**August 2020 Lucky Testers: 49 Testers - 16 BFPs**

So sorry for the bfn ladies - they suck! I also wish I could wait to test, I admire those women!

things are ok with dh, I’m back home today and about to go pick up our daughter from daycare. I think she will be confused and sad. She loves grandma and grandpas and got very used to them there. But will be good to be home with all her toys and books and of course her dad!

have to work through my financial issues, I may be filling for some type of debt assistance/not quite bankruptcy (a consumer proposal it’s called). Talking through all our options. I feel horrible for getting us in this mess and still desperately want a baby soon. Ugh!

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My current situation lol! The gray (Mila) one always cuddles me in the evening but the orange (Jasper) one favors my OH. However lately he’s been all over me and not my OH! Lol

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Despite my efforts to not use my frer this morning, I couldn't resist.

something is catching my eye, I have uploaded it with the evap line to compare where the line should be.
What do you think?
Around 8dpo (estimate)

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Pinkcupcakes - good luck!! I can see those lines. Can’t wait to see your FRER.

Alligator - don’t feel bad about your finances, the main thing is that you have recognised the issue and are taking steps to sort things out. Things have a way of working out. I hope you will all settle back to living at home and TTC will be able to commence soon.

I’m 13 DPO today and have Crampy low back and woke a bit heady..just waiting for AF now. I am not sure I hold much faith in this temping thing because my chart looks good!! lol (not that I fully understand charts) Maybe ill get the big drop tomorrow??

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Bfn here, I'm only 9dpo but was spotting when I woke up which is rubbish.
 
14dpo today. Haven’t tested since 11dpo which kills me!! But my temp is up and my opk is a blazing positive (but I know that could just be the pre-af hormonal switch) I have a 14 day LP so if AF is coming it should be here later today or sometime tomorrow. I guess I’ll give myself permission to actually buy a test if she doesn’t show
 
14dpo today. Haven’t tested since 11dpo which kills me!! But my temp is up and my opk is a blazing positive (but I know that could just be the pre-af hormonal switch) I have a 14 day LP so if AF is coming it should be here later today or sometime tomorrow. I guess I’ll give myself permission to actually buy a test if she doesn’t show
Good luck! Do you have any 'symptoms'? really hope AF stays away x

I'm 13 DPO today and BFN's but my temp is still high too.
 
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What is going on?! My tests yesterday were no change at all from the day before and in my opinion way too faint with a frer for my dpo. I wasn’t even going to test today, but since I love to torture myself I did. Now I wish I didn’t because I thinks it’s cruel. No way this is viable. I had to test again immediately after fmu with an ic too, which is also too faint of a line. Mostly still a shadow.
11dpo fmu
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What is going on?! My tests yesterday were no change at all from the day before and in my opinion way too faint with a frer for my dpo. I wasn’t even going to test today, but since I love to torture myself I did. Now I wish I didn’t because I thinks it’s cruel. No way this is viable. I had to test again immediately after fmu with an ic too, which is also too faint of a line. Mostly still a shadow.
11dpo fmu
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Could the early ones have been evaps and now the real BFP is coming through? Clutching at straws but I hope it could be the case!
 
Could the early ones have been evaps and now the real BFP is coming through? Clutching at straws but I hope it could be the case!
I really have no idea! I’m totally confused. Any cp I’ve ever had the lines disappear after they don’t progress. They don’t get darker. I Don’t want to even hold a shred of hope. The let down will be terrible.
 
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I really have no idea! I’m totally confused. Any cp I’ve ever had the lines disappear after they don’t progress. They don’t get darker. I Don’t want to even trash a shred of hope. The let down will be terrible.
How is your temp? Not that it means much because mine is the highest it's been so far and I am getting BFN's. Are all your tests from the same batch? Could the FRER's have varying dyes? Did you dip for same amount of time? Just trying to figure it out.
 
New batch of frer. Didn’t temp until I was out of bed. 98.36. Looking at them now they aren’t impressive. Probably will just delay af.
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I think it could be different dye. I think the possible line at 8dpo was just the indent. Putting them all together there is not enough progression.
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