Biblio - I totally understand not even being excited because you're too tired. I've been too tired to even think about anything lately.
Good luck making it through today! I felt so much more optimistic once I got farther along than I ever did before. The lack of bleeding is such a good sign, and I'm certain you won't have any this time!
Kate - welcome here. sounds like things are going well this time.
Tess - I also try to get myself into a positive think mode, but it is so hard. It is much easier imagining having an mc and having to tell everyone. But that is the experience that impacted us the most last time, so it's hard for us to imagine a different scenario.
Hang in there. You CANNOT think yourself into an m/c and if your baby is meant to live, then s/he definitely will NOT be harmed by your thoughts in any way.
Wookie - I certainly hope you're wrong and aren't having a 3rd m/c. How devastating. I am so sorry.
Debzie - I am so sorry about the cramping and bleeding. Are you passing clots? One idea is that it can actually be common to start spotting around 8 weeks or whenever your regular AF would have been due. You are almost at 8 weeks so perhaps that is the reason you're bleeding? I'm following quite a few girls in their pregnancy after a loss, and nearly all of them bled with this pregnancy but are now safely in their second trimester. So don't count yourself out yet.
BusyBee - I am the same way - sooo hopeful one minute, and then crying and convinced that it's all over the next. Cramping is definitely normal and can be your uterus stretching. I definitely had some cramping for a few days at 4, 5 and 6 weeks. I'm not sure if I've had any since. Perhaps that's a bad sign.
AFM - My first u/s is tomorrow. I am very worried but trying not to think about it. Thinking about the worst case scenario makes me sick.
But really happy about it.
