Amelie- welcome and h&h 9 months!
Oswin- good luck today
Tara- I have told a few close friends, no family. My mom and sister are both attention hogs and will make it all about them. And if, forbid anything go wrong, I couldn't stand the over the top sympathy (that would, again, be all about them- "oh it's so sad losing a grandchild!").
In our couple, I'm the overly cautious one. I refuse to say, or let DH say, that we're having a baby. I'm just pregnant for now. Before the BFP, DH talked to all kinds of strangers about trying to have a baby. Fortunately, he only did it when he was out of town, talking to cabbies and stuff.
So far, I've only told 3 people- my office mate and good friend that has a 1 year old and had the same doctor, a good friend who tried for a while and had some complications, and finally one of my closest friends that I was supposed to visit this week, but had to cancel per doctor's orders.
My parents are coming up for their birthdays in September and we're planning on telling them if everything is okay. At that point, if we get there, I'll be around 12 weeks and more confident.