Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Melainey]

Good morning ladies Xx

Ginny still thinking of you and Chris Xx

Smithy your poor bub x

Squiggles x

Nana hope work goes smoothly x

Angel I hope the witch pee's off today x

kiwi thinking of you today x

Hi to everyone else Xx

I'm just lying in bed knackered still from last night hahaha .day off today sooooooo that's good but working rest of week boo hoo! My boobs are like at least one cup size bigger, if not two! Needto but me some ahh bras I think x

 

[Lisasmith]

Been to doctor! My levels at 4weeks 6 days were 471. No scans until 12 weeks

 

[Melainey]

They're great results! why so late? X

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

That's awesOme smithy! Yay! Very good news!

 

[Lisasmith]

Because there are no problems with the pregnancy to date and I have good strong hcg - I might go see a walk in clinic and ask them for a scan referral

 

[Pauls_angel]

Ding dong the witch is dead! Finally!

Great numbers Smithy! x

 

[Lisasmith]

Yay the witch is gone! Can't even book into the clinic until I'm 10 weeks! This is going to be a long 4 weeks lol. Thanks girls xx

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Angel, that's do good! So glad she has finally been sent packing!

 

[ginny83]

hi ladies, thanks for all your kind words - it makes me feel really loved.

I'm so sorry that I had to share that type of news - especially since some of you are newly pregnant or will be very soon.

I have an appointment at the hospital today at 2.30. I haven't decided how I want things to be managed. It's just so hard thinking about it all, but I want it to be over quickly at the same time.

I am dreading telling our friends and family. For some reason it's so much easier talking to all of you guys.

I'm just devastated still. I'm also sad for all the wasted energy I put into thinking about these babies that were never going to happen, and poor Max all those times I was sick on the couch and not playing with him maybe as much as I should. All for nothing.

I'm sorry I haven't really read anyone else's news. I just feel like I'm in a bit of a bubble at the moment

 

[Lisasmith]

You're allowed to be in a bubble honey. And we are all here for you no matter what. I have far too much experience with these things if you want to pm me or want me to call you, just let me know xx

 

[cossime]

Ginny

I know I've only known you for a short while, but I feel so close with you girls it's a strange sort of comfort I know so please, everything that everyone has saod on here is 100% true. Please lean on us if it helps you xxx

 

[Melainey]

Angel glad the witch has gone Xx

Ginnyagain honey,I am just so sorry for your loss, no words can make it better but know that e are all here for you, and like smithy said, of you want to talk privately to anybody that's great.also if you want to talk on the phone just let me know and you can have a cry xxx

 

[number2woohoo]

hi ladies, thanks for all your kind words - it makes me feel really loved.

I'm so sorry that I had to share that type of news - especially since some of you are newly pregnant or will be very soon.

I have an appointment at the hospital today at 2.30. I haven't decided how I want things to be managed. It's just so hard thinking about it all, but I want it to be over quickly at the same time.

I am dreading telling our friends and family. For some reason it's so much easier talking to all of you guys.

I'm just devastated still. I'm also sad for all the wasted energy I put into thinking about these babies that were never going to happen, and poor Max all those times I was sick on the couch and not playing with him maybe as much as I should. All for nothing.

I'm sorry I haven't really read anyone else's news. I just feel like I'm in a bit of a bubble at the moment

No words, honey. Just lots of love. Sending lots of it to you. xoxo

 

[Rosie_PA]

Ginny I truly am heartbroken for you, I hope your appt goes ok. Please let me know if there is anything I can do!! Lots of hugs Hun!! Xx

 

[Pauls_angel]

Ginny, again I just wish I could hug you and fix everything. Will be praying for you and Chris as you make decisions about what to do and how to tell everyone and as you head to the hospital for your appointment today. I just wish I could do more to help! Like the others have said I am also happy to call you if you need to chat or cry. It is natural to grieve - not just the babies you've lost but also the time you've lost playing with Max and the time and energy you feel you have wasted thinking about the baby or feeling sick and not being able to go out. I think our world often emphasises the 'pick yourself back up and keep pushing forward' attitude but fails to say it is OK to grieve. I know you'll have to move on at some point but make sure you give yourself the time you need first. I think contacting the counselling services is a great starting place. Lots of love coming your way xx

 

[Lisasmith]

That's really wonderful advice, angel. Greiving and doing things on your own time is very important. We will be here every step of the way.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Ginny, good luck today sweetie, if nothing else, I hope some answers will help you make the big decisions & that it can start to make you heal. You stay in your bubble, and just talk here as much as you need, it's a safe place here & were all here for you xxxxxxx

 

[Trying2b2mums]

smithy- ive been breaking out too, its worse than any other symptom and i hate it!

mailed your stuff, as early as i could get my ass out of the house, noon!!

angel- so glad the witch is gone!!

Ginny like the others said, stay in your bubble, grieve, take time to deal with it how You need to. We will be here, for whatever, whenever you need. Just try not to be too hard on yourself. so much love to you and chris today!! xxx

 

[Maddy40]

oh Gin, I'm so sorry. Hugs to you all.

 

[Lisasmith]

2mums it's basically my only symptom! Besides the blue boobs