BFP! (begging to be fat and pregnant)

[Juniper]

oh kat, i am sorry hun. i wish i could come give you a hug

 

[Kat_F]

Thanks Juniper xox Bit sad in our house today we tried so hard.. might go to see a specialist to make sure everything ok with my body

 

[Jolene]

Kat, that's not on. Sending I was so sure this was it for you

It's OK if you start eating the chocolate now already we won't tell the easter bunny.

 

[Pelle]

Kat, damn witch (((((((((((( I prayed so much to see a BFP this morning from you.

Juniper, you are the queen of patience, my dear!)) Sunday is so far away! Happy Birthday to your son, btw! What did the little fellow get?

 

[Juniper]

lol pelle. i am actually not patient at all! i am just terrified of bfns. i figure that if i still have a chance of getting a bfp i would rather wait and make sure that i get it next time i test. also, i will be at 20 dpo when i test, so i will know that whatever the results are will be the truth... thanks for the birthday wish! he turned 11 so got preteeny things a skate board, legos, an mp3 player, pokemon cards...

 

[Daria87]

Good afternoon ladies.Hope everyone is doing well.Sounds like everyone is starting to do better.

Kat-Sorry you didn't get a bfp.I'll be sending and your way.

Juniper-It might be a stupid question,but do your boys know that you and your OH are trying to get pregnant? Just from your picture they look like nice boys so I'm sure they would be great big brothers .

No for me yet.Like I said,I'm still not trying to get ahead of myself but since yesterday,my stomach has been sore but not how it usually is when I'm expecting AF. I was due on wednesday and since then,nothing.Last night OH and I were talking and he's already excited to start working on the nursery.I told him that we could after I find out that I'm pregnant.It's nice to know that he's really excited to start planning and whatnot.

OH and I are finally starting to talk about us FINALLY getting married.He called up a mutual friend of ours and asked if she could take us to get our marriage license and she said that she'd call him back next week.

Well,I hope everyone has a great day and to you all. I'm REALLY looking forward to seeing someone get a in this group *fingers crossed*

 

[Jolene]

Aww Daria, that's sweet. And enjoy the wedding planning, it sounds like your OH is ready for his own little fam.

My son was holding my 2 month old nephew today, rubbing his head until he fell asleep. He even tried to convince the parents to leave the LO behind and he will keep him as a baby brother. I think he reckons if he must wait for me to give him a sibling he's going to wait forever. I'll attach a pic.



I hope everyone had/is having a great Good Friday (Kat, babe you're allowed to mope and throw things) I've eaten way too much.

 

[Juniper]

daria - it's not a stupid question. they know that we want a baby, but we haven't talked about the planning abound them, so they don't realize the extent of trying that is happening i am sure my sil is pregnant and every time they come home from her house they tell me they want me to have a baby! a sister... also, congrats on the wedding! that is very exciting. word of advice, don't plan it too far out while ttc. both my bff and my sil got pg about 8 months before the wedding. both had to postpone.

jolene - that pic is really cute! is that you with him? a fellow redhead? it is great that he wants a baby so bad! i am sure that he was not thinking that at all. you know how impatient kids are, when they want something they want to see results now.

wow i am chatty today! lol. i am going to go clean the new house today. should my fun with one arm! i think that my body is starting to act like it should if i'm not pg. temp was right around cover again today and soreness in bbs is going away.. areola is still dark which seems weird to me...

 

[Juniper]

daria - it's not a stupid question. they know that we want a baby, but we haven't talked about the planning abound them, so they don't realize the extent of trying that is happening i am sure my sil is pregnant and every time they come home from her house they tell me they want me to have a baby! a sister... also, congrats on the wedding! that is very exciting. word of advice, don't plan it too far out while ttc. both my bff and my sil got pg about 8 months before the wedding. both had to postpone.

jolene - that pic is really cute! is that you with him? a fellow redhead? it is great that he wants a baby so bad! i am sure that he was not thinking that at all. you know how impatient kids are, when they want something they want to see results now.

wow i am chatty today! lol. i am going to go clean the new house today. should my fun with one arm! i think that my body is starting to act like it should if i'm not pg. temp was right around cover again today and soreness in bbs is going away.. areola is still dark which seems weird to me...

