing weight before I got pregnant, as I am overweight, but I wasn't "dieting" per se, I was just eating healthier, so I haven't changed anything, I still eat the same foods, and I've lost a few pounds, but I'm not worried about that as I get sufficient calories and make sure to get the right protein and carbs and fruits and veggies (have to force myself there!) I'm not going to stress about the amount I eat, I figure my body will tell me when I need to consume more.