Aussies trying to get duffered aged 20+ !!!

[Lisasmith]

Squeegs, you're such a sweetheart! Don't worry about the nasty skank.

Good luck Maddy x

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Yay Maddy, you go get that eggy!!!

Thanks girls. I have texted her (as DH lol) just answering her questions in a way I want to spin the story. I'm too far along (not that i'm very far still...) to pass of that I didn't know. Fair enough not finding out until you're 8-10 weeks if you're not trying, but even what I'm tellin gher now is wishy washy...cos as if I wouldn't have tested by now! lol

 

[Maddy40]

Kiwi - just wondering, have you ever had any 21 day blood tests done where they've confirmed you've O in a cycle? Only asking because my temps don't always have a big shift - I used count down to pregnancy on the cycle I got my BFP and it didn't even pick up that I Od based on temps

Hey Ginny - yeah for most of this year (except the last two months seeing we are seeing FS) I have been having day 3 and 21 (well day 19 for me seeing i have short cycles). Back in Feb I had a high progesterone (????) levels which is the only thing that the specialist is concerned about which is why they did a AHM or AFM or AHF or whatever it is called that they check my egg reserves. Still waiting on those results. I have been ovulating according to my blood tests but how good my eggs are I don't know. Maybe that is the problem I have old, wrinkley, drying up eggs. Maybe my temps are fairly balanced which is why there isn't a big rise like some people. I don't know. Maybe I am just obsessing. Will know in a few days.

Kiwi...I find the various tests confusing too. AMH only measures the reserve of remaining eggs, not quality. So while I have eggs, the AMH measure doesn't tell me if they are good quality or cr*p....

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Maddy, is there a test youu can do to figure out the quality?

 

[Newbie32]

Oooh, get me one of those!!!!

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Nana, you don't need one, cos you are so far up the duff you can't even see the bottom anymore!

lol I don't know if that makes any kind of sense...but I am just going with it. lol but you are!

 

[Abby27]

I'm taking co enzyme q 10 to beat the age thing. Man I hate feeling old at 35!
Got Sunday night blues.

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

Oh Abby - you're not old! Cheer up .... maybe watch some disney movies!

 

[Newbie32]

I'm taking that too abs!!!

Lol squeegs, guess it never hurts to hope...but that line from the castle keeps popping into my head 'tell him he's dreaming' but change it to she!!!!!

 

[Newbie32]

I also started on royal jelly this month too x

 

[Newbie32]

Ps abs, you are NOT old!!! Save that talk for when you're 50, then I give you permission to feel old (with your 14 year old )

 

[Mum 2 Quigley]

I'm picturing;
'what do you call that darl?'
'a pregnancy test'
'and how do you get two lines on it?'
'you pee on it'
'oohh it's what you do to it!'

heheheh I love that movie!

 

[Newbie32]

Me too! Absolute classic

 

[Maddy40]

Maddy, is there a test youu can do to figure out the quality?

I don't think so, I think they just assess all the hormonal tests like FSH. From what I've read apparently they can't even tell a good egg from a bad egg. But aging definately is a major factor, which is one of the reasons for IVF failure rates for older age women.

 

[Abby27]

thanks Ladies. im a bit upset, probably about something stupid. so evil duffered chick's relative is getting married and we are invited and we are going. Im NOT going to a hens, seeing as i was nearly raped at evil duffered chicks hens (due to her stupidity and yes you read that correctly). im sure its not going to be the same situation, but after that experience i just dont go to hens nights. DH was going to go to the dinner part of the bucks. Well they have changed that now to be in someones home, where no doubt there will be stripers and smoking bad things, I am ANTI him going, and so is he. a Dinner is one thing, but this is something different. I am anti drugs, but also anti the objectification of women in ANY form.
DH is working out what to do. i cried, (weird) but said under no circumstances can he go. i trust him 100% i just hate that she and her husband who are into this crap get blessed with a baby. so im mad, and sad.

 

[Newbie32]

Oh abs hun xxx I so feel for you. I can't believe you were nearly raped? Omg. You poor poor thing. Stick by your guns hun, gut instinct is almost always right x

We are all here for you if you need us anytime xxx

 

[Abby27]

it was a few years ago Nana, and OMG it was so scary. Basically we were all staying in an apartment after the classy hens stuff (cocktails etc), i went to bed, and they went out to a pub. i woke up to a room Filled with men, and one trying to get into my bed. so i kicked him out (bit of a battle) and tried to figure out what happened (they got drunk and invited the pub back to the room to continue the party). Id been drinking in the pre-pub bit and although i couldnt drive with any certainty, i went to my car to sleep...this creep followed me (bit of a battle)!!!!! so i drove away. any way a lot of other ugly shit went down, but i was ok, shaken but not hurt. and learned not to trust this person ever again! who invites a pub back to an apartment where women are in pjs sleeping?????????????????

 

[Newbie32]

Oh abs, I am so sorry you had to go through that and I'm Soooo glad you got away. So awful sending massive hugs and love, I don't blame you for no more hens, I wouldn't either xxxx

 

[Lisasmith]

Abby you poor love

 

[Abby27]

thanks lovelies, Im ok now! it was about 5 years ago ....And actually one good thing came out of it, it strengthened my relationship with DH. in the lot of bad shit that happened, he came through for me like you would want an awesome man to! I had to rescue myself, but in the post of that, he was very much there for me, and SOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO mad at this bird for putting me in that situation.
but this bucks thing has me all really mad. i shouldve ended my friendship with that bitch then and there.