BFP! (begging to be fat and pregnant)

[jrc10]

Thank you mrskcbrown! I really hope you're right.

 

[mrskcbrown]

Thank you mrskcbrown! I really hope you're right.

Only positive thoughts hun! Nothing negative!

 

[xSTACEx]

My fingers are crossed for you, JRC! The number sounds decent to me! My last (technically, first pregnancy) only got as high as a 17. I will keep my fingers crossed for you that they keep on doubling! Sounds like a good start, though!

And thanks, ladies, for all your wishes about my 2nd scan tomorrow. I am scared to death! We are waiting to tell family until after tomorrow's appointment. I am so nervous about if we'll hear heartbeats or not. I just try and tell myself that everything must be okay if I haven't had severe cramping, pain or bleeding. I hope I am right. DH says that he's afraid he ended up getting his hopes up too high and that he'll be so crushed if we get bad news tomorrow.

Is this a normal fear? We are both terrified!

 

[jrc10]

Stace - I have a great feeling for you! Can't wait for your update.

 

[Kat_F]

Juniper I'm sorry to hear about your appointment and can't fathom how you and your DH are feeling right now. It really does suck when so much emphasis gets placed on getting pregnant and having a baby so maybe it will be good to take a break and have some time to collect your thoughts....

Thinking of you during what must be such a hard time... xo

STACE I hated waiting for those first few scans and was petrified that things would go wrong... I'm sure everything is fine soon you will know the heartbeat speeds and then it will be onto worrying about the next thing...

 

[jrc10]

Juniper - I'm thinking of you, Hun. I'm so sorry you're having such a rough time. I really think that God will find a way. You are absolutely not crapping out. You need some time. That's totally fine. Woud DH maybe trade in the surgery for a gym membership and a new diet? Just to begin with and see how it goes? Maybe you could go as a family and get everyone a little healthier. It would be great family time.

I also think that once you find out if he's producing sperm, you'll know which way you can go. If he is, I say keep going for it! You all can do this. You really can.

I'm sure he was completely shocked at your appointment. You don't have to be a skinny mini to get pregnant. My DH isn't the smallest guy either. I'm not sure I like your doctor. What about getting a second opinion?

Lots of love. We're all here for you.

 

[jrc10]

I just got a call from my doctor's office. They said my test came back positive, and asked about my last AF. (March 1st) She commented that I wasn't far along at all, asked me about my symptoms, (sore bbs, a little emotional, and feeling some fatigue). She said they sounded good, and they just want to make sure my number is doubling. I'm going for bloodwork again on Monday.

The last time I got that call, they were already concerned that my number was too low (23). I was farther along then, too. I think I was 5 weeks and a few days. My second hcg was only at 61. I've already beaten that!

I could not be happier right now! We'll see how the next step goes.

 

[mrskcbrown]

@Juniper: Dont give up hope! Im with JRC you dont have to be small to get preggo. As you can tell by the pic, my hubby is a big man. 300lbs + and I was around 215+ when I got preggo! So you can get preggo but of course the key is to always be as healthy as you can be. Praying for you and DH.

@Kat: Wow look at you just progressing along! Im so happy for you!

@JRC: Im glad your numbers are way better than last time!

@stace: all will be well with the twins!!! Positive thoughts ur way!

AFM, just getting Malcolm on a schedule. We go to our 6 week check up next friday. I cant believe how fast time is going!!!! DH and I have been with no protection but I dont think I will get BFP that fast as I have PCOS, and cycles can be erratic! Im wondering since I have had the diagnosis with my fertility specialist, if I try to get preggo again, can my OB just prescribe me metformin or do I have to go back to specialist?????? Gosh I hope not! Im going to ask her next friday and see. I know MET is the key to me getting preggo, as it made me have a cycle every month!

Have a good weekend yall!

 

[jrc10]

mrskcbrown! I would just LOVE it if you got preggo again right away! I'm so happy that you're open to it. How fun! I'd say your OB can just prescribe it. Mine does. I don't use a specialist.

 

[BWilliams]

Ok girls I took a pregnancy test last night before we went out but it was a cheap off brand one well toay I went to the bathroom and had the smallest streak of brownish red blood on my panties and when I wiped another small amount of blood and a ton of cm I just went to the bathroom again and hd a load of cm I NEVER get cm so I'm thinking maybe I tested to early because I'm gettting pains in my lower right side also so I'm just going to stay positive and not think about that bfn.....do yuo think 11dpo is to late for implantation

 

[jrc10]

If it's brown that means it's old blood! Maybe it just didn't come out until now.

Give it a couple of days and keep testing!!! (Well, you can keep testing, but don't let yourself get upset until AF shows.) You really never know. Fingers crossed for sure!!!

 

[BWilliams]

The only thing that gets me is it was just like what I read that implantation spotting looks like and since then I have had nothing just a little cm...so now its just a wait and see kinda thing

 

[jrc10]

I'm really hoping for you! Have you maybe dtd a little rough on your vacation? Are you having any symptoms? Is the brown cm something that's happened before?

Sorry for all the questions! I'm just trying to figure it out with you!

 

[BWilliams]

We have not did the dirty lol I want to but he don't because were staying with family...its not that same brown when I got brown before it was always a lot and it didn't go away till af showed up this came and was mixed with very wet cm and I've been pee twice since and nothing not even a trace....I've been crampy for a few days and I keep getting this pain that feels just like ovulation in my right side and I have a sore throat stuffy nose & feel nauciuos off and on...I'm trying not to get my hopes up to much

 

[jrc10]

BWilliams!!! Lots of women get a pain in one side! They say that's the side the eggie came from! I've been having mild cramping in my right side, too.

Sounds good so far!

 

[Pelle]

hello ladies, I am so overwhelmed that I am out for a while and I found three new preggo mummies in our group!!!!!! COngtatulations!!!)))
Kat, ten weeks already, wow, you are very close to the 2nd trimester now!
Stace, I am superhappy for you, I missed you a lot and it is great welcoming you back with such news! Twins are just great, believe me! A whole new world, a miracle, you will enjoy being mother of twins you will see! Yes, it is tiring in the beginning, but you get back love in double, too...!
JRC, my dear, your time has arrived, I send you a huge virtual hug!!!!! So you are having a little winter baby?

Juniper, you come next, honey!!!!

Mrcbrown, your son is so handsome!!!!!!!! I am sure you are very happy with your newest family member! Good to hear you are opened to another baby, we are thinking of it, too, but only from next summer! I am home now with 3 small children)))

 

[jrc10]

Pelle! It's so nice to hear from you! How are your little ones doing?

If everything goes as planned, I could be having the bean close to DH's birthday! December will be a busy shopping time for me. lol. No complaining though. Thank you for the hug!

Stace - how was your scan?

All of us are just taking it one day at a time.

 

[mrskcbrown]

Hey Pelle! Thanks so much! Hope all is well on your end. Yes we are going to try when Malcolm is about 6 months +. We are old and getting no younger. Glad to hear from you!

@Bwilliams: Hoping this is it for you and hubby!

 

[BWilliams]

Ok I don't think I'm pregnant I have more brown spotting and cramps af should be here at like any second ugh!

 

[Shey]

Brooke how was your vacation down here in Florida?

Pelle and Mrskcbrown how are you mommies doing? how are your LO's?

Jrc,Kat, Stace how are you ladies feeling?

Juniper I say you are next!

asfm still waiting to see if anyone buys the house so that my parents,my LO and I can move to Orlando where there are actually jobs. Im almost done with this semester of school. I have a few weeks left til finals.