i made a balls up on FB that resulted in a major backlash from inlaws .....
i sent this message to many ppl - S.I.L & M.I.L included
Sunday 20th March
Sugley Holy Saviour
11:30 am
no after party so please find us before or after the service, for hugs pics etc, will mak an effort to visit everyone while were hm,
my friend replied -
Cheryl XXXX - 14 February at 15:14 Reply Report
How come ur not having an after party hun? X
thinking i was replying to just her, not the whole group
Joanne Humphreys 14 February at 15:16 no after party cos mil is a selfish bithch & couldnt be doing with "the stress and inonvenice" for somthin "so silly and rediculous" as her only grandsons christenin, and by time she told us she hadnt even looked we coulnt book anywhere! sh twisted sooo bloody much after weddig she wasnt involved so thought shed like to plan christenin, but she couldnt b bothered n told us that "nobody goes t christening these days" and that by wantin a big get together after as silly and immature - weve been out the country 9m, wanted a big bash to show the LO off
cue hatefull messages from SIL -
Chez-
How FUCKING dare you talk about my parents like that!!!! you have no right! who do you think you are????
ME-
it came out in the heat of the moment chez but it is how your mum has made me feel, she told us it was too much stress and we were silly and immature for wanting to celebrate Maddox. we had given her plenty of notice of what we wanted to do as we asked her in Sept, had she said at anypoint that she didnt want to do it or didnt have the time i could have understood but leaving it too late then callin me silly for wanting to celebrate maddox really upset me
yeah well what a lovely big hole ya've just dug for yaself now eh??? they are MY parents!!!!! ya want to back track what yav said they are nooooon wayyyyy selfish if anything its you!
How am i selfish for wantig to celebrate maddox?
it has nothing to do with maddox!!!
it has everything to do with maddox in that its to do with his christening that this is about
it is to do with u and the christening not the bairn!!! that bairn has nooooooo part in this, there has been no pleases no thankyous for anythin that mam and dad have done for you. you may have apologised on FB but you cant go back on the hurt thats been done!!
whilst these texts were going on i posted an apology in the message thread
Joanne Humphreys 14 February at 15:51 WOULD LIKE TO APOLOGISE FOR THAT RANT ABOVE AS IT WAS SAID IN ANGER AND UPSET AND NOT MEANT, CAROL AND DAVE HAVE BEEN AMAZIN GRANDPARENTS IN PROVIDING FOR MADDOX AND IT WAS WRONG OF ME TO LASH OUT OVER THE ISSUE OF FINDING SOMEWHERE FOR FAMILY TO GET TOGETHER AND CELEBRATE MADDOX
meanwhile MIL was on the phne to Hubby - and in that convo it came to light that she
DELIBERATLY planned nothing - ON PURPOSE
because ........
both of us didnt say thank you for the Buggy - only david!! -surely its a given that it was from both of us
and when we asked them "
would you like to plan the LO's christening?" i didnt say PLEASE -
as a result of my message on FB - MIL FIL and SIL will no longer be attending the christening and we're not welcome at theres and they are disowning us!
Hubby is royally pissed off that they would deliberatly ruin Maddox's Christening to be so petty rather than just talk to us, and he's of the opinion that he doesnt Care and has asked his m8 to go to his parents tomoro and collect anything of ours left there!!!![/SIZE]
lol 
Mr G ran me a lovely bath last night with bubbles and candles... so I gave myself a good exfoliating and covered myself in cream... still some peelage on my chest though 
Think I need another holiday to sort it out.... 
