Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Haaha Ginny, there are a lot of things I never thought I'd say/feel/want/need/do this baby making business is a whole different world. Lol I'm sure your uterus is beautiful! Haha

2 mums, glad your Aunt still has some fight left in her, must be really hard for you all to watch her! Good luck with results! Less than a week now! You rest up & take care of yourself!

I'm off to bed! Night girls, love you all! Cxxx

 

[Newbie32]

It's awful here! Non stop pregnancy talk!! I don't know why I'm struggling So much but I really am here...and I'm sick of being shown her belly every ten seconds!!!

Ok, rant over. Thanks for letting me vent.

XX

How is everyone tonight? I haven't caught up since getting here so I will have a read xxx

 

[number2woohoo]

I thought you meant it's awful here, for a minute, Sasha. Then I realised you meant at tennis. Phew!

 

[Newbie32]

Yeah no, only at tennis with oopsie duffed.

All I have heard all night is this and that about her pregnancy, the whole look at my bump thing and lifting her t shirt every five seconds. I may have to tell her next week just to get her to stop. There is more going on in the world than just her pregnancy!!!

I feel like a horrible cow. Quite honestly I can listen to you gorgeous duffered ones until the cows come home, but her being duffered is doing my head in!!!

 

[Newbie32]

Night girls xxx

 

[zoomlentil]

Abby, sorry to hear your temps are all over the place. Fx'd for you that you O soon, or that you have O'd and your egg was caught! Just keep indulging in the sexy times.

To answer everyone's questions, we've talked extensively about it, and OH and I have agreed to try once we both have full time jobs (I'm finishing uni in a few weeks, and he's only part time at the moment). So, hopefully that will be next year. Until then we're doing the responsible thing and preventing, but it's bloody hard. I had a pretty lame day today, was coping okay until I came across an acquaintance's BFP on another forum I frequent. That completely wrecked me!

 

[Rosie_PA]

Ginny- did your chart say your uterus is antiverted? That just means it tilts to the front, usually thats a good thing, easier for the spermies to get up there! Mine is retroverted and tilts toward the back! Crazy uteruses! Lol

 

[Abby27]

Morning everyone! well i dreamed and dreamed all night about taking my temperature and checking it! ALL NIGHT! you ladies all featured in parts of the dream to....i had a watch thermometer that i would keep putting in my mouth! in short IM A TOTAL NUT.
So when i wake up this morning i quickly put it in....and YAAY for temp rise! not much of one, and i probably willed my body into doing it! but it will do for today!

Squeegs: i actually did a FF survey and i mentioned about their language....also that there statistical analysis isnt quite what we want....(we want the analysis but they tend to do it half way and then stop)

Nana: i stay away from duffered ladies now. well i try to. ive been invited to a few baby showers! i just dont think i can handle that, so i shall send a gift and an apology. (got an invite from evil duffered chick at work! HELP ME)

Kiwi i enter data and then use the arrows to forward to the next day?

Have a great day everyone! i have to dash! tomorrow i have off YAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAY so just have to get through today!

 

[Melainey]

Rosie I have an antiverted uterus

Abby yay for temp rise

 

[Lisasmith]

Morning lovelies, I am
Off to the doctor for some maxalon or zofran today. I puked 19 times yesterday ill try and catch up properly once I get some rest x

 

[Maddy40]

Oh no I really HAVE to get off this board, I could seriously drive myself nutso Maybe I'll have a cup of raspberry tea (panic buy to try and rectify one of the issues that the Fertility Specialist found in my u/sounds)....I'm soooo obsessed!

Maddy what did the FD find?

When I was in hospital on Thursday, before the pain started I was very, very bored just waiting around so I started flicking through my medical file. I had Max and the D&C for my 1st miscarriage there so it's getting to be a fairly full file. Anyway, I think I remember seeing something about the shape of my uterus - something that starts with "A". There is such a thing as a arcuate uterus, so maybe that's what I read. I had already been hopped up with painkillers though so it;s all a bit fuzzy.

Anyway, I've read conflicting reports if that uterus shape is a problem or not. So will ask them when I have my appointment. (I'm assuming if it was major problem they would have told me about it already)

Ginny...they found my uterus hasn't contracted back to normal size after the MC and D&C. Can be caused by a number of things. I could see the bloody thing on the ultrasound, like a huge enormous balloon!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Oh god smithy, that's terrible! I really hope they can find something to fix you up!!

Nana, big hugs!! I wish I could be there to tell them off for you!

