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We have 2 los. Our eldest is 4 and has always been a terrible sleeper. We have finally got to a place where he goes to sleep in his own bed but we have to stay with him until he is asleep, he then wakes any time between 12-3 and we have to go in and get into bed beside him otherwise he won't go back to sleep. If we try just sitting with him and waiting til he falls asleep he wakes the minute we try to leave the room.
Our second is 18 months and was a brilliant sleeper until he was about 1 then everything went wrong. He is in a complete 'mummy fixation' phase where I have to do everything for him and he won't let my dh do anything. As things stand at the minute, I have to sit with him with my hand on his chest until he falls asleep, usually this takes about half an hour as he wakes as soon as I move my hand unless he is in a really deep sleep. He then wakes any time from 10-12 and the only way he will settle at all is for me to take him into our bed (my dh is usually in with the eldest at this point anyway!).
Things have been pottering on like this for a few months now but over the last couple of weeks the little one has got gradually worse and will now not settle at all when he wakes and was up from 12am-5am last night!
The big one will not stay in his own bedroom on his own once he wakes and as my dh was struck with a tummy bug last night and was in quarantine, the 3 of us were downstairs watching the Gruffalo until I almost lost the will to live!
I need everyone to sleep better but have no idea where to start! I am not completely opposed to a bit of crying but from having lost patience over the last while know that the little one will cry til he makes himself sick and the big one will just get out of bed and refuse to go back!
Has anyone any tips or advice before I can't function anymore from last of sleep.
Our second is 18 months and was a brilliant sleeper until he was about 1 then everything went wrong. He is in a complete 'mummy fixation' phase where I have to do everything for him and he won't let my dh do anything. As things stand at the minute, I have to sit with him with my hand on his chest until he falls asleep, usually this takes about half an hour as he wakes as soon as I move my hand unless he is in a really deep sleep. He then wakes any time from 10-12 and the only way he will settle at all is for me to take him into our bed (my dh is usually in with the eldest at this point anyway!).
Things have been pottering on like this for a few months now but over the last couple of weeks the little one has got gradually worse and will now not settle at all when he wakes and was up from 12am-5am last night!
The big one will not stay in his own bedroom on his own once he wakes and as my dh was struck with a tummy bug last night and was in quarantine, the 3 of us were downstairs watching the Gruffalo until I almost lost the will to live!
I need everyone to sleep better but have no idea where to start! I am not completely opposed to a bit of crying but from having lost patience over the last while know that the little one will cry til he makes himself sick and the big one will just get out of bed and refuse to go back!
Has anyone any tips or advice before I can't function anymore from last of sleep.