Welcome sigh and congrats!
Good luck Oswin
Thanks for all your lovely comments. Funnily enough I have a lot of experience with tiny newborn babies and bigger kids, I've been on hand to help with them since I was young so that doesn't worry me at all, I know I can mind a small baby. It's just the sheer magnitude of all of it, in practical terms I am well able to mind a baby, feed it, wind it, change nappies, etc, but I've never been the one having to pay for it forever and raising it to be a good person and being the one it expects to be there, I usually just do the fun bits with other people's kids!
I'm doing much better today, definitely in part because of you all telling me what I do know to be true, I just needed to hear it. My husband was an angel last night, I came in from work absolutely wrecked and he told me to put on my pj's, he was making dinner, doing lots of jobs around the house, and that he could see I was upset and tired and his job for now is to mind me
I am not a frequent pee-er, I never get up during the night to go to the bathroom, 6am today I had to get up. I think I really accepted all of this then, like, yup, this is real, it's out of my control for now. Bought a prenatal vitamin today, went for a nice long walk, am feeling good now.
Time to go to work! Pretty short stress free day though so not too bad.
Hope everyone is going great today x
Good luck Oswin
Thanks for all your lovely comments. Funnily enough I have a lot of experience with tiny newborn babies and bigger kids, I've been on hand to help with them since I was young so that doesn't worry me at all, I know I can mind a small baby. It's just the sheer magnitude of all of it, in practical terms I am well able to mind a baby, feed it, wind it, change nappies, etc, but I've never been the one having to pay for it forever and raising it to be a good person and being the one it expects to be there, I usually just do the fun bits with other people's kids!
I'm doing much better today, definitely in part because of you all telling me what I do know to be true, I just needed to hear it. My husband was an angel last night, I came in from work absolutely wrecked and he told me to put on my pj's, he was making dinner, doing lots of jobs around the house, and that he could see I was upset and tired and his job for now is to mind me
I am not a frequent pee-er, I never get up during the night to go to the bathroom, 6am today I had to get up. I think I really accepted all of this then, like, yup, this is real, it's out of my control for now. Bought a prenatal vitamin today, went for a nice long walk, am feeling good now.
Time to go to work! Pretty short stress free day though so not too bad.
Hope everyone is going great today x