 

[Daria87]

Jolene-That's such a great pic.Your son looks so protective .Seeing how much OH wants a baby makes me all the more comfortable.

Juniper-Aww that's great about the boys. OH and I were planning for a big wedding months ago but now all we really want to do is go the courthouse route.Then maybe a couple years down the road,we'll plan something bigger.We just want the day to be about us.

Here's a question for you ladies. For those of you who already have children,what was your policy on visitors at the hospital? For those of you TTC,have you thought about who you want in the hospital with you and who is going to be allowed to see the baby? I've already thought of mine and talked it over with OH and he's on board with it.

Sending and to all you ladies

 

[Jolene]

Yip Jenn that's me. I was wondering if you were a natural redhead and was going to ask.

Daria, I ended up with a caesar when I had my son and in the labour ward and theatre all I wanted was my DH. Once Jess was born, I wanted everyone there. I wanted to show him off to the world. Things have changed so much since he was born. Because he was a caesar-baby he had to stay in an incubator for 4hrs as that was standard at the time. Nowadays you can do kangacare and have your baby with you immediately. And when your visitors come they can hold baba too. That's where I'd probably be a bit more sticky, lol.

 

[Daria87]

Yip Jenn that's me. I was wondering if you were a natural redhead and was going to ask.

Daria, I ended up with a caesar when I had my son and in the labour ward and theatre all I wanted was my DH. Once Jess was born, I wanted everyone there. I wanted to show him off to the world. Things have changed so much since he was born. Because he was a caesar-baby he had to stay in an incubator for 4hrs as that was standard at the time. Nowadays you can do kangacare and have your baby with you immediately. And when your visitors come they can hold baba too. That's where I'd probably be a bit more sticky, lol.

Lol. OH and I have already decided that we don't want his mom holding the baby the first night.When she went to see OH's brother and his girlfriend in the hospital after their daughter was born,she walked in and pretty much demanded that she hold the baby.Even now,OH's brother,his girlfriend,and the baby are all living next door with his parents and whenever I happen to go over there,there's OH's mom holding the baby and whatnot.I understand that she's excited that it's her first grandchild but from what I've seen,it's almost like she's trying to take over the mothering role.And that's DEFINITELY something I will not have.

 

[SteffyRae]

I would like to join! Hello ladies!

 

[Daria87]

Hi SteffyRae Welcome

 

[SteffyRae]

Thank you! How long have you been TTC?

 

[Daria87]

SteffyRae-Not too long.Almost two months or so.How about you?

 

[Juniper]

jolene - yep, i'm a natural redhead. it is funny because my oldest is a redhead too and peopl in public always say "oh you got your mom's red hair!" he just looks at me and giggles.

welcome steffyrea! glad to have you

ok, i have a really weird favor to ask one of you who checks their cp. can you check it with both hand next time and tell me if the position feels different when you switch? you know i had to switch hands, and i am not sure if the position is accurate. it is so high that i can barely make out the firmness!

ps- i take back what i said about my bbs. it moved to the other side. it has only been one at a time that is sore...

 

[Daria87]

Good evening ladies.I need your opinions. I still haven't gotten a visit from the . I was due on wednesday and I've only taken one hpt and that was weeks ago. What I want to know is,does anyone think I should take another one? I want to try to hold out and I'm not getting my hopes up that I am pregnant and in the end,I think I will just wait until I have my doctor's appointment but as the days go by, it is kind of getting to me.

 

[Juniper]

i'm sorry daria, could you refresh me on your situation? when did you come off bc? any odd periods before this? do you know when you ovulated?

 

[Daria87]

I believe I came off BC early feburary,I ovulated I believe on the 17th of last month and OH and I did all we could (so to speak). I'm not saying that I'm pregnant but I've just been feeling really odd and when I had come off birth control before,the only side effect was I was an emotional basket case.And like I said before,as long as the doctor tells me I'm healthy when I go to the doctor,I'll be happy.