Wriggley
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I know its scary hun but really they are just doing their jobs.
when my youngest was 10 months he fell down our entire flight of stairs.. it was a freak accident - my OH was that close to him he was running down the stairs after him but was an inch away from actually being about to grab him.
We took him to a&e straight away - none of the doctors said a word.. kept him in for the day to monitor him and sent us home with a 'make sure the stair gate is properly close'
I fully expected a SS to follow this up - at our hospital you have to fill in a ss form if your child attends a&e for both accidents and illness its standard so i knew they would know about the incident. but we never heard anything from them. the following week we had a HV appointment. my son was fashioning a black eye and half his forehead was bruised and all she said was 'woops accidents happen'
now i personally felt this SHOULD have been checked on and it makes me feel uneasy that they didnt because it makes me wonder how much children out there need rescuing but are missed because the docs etc are too trusting of what people say. obviously in our case it was just an accident. I in no way doubt ourselfs as parents we do the best we possibly can but they dont know that so yes i do think its important they check up on cases like these.
when my youngest was 10 months he fell down our entire flight of stairs.. it was a freak accident - my OH was that close to him he was running down the stairs after him but was an inch away from actually being about to grab him.
We took him to a&e straight away - none of the doctors said a word.. kept him in for the day to monitor him and sent us home with a 'make sure the stair gate is properly close'
I fully expected a SS to follow this up - at our hospital you have to fill in a ss form if your child attends a&e for both accidents and illness its standard so i knew they would know about the incident. but we never heard anything from them. the following week we had a HV appointment. my son was fashioning a black eye and half his forehead was bruised and all she said was 'woops accidents happen'
now i personally felt this SHOULD have been checked on and it makes me feel uneasy that they didnt because it makes me wonder how much children out there need rescuing but are missed because the docs etc are too trusting of what people say. obviously in our case it was just an accident. I in no way doubt ourselfs as parents we do the best we possibly can but they dont know that so yes i do think its important they check up on cases like these.