LEINZ!!!! Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!
Happy and healthy 9 months with this one, eh? I'll be sending sticky vibes to you!
Busy, I'm so sorry to hear you're feeling this way. Symptoms do come and go, boobs deflate, nausea lessens, and it's all par for the course. Before you know it, things may return with a vengeance. I'm sorry your OH is being cruel about your feelings. That is NOT the kind of support you need while newly pregnant, particularly in light of your worries. What's the matter with him? Does he need a swift kick in the ass?
AFM, I'm getting sick. My daughter has been sick this week, and while she had a fever, I do not, thank goodness. But, my nose is stuffy, I have a slight cough, and I'm very tired. The nausea is really ramping up, and I can't tell if it's the illness, or if it's baby-related. If I don't eat, and allow my stomach to go too empty, then I'm really in trouble. I begin to gag, and heave, and it's awful. It's a lot worse this time than it was with my daughter. Also, THE CONSTIPATION. I did not have that with Hannah, and I have to say, it's not even remotely cool. AT ALL.
But yeah, I would lay my money down on it that it was the 
that caused the bit of red spotting. If it was indeed due to the sex, the spotting shouldn't go on too long, and it may turn brown before tapering off. Definitely contact your doctor or midwife if it becomes very heavy, and you begin to have severe cramping.
