Btw, for those who just delivered, I wanted to share my experience. The first weeks were tough, in part because there was no positive feedback from DS. I was trying so hard. I questioned whether I had made a mistake and didn't really want to be a mom. DH assured me that was a textbook new mom reaction.
It's been 8 weeks and I'm happy to report that I'm so bonded to my DS! I love to just hold him and kiss him. He smiles really big smiles and coos when he sees me. And stares at me all the time. The best thing is when he falls asleep on my chest after feeding. I held him there for two hours earlier today, in the glider.
And breast feeding has gotten SOOOO much easier. It has become the ultimate way to soothe him too.
Good luck, mommies!