BFP! (begging to be fat and pregnant)

[Juniper]

well, i got a bfn this morning. i am giving up. i am going to change my chart and leave it that way this time. i am going to start opks in a few days and see if i ovulate this month.. not sure what is going to happen...

 

[Daria87]

SteffyRae-I wish you luck and send your way.

Still no sign of the today. OH wants me to take a hpt tomorrow so I think I may cave and do it.He keeps telling me to be positive but I know that I'll be upset if I see another .

 

[jrc10]

I don't even understand the charts on here...I have a period tracker on my Iphone that "tells" me when I ovulate and am fertile..but I've just been trying to do it every other/2 days.

We'll see how that goes...

 

[BWilliams]

Holidays stink when your not mommy I just really wish I could be a mom this is all i ever wanted i just really hope it happens soon

 

[Daria87]

BWilliams-I know what you mean.I saw a picture of an easter basket a friend of mine made for her daughter since it's her first easter and I felt a twinge of jealousy.

SteffyRae-I don't track or chart either.I tried doing that stuff before and it just stressed me out more.This time around,OH and I are just going to take a more easy going approach at it.

 

[BWilliams]

I was just helping my sil get the kids Easter stuff ready and she has a 5 month old daughter and man i just want a baby...Juniper im sorry u got a bfn one day we will all have sweet little bundles of joys to hold

 

[Kat_F]

Sorry to hear about your BFN Juniper xoxoxox onwards to the next cycle.

I can't even bring myself to temp right now. Might start temping next Tuesday.

We are going to trying the SMEP this month but I'm still going to temp and OPK because I need to know where I am to stay sane. I'm probably going to go to a specialist to get ultrasound and see if I'm PCOS or not and find out what's happening inside. Just in case something needs fixing better to find out now than keep getting BFN every month for a year or so and not know what's wrong.

 

[Pelle]

Good morning, ladies!

Great day to the team, I have seen in the BFP announcments, that we have our first happy BFP..... I am sure she will come soon and tell)))

Juniper, I am sorry for the test result Is your temp the usual temp you have in the first half of the cycle? I have no idea how to count CD1 for you!

Amber, welcome back, dear!))) Sounds like you had so much fun!

 

[Pelle]

Kat, I have PCOs, and if you had that, too, you could not really have such beautiful BBT charts without medication.

That is why I cannot use opk, because when you have PCOS, your hormone levels are different (for example would show a (false!) LH surge on many days etc., because your LH level is higher) and you don't have an ovulation in every month, because of the hormonal imbalance the egg - instead of coming out - remains in the sac like pearls. It is because the lack (or low level) of progesterone. But also if you lack progesterone (or have a low level), you also have symptoms: spotting, AF cramps starting from 2 weeks, ten days before AF etc.
If you see the fertility monitors the disclamer says: not to use them if you have PCO, because it might not work.

How about your man? A friend of mine did not get pregnant for long time when the doctor noticed once that her husband use laptops every day for hours on his laps.... it is enough heat to kill the soldiers in an hour. it is only an example that sometimes the reason can be nothing serious. (They bought a special pillow and got pregnant in 2 months).

 

[Juniper]

i know pelle. i am confused too! no, my temps are not as low as they should be, and they are not as high as they should if i were pg.. i am counting the day i spotted all day as cd1. that would put me on cd8. i am going to order a big pack of opks and see if i o. i have decided that i am going to give temping a rest until i am back on track. we will see i guess

 

[Jolene]

Everyone sounds so down Sending you all some cyber and hope all the chocolate today heightens those endorphins and makes us happy, crazy TTC peeps.

Mwah, mwah, mwah!

 

[Daria87]

Congrats to SteffyRae for her .

I took a hpt at like 12:30 this morning cause OH wanted me to and I got the result that I knew I was going to get. Yet again,it was negative. I kept telling him it was going to be negative but he STILL wanted me to take it. I do love him but I just wish he would've listened to me. I hated seeing the words "not pregnant". I know we just started but it still hurt to see that . Still no sign of AF today though.

I hope everyone else has a great easter

 

[amberdawn723]

Sorry Daria and Juniper for your bfns. Those are never fun to get.

I was so tired last night from being up nearly 48 hours that I slept right through my alarm this morning, but managed to get up at 8am with my DD. Temp is down now at 11dpo but missed so many temps....don't know if af is coming soon or not. I have a pap smear scheduled for April 12 next Monday. Hoping af is over with by then or I'll have to reschedule.

 

[amberdawn723]

Well just went and checked cm and cp for the first time in a week and sure enough I'm spotting. Guess af will be here before the end of the day. Onwards to the next cycle! Woohoo....sooooo glad I'm not still waiting for af. Let's catch that April eggie and get us a 2011 baby!

 

[NGRidley]

Hello Everyone!
I hope you are all doing OK.

I just got back from Niagara Falls last night, so this is my first time on since Monday night.

My AF has still been out of whack from the chemical....but it is gone now (sucked that it was here during my trip). Have been taking 200mg soy from cd5-9 so hopefully it helps my O this month

 

[amberdawn723]

Hey NGRidley! Hope you had fun in Niagara Falls. It's beautiful there, isn't it? We visited way back in 1999 as it is close to where my grandmother grew up in Galt, Ontario.

Hope the soy helps you o! Long cycles are horrid.

 

[Jolene]

OK so my chart sucks right now!!!!!! I posted a thread in the TTC section asking what temp I should put as the one at 4:45 was 36.4 and at 7:30 was 36.7. I usually temp at 6am. I suppose it's obvious to chart the 36.4 but then there's no way I'm pregnant I'm already on CD26 of a 28/29 day cycle, my temps should be rising.

If it doesn't happen this month I'll be so tempted to go in some AI direction. Probably IUI so the doc can flush out the bad sperm and get me a healthy baby. I'm getting desperate now. I want a healthy little bundle of joy!

PMA PMA PMA PMA PMA Don't worry I'm not having a break down here, just trying to relieve some anxiety,

 

[NGRidley]

Jolene - to be honest I would have kept the first temp and marked sleep deprived....because the first temp was actually closer to your regular temp time.

 

[Daria87]

Thanks Amberdawn . I knew that I was going to get a but I still got upset when I saw it. Like I said before,I can understand where OH was coming from when he wanted me to test but I just wish he would've believed me when I told him I knew it would be negative. So now this is my first easter away from my parents and I got another today.Plus I don't even have any chocolate .

So now I guess onto next month and starting to try the sperm meets egg plan. I have 10 opks but they're all different brands. Does anyone think that would make a difference?

 

[jrc10]

Happy Easter everyone! Having one of our ladies get her BFP gives me hope!

Let's keep it up ladies!