Zoom fingers crossed you can get started soon! It sucks wanting one do much! Me & my partner talked about it for ages. I wanted one for about a year before we started. We decided 6 months later to pick a date for another 6 months and then I went off the pill, but started taking vitamins etc 3 months before. It's been a long process! It's important to do the time waiting tho! I'm glad we didn't rush into it! How old is your OH? At least you don't have to wait for the pill to be out if your system & you know you ovulate when the time comes!

Abby, I once had a dream that my thermometer wouldn't work. I tried everything and then it got past the point of being my basal body temp. Then I woke up crying! Lol were all a little nuts! Yay for long weekend!

Hi Rosie & Looney! Xxx

Edit: & Maddy! Xx

 

[kiwipauagirl]

Hi girls,

I want to share a very sad and disturbing story. It might make your day suck as it has mine so feel free to skip over my post.

I have been chatting to my best friend in Oz. We have been friends for over 30yrs since we were small children. Her 2 daughters aged 14 (in 2 days) and 12 are my God daughters. Last week my friend phoned to tell me a little girl (also aged 14) in my goddaughters class had passed away. I thought "oh gosh that is so sad" not knowing the full extent of the situation. Yesterday it came to light. The girl was being bullied at school (they go to an exclusive catholic private school in Brisbane - not that that makes any difference I just "assumed" they would show less tolerance) anyhow last week she committed suicide my poor little god daughter is beside herself. She is not coping with this at all. The funeral was today. My friend said she has never seen anything like it and it affected her as well. To see young parents like herself bury their daughter is so heartbreaking.
My heart hasn't been right all day. It is breaking for the parents of the girl who I don't know, it is breaking for my goddaughter that she has to go through something like this at such a sweet innocent age, its breaking for my friend who doesn't know how to make her daughter feel better and its breaking for all the kids out there who are getting bullied now. To think what went through that poor girls mind to actually go ahead with killing herself. at 14 she should be holding hands and kissing boys, playing with her hair, experimenting with makeup not finding out ways to die. And to make things a little worse nearly every show on tv tonight seems to be about bullies.

so big massive to all you girls tonight (today in your time). Little groups like this is great to know that there is someone there to talk to, to get whatever is on your chest off it and to help you through any difficult time. So while I attempt to go to sleep, I wish you all a lovely and happy thursday.

PS - as far as I know my uterus is normal, well I haven't been told anything different with all the cameras, tubes, dye and everything that has been up there I am sure they would have said something

ABBY - glad you got a rise hun!!! WOOHOO

SMITHY - i hope you get the drugs quickly and they kick in soon for you so you can feel "semi normal" again. xxx

NEWBIE - sorry tennis was tough for you. I hope you won your game though

to everyone else. Sorry for such a downer of a story, I needed to get it off my chest. Have a great day.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Kiwi, I'm do terribly sorry to hear that. Such a sad horrible thing that no patent should have to go through. I'm thinking of you, your friends & that little girls family. I hope the bullies take a long hard look at themselves. Sweetie I'm do sorry to hear that! Xxxxxxxx

 

[number2woohoo]

Morning lovelies, I am
Off to the doctor for some maxalon or zofran today. I puked 19 times yesterday ill try and catch up properly once I get some rest x

Oh goodness you poor love. I hope they give you something that can help xo

 

[number2woohoo]

Oh Kiwi I'm so sorry to hearthat - how very sad. Cannot imagine how you'd cope with that as a parent. xo

 

[Newbie32]

Oh kiwi that is so horrible, big hugs hun xx

Smithy i hope that whatever you are given helps to stop that ms!!!

I just got back from taking puppies in for their desexing...poor little ruby was beside herself shaking! Poor little darlings xx

 

[lisamfr]

Good Morning Girls,

I am having one of those days...busy in the office & everyoen asking 101 question. I finally up to date with last night chat.

Back soon xx

 

[Pauls_angel]

Morning all

Kiwi what an awful and sad situation - bullying is such a real thing for little kiddies - we put a lot of effort into anti-bullying and building resilience at our school - as do most schools - yet these things still happen - its just heartbreaking! I will be praying for all involved. Xx

Smithy I hope those drugs kick in very soon! X

I hope your puppies are ok Sasha! Poor little things probably have no idea what they're in for! X

Amber praying for your aunt and your OH! Sending you big hugs x

Hi to everyone else too! Love you all lots and lots x

 

[Pauls_angel]

Hi Lise