WhisperOfHope
Lena victoriaâs Mummy!
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I am working hard and saving up and just got af lol xxx
sorry af got you x
I am working hard and saving up and just got af lol xxx
Its ok I'm used to it lol.
HELLO!! Thought I'd pop in and say hello and that I miss you all!!
I've had a horrible week! The snow has been wonderful (i love it, everything was pretty, we had loads here in the east midlands). My bus kept getting cancelled but luckily I had always finished work! Princess had two snow days and we went to visit OH's dad last friday, he lives in the centre of town in an appartment, you can see all over town, it snowed really heavily for 3 hours or so, and every single building was white and the sky was white, OH and I stood on the balcony and watched it, it was beautiful and I was so happy!
However, the week has gotten worse! Sunday we went round to a friends house for his birthday and princess had been moaning about her foot hurting. When we got home later that night, freezing (she was in tears it was so cold), we checked her foot and her toe was ever so swollen. I got up at 6am the next morning, after an awful night of sleep or lack of sleep, congested, aching, getting hot and cold shivers. Princess came in and said her foot was still hurting, took one look at it and knew she wasn't going to be going to school this week! Completely swollen, pus ALL around it. I went to work feeling like death and OH took princess to the docs, they said it's an ingrown toe nail and put her on antibiotics.
So Monday - wednesday I suffered from a cold so badly, I have never felt so ill, and I had to work, and it was freezing at work in the warehouse and too hot on the till, so I wasn't feeling good at all! Princess has had a poorly toe all week, it finally popped yesterday, then bled alot and now it's still a little swollen and a very bruised.
I'm feeling much better, but now OH has got the cold and he had a fever last night. So hmm. We've only had chance to BD once, and I think we missed OV, so maybe a break this month will do me good - no SS or worrying. I have rearranged my HSG (lady on the phone said that they require a neg preg test anyway - but 5 days before AF would probably show neg either way?? so??) so now my appointment is the end of Jan.
I have missed coming on and chatting but at the same time I do feel less stressed and TTC focused. Everything at the moment is all christmas and birthday celebrations, and with being ill and Princess's poorly toe there has been no time for TTC.
But I am ready to come back if you will let me
Linds your hair looks lovely, it really suits you! Smile hunny, you will have your baby and this move is going to be a wonderful experience for you! It's an adventure
Missy I'm so happy you feel more confident about the other place you've chosen to go (sorry It took me ages to read everything and now I can't remember where it is lol), you will get your baby I know it
Madly aaaaaaargh you're getting huge!!!! LOVE IT!!! Hope you're feeling better
EDIT: A little gutted that we didn't get to BD more purely for the fact that I had 4 days of EWCM, there was tons of it!!
GOODNESS ....linds I know a few people like her not great and so so so unfair
Some people do not deserve kids
Me too hon....some people only have another baby based on how much they can claim for that baby in benefits not for actually wanting the baby but they just see pound signs.....its so so so so sad!
My sister did exactly the same thing Her chap was a grade A kn**head and he would go `underground` for days disappearing off the face of the earth not returning her calls etc, going with other girls (although swearing he didnt!) and you could guarantee he would turn up on her pay day (every fortnight on a friday!) and wait outside her work. He had blown his money so then he decided he would blow hers.....she somehow thought if she got pregnant he would change, funny he already had a 6yr old to someone else and never stepped up to the mark there so why my sister thought he would is anyones guess She got pregnant and moved in with him....followed by months of misery where he became violent towards her even holding a knife to her belly and saying he was going to cut baby out Long story but she eventually realised and moved back home with my parents....my niece was born in feb this year....she is beautiful and my sis is a good mummy although never a natural with kids but I think she has learnt the hard way that `getting pregnant` is no game its damn hard and real!
But she doesnt get pregnant all on her own now does she I understand what you mean though, some woman will do anything at the cost of a poor chids life So sad...am glad to say my niece is looked after by my sister and always will I love to see her face when my sister collects her after I have minded her She has the biggest grin ever for Mummy and pulls her face but that said its not the way its meant to be I think the stork needs to be way more fairer with who he chooses to visit!