Baby Babblings

[sarahuk]

Laura - Woohoo! Not long until the single digits commence!

I hope she does feel better soon hun, they do say that time is a healer though I would have called the hospital every name under the sun for not spotting it earlier but after reading Sarah's replies, I understand that baby doesn't grow as quick etc so it must have been tough to pick up on a scan xxx

Sarah - Little Snooky will soon be a Squash! xxx

Jess - Aww you can't keep us all in suspense like this! xxx

Teenah - Omg! Khloe is such a cutie!!!! Congratulations to your sister! xxx

It hit me today that if our angel baby didn't grow wings, he/she would have been due on Friday! I guess he/she blessed us with Tyler so we are grateful for that

Its defo not easy to spot. I remember the us i had the last time with that pergnancy they were pouring over it for ages and had to have specialists review the scans because they still werent sure if the mass was the pregnancy or not! I feel lucky that they didnt make me wait any longer just incase though, could have been a lot worse than the scar tissue ive been left with now!

You know hun..thats the way to look at it. Its emotionally not easy when special dates connected to angels come around. I remember when mine was coming up for the due date i was an emotional wreck. But what I will say is that emotionally, for me, passing beyond that date helped me release the last deeply burried grief I had about what happened xx

Must have been awful for you hunni Having specialists to analyse your scans and you left wondering what the hell is happening etc. I'm also glad they didn't make you wait any longer as I know what damage can be caused by them!

If I looked at it any other way, I would end up getting myself all upset and it's not fair on Tyler, obviously we won't forget about our angel baby and he/she will always be in the back of our minds. Aww bless your heart hun xxx

Yep we will never forget our angels honey Thats why I say let yourself feel it when the day comes around rather than try and deny it. Youll only feel better for it afterwards x

 

[sarahuk]

Glad your all ok ladies

I'm still feeling pretty shit this morning, MIL made me feel like the worlds biggest bitch several times last, when they left I did the washing up, put my pjs on, for in bed and sobbed until Simon found me then pretty much cried myself to sleep in his arms!

She started off by saying that if we have to decorate around the baby then that's what we'll have to do, because I said I'd move in with my folks while decorating was being done as its not fair to have LO around all the dust when I struggle with it myself. Then I said I wouldn't be taking the baby to his nans house as she smokes about 60 a day inside and that's not fair on the baby neither. She got all arsey over that too. Made me feel like protecting my baby was a bad thing and bitchy. If she comes round Thursday like she said im going out, not having her treat me like shit! And it makes lil man go all quiet xxx

Yes chick...go out. Cos Little Man feels what mommy feels now.

What a bitch!! Im sorry, but I dont see how what you said could be taken bad. Who wants all that dust and chemicals around a newborn. Ofc youre going to remove him from that situation. And I also agree with you about the smoking. I used to be a smoker, matt still is. Hes already stopped smoking around me and only now smokes downstairs in the kitchen. But when we move out of here, hes only smoking outside. Who wants all that smoke around a baby? Sigh...you know what...fuck it hun. You do what you think is best for your baby...dont let her attitude bring down your mood chick x

 

[sarahuk]

Good luck Jess

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Thank's sarah. x x x

Awww laura hun, sorry to hear that sweetie. Sarah is so right though hun. Big hugs x x x

 

[Laura2806]

Jess that's brilliant news hunni fingers crossed for you xx

Thanks ladies, I really don't get why she's the way she is! Simons uncle won't go in his own mothers house due to the smoke so why should I take a baby into that environment! Simon doesn't smoke around me and I've told him he's not holding the baby after having a fag and jmhis mother knows this! When we go to his nans we never wear fresh clothes as they need washing as soon as you get home, there's no way im having my baby smelling of smoke!

My mums got my niece Thursday so I might just go round there! Lol told my mum this morning and got upset again over it. Lil man has been mega active today tho, its like he's saying 'its ok mummy, your only trying to protect me' bless him

Eugh tired! Only 8days and 4hours left at work xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Jess that's brilliant news hunni fingers crossed for you xx

Thanks ladies, I really don't get why she's the way she is! Simons uncle won't go in his own mothers house due to the smoke so why should I take a baby into that environment! Simon doesn't smoke around me and I've told him he's not holding the baby after having a fag and jmhis mother knows this! When we go to his nans we never wear fresh clothes as they need washing as soon as you get home, there's no way im having my baby smelling of smoke!

My mums got my niece Thursday so I might just go round there! Lol told my mum this morning and got upset again over it. Lil man has been mega active today tho, its like he's saying 'its ok mummy, your only trying to protect me' bless him

Eugh tired! Only 8days and 4hours left at work xxx

Yep I can empathise with you chick. Its the reason matts trying hard to cut down cos he knows Im not too happy about it either.

Is there any other way that you can speak to his mum and tell her how youre feeling? Is she on facebook? Could write her out a calm message or even an email saying why it bothers you so much x

 

[Laura2806]

Yh she's on fb but I don't want her as a friend lol is it bad that I wanna read what she's been texting to Simon? Lol

Lil man seems happier today, really don't wanna decorate, 1 im not in the mood and 2 I've missed him kicking me all night! I might fall alserp before I can get started anyways lol xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Laura - Omfg....try and ignore what your MIL in says! At the end of the day, Blue is yours and Simon's baby and you know what is best! I also agree with not taking him to his nans house if she smokes 60 a day! That's just asking for a death sentence! xxx

Jess - That's great news hunni!! Wishing you all the luck in the world! xxx

Sarah - That's true chick, thank you for your advice It's not good bottling things up, I learnt that the hard way! xxx

 

[Laura2806]

Tell me about it chick! I just wish she'd realise that! She will do, either the easy or hard way but she will learn not to fuck me off especially when it involves rearing our child cause my mum'll get involved too if she starts.

Omg im so bloody tired atm which is making me grumpier and tearful he glad am i that I've only got 8days left at work! Xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Yh she's on fb but I don't want her as a friend lol is it bad that I wanna read what she's been texting to Simon? Lol

Lil man seems happier today, really don't wanna decorate, 1 im not in the mood and 2 I've missed him kicking me all night! I might fall alserp before I can get started anyways lol xxx

Id wanna know lol..it would bug the hell outta me! Could simon maybe explain things to hr about how she upset you?

 

[sarahuk]

Laura - Omfg....try and ignore what your MIL in says! At the end of the day, Blue is yours and Simon's baby and you know what is best! I also agree with not taking him to his nans house if she smokes 60 a day! That's just asking for a death sentence! xxx

Jess - That's great news hunni!! Wishing you all the luck in the world! xxx

Sarah - That's true chick, thank you for your advice It's not good bottling things up, I learnt that the hard way! xxx

Just remember we are here for you if you need to let things out xx

 

[sarahuk]

Great...had an orgasm (no penetration) and pretty immediately felt wet so went off to the bathroom to be met with lots of bright red blood.

Im hoping it was just the contracting of things that caused a little bleed but now im up scared to death that im starting with a loss Guess ill be phoning EPU in the morning.

 

[Laura2806]

Just had a luck and he's deleted all his texts other than the ones to me! Gutted! Guess I'll never know now! He's going round there after work so we'll see what sort of mood he's in when he gets home! At least its not unusual for him to delete his texts...eugh lol I wanna know what's been said!!!!!

Aww hunni I hope its nothing, but yes ring them asap and if they don't tell you to go in, go in anyways! You need to be checked. Make sure you let us know how it goes and I hope the bleeding stopped

Xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Lol sneaky little fox!! Im sure she wasnt saying anything mean tho

Today I am not so worried The last couple of times I wiped lat night it was clearly getting less and less so I think it was just the one episode of red that I had. This morning, there was only brown, so I guess it was just leftovers from the rush last night

I called EPU and told them about how the bleed had been and was I ok to just disregard it as one of those things. She said it was probably ok, but they want to scan me anyway to be sure, so im off in for a scan at 2.45.

I dont feel worried about it so much now though. If Id been bleeding still this morning I would be, but the brown really reassured me. On the plus side..it will be lovely to see how much Snook has changed in just one week

 

[Laura2806]

She bloody better not have been lol

That's great news hun and yay you get to see snooky again not the best circumstances but still be nice to see him or her! Lol xxx

 

[Excalibur]

Laura - You go girl Will he not tell you what's being said if you just ask him outright? xxx

Sarah - Thank you hunni Sorry to hear about your scare chick, on a plus side, yay for getting to see little Snooky again, I'm sure he/she will be fine hunni xxx

 

[xXxJessicaxXx]

Thx laura and natt. x x x

Sarah sorry to hear that hun, hope baby is great and snug as a bug. Let us know how the scan went? x x x

Laura, I understand what you mean. It's not nice. No one is allowed to smoke in my house and honey's nearly 3 but it's not the point. Even second hand smoke is bad for you and baby so well understandable hun. yay not long till finishing work hun. bet you cant wait. x x x

 

[Laura2806]

Dunno if i wanna ask him lol we'll see, he's going round after work but my folks are coming to help decorate tonight so he won't say anything about what she says. He always used to talk my mum about her when we lived there but obvs now he doesn't.

he knows im still annoyed so we'll see what happens.

lil mans mega active today only probs is its making it hard for me to breath never mind ey lol xxx

 

[sarahuk]

Sooooo happy snook is fine!! Bottom is head, topmost part is toes, and the round bit hes cuddling is his yolk sac

Bleeding was just caused by bursdt blood vessel

WOOOT!

 

[Laura2806]

Wow that brilliant news hunni am I right in thinking I can make out his bum and legs bent up too? It's loads clearer than our 9wk! At least you've got a soon that cares about getting good pics! Or is it his yolk sac that's sticking out? Lol xxx