BFP's, Great Mojo, and Dancing Bunnies

[mummy3ds]

It is good that you get on with your other halfs family, how did you end up in Oregon if you don't mind me asking?
Sorry to hear your stories girls Im afraid I cant offer advice though xx

 

[tankel]

He has not had a SA done since I have met him, but we are not to the point where I can ask him to get one done as we have only been seriously trying since August and there is a possibility that there is no problem. No need to put pressure on him about this sperm quality yet.

I put the preseed everywhere it got wiped away from the outside with all that friction. DH is kind of sensitive about lube, so I did not tell him I even got it, or what it was for. Just applied it about 30 mins before it was time. Because of this, I couldn't just put a little more on. Our BDing is a sensitive subject as he feels as if he is letting me down. Since starting TTC, the whole thing can be quite an ordeal and we have lost our rhythm. And to be truthful, I think I am more sensitive about the whole thing than he is. There is the whole dynamic where he is feeling pressure to finish more quickly and I can't help but think that I am doing something wrong. It is silly I know, but issues with sex often are.

 

[mytimewillcum]

Really sorry you are feeling like this, I was gunna suggest to use more lube ,but if OH isn't keen then that's not a good idea ..u said hubby has discomfort during bd?, has he been seen by a doc regarding this? Because that must be awful for him aswell as you the way u feel now, I felt like that back last year so totally feel for you! And You totally BLAME yourself ...("my situation was a little diff to yours, I really let the ttc thing take over my life, at one point It was really bad") and I made OH so uncomfortable, to the point he couldn't "finish" an then that really got my back up ! .. And we argued like hell! ... After that I took a few months off .. Then when we started trying again I remembered we used to have so much fun! and ttc ruined that! .. So I thought to myself I wanna have fun again and I'm guessing OH do to, so we went back to what it "used to be like b4 ttc" ... Dressing up ,oral sex (all that stopped and sex was just BORING) and touch wood its been amazing! Sorry if I went on abit ... But I hope you get to the bottom of this tankel and I really wish I could help xx

 

[mytimewillcum]

Oh and I am here if you need a chat or just to vent !

 

[tankel]

thanks mytime. It is nice to be able to talk about how I really feel. As far as the DH goes, he is not interested in seeing a doctor about his pain. The whole thing kind of mortifies him. I understand that as we are both extremely private people. Normally it isn't this awkward for us, it just since the whole pressure of finishing inside me. Without that pressure, things are pretty good for us. I am just hoping that things get better with practice . . . and we are going to get a lot with the SMEP!

 

[tankel]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

 

[mytimewillcum]

thanks mytime. It is nice to be able to talk about how I really feel. As far as the DH goes, he is not interested in seeing a doctor about his pain. The whole thing kind of mortifies him. I understand that as we are both extremely private people. Normally it isn't this awkward for us, it just since the whole pressure of finishing inside me. Without that pressure, things are pretty good for us. I am just hoping that things get better with practice . . . and we are going to get a lot with the SMEP!

I totally get the being private thing .. My OH was exactly the same it must be a Man thing,.. Tbh my OH only went for fertility tests because I drove him. MAD and kept on at him (feel a little bad for that ) ... But I was sick of blaming myself, and low and behold my OH has a very minor problem with his 's thankfully it won't effect our chance s to conceive !..... As they say practice makes perfect and I wish you all the luck in the world this cycle and i'll have my fingers tightly crossed for you ! ,.and of course the rest of the other ladies here x

 

[mytimewillcum]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Only reason I aint gunna ss this time is because the clomid gives u pregnancy symptoms! Hence my extremely sore bb's last cycle !! But with that being said, I'm crazy! and will probs ss anyway

 

[mummy3ds]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Ok silly question what is ss???

I love the dancing bunnies, my DH thinks he luck is majorly in atm with me making a huge effort lol
I love those little guys lets have some to go with them xx

 

[tankel]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Ok silly question what is ss???

I love the dancing bunnies, my DH thinks he luck is majorly in atm with me making a huge effort lol
I love those little guys lets have some to go with them xx

ss=symptom spot

 

[mummy3ds]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Ok silly question what is ss???

I love the dancing bunnies, my DH thinks he luck is majorly in atm with me making a huge effort lol
I love those little guys lets have some to go with them xx

ss=symptom spot

I had realised that once I had posted
I think it is really hard not to ss (he he I can use it too) I will try not to but know that I will end up doing so!!
So TMI but we are all friends here anyway today I have got lots of EWCM really sticky elastic stuff, my poor DH has told me how tired he is but Ive told him he can have a night off tomorrow lol

 

[tankel]

looking good mummy, is it your normal cd for o? I still have at least WEEK to wait for my o-day. I did bring my opts to work though and might use one. hehehe I guess I just like to poas!

 

[mytimewillcum]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Ok silly question what is ss???

I love the dancing bunnies, my DH thinks he luck is majorly in atm with me making a huge effort lol
I love those little guys lets have some to go with them xx

ss=symptom spot

I had realised that once I had posted
I think it is really hard not to ss (he he I can use it too) I will try not to but know that I will end up doing so!!
So TMI but we are all friends here anyway today I have got lots of EWCM really sticky elastic stuff, my poor DH has told me how tired he is but Ive told him he can have a night off tomorrow lol

That's sounds like a fair deal! get him in that bedroom, he can rest tomoz
With cm like that I would pounce on my OH !!

 

[mummy3ds]

looking good mummy, is it your normal cd for o? I still have at least WEEK to wait for my o-day. I did bring my opts to work though and might use one. hehehe I guess I just like to poas!

Lol I don't OPK, but am fairly sure I had O pain on Monday and Od tues or Wed so it could be that I didn't and am but I honestly don't know, Im making sure DH and I have it covered
Last month my cycle was 31 days but I am normally 28 spot on we haven't used BC since March but were being careful until July when we got pg with our angel. I am thinking I should test sometime the last week of Nov but again I really don't know, plus as I mentioned earlier my folks and bro will be here at the end of that week.
TBH DH and I are going away to the Christmas Markets on the Thurs of that week, we are staying the night away too so maybe I should take a test with me

 

[mytimewillcum]

Just started getting lines on my opk's think I will "o" around about the same time as you tankel

 

[mummy3ds]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Ok silly question what is ss???

I love the dancing bunnies, my DH thinks he luck is majorly in atm with me making a huge effort lol
I love those little guys lets have some to go with them xx

ss=symptom spot

I had realised that once I had posted
I think it is really hard not to ss (he he I can use it too) I will try not to but know that I will end up doing so!!
So TMI but we are all friends here anyway today I have got lots of EWCM really sticky elastic stuff, my poor DH has told me how tired he is but Ive told him he can have a night off tomorrow lol

That's sounds like a fair deal! get him in that bedroom, he can rest tomoz
With cm like that I would pounce on my OH !!

Oh that has made me giggle, he just told me he got up at 4am and then struggled to get back to sleep I told him he should have woken me up by popping his bits in my face he has now asked me what is wrong with me so I have explained that women have 2 times of the month the good one and the bad one

 

[mytimewillcum]

I understand how you all don't want to ss. But I really enjoy it. So far I am not more sad that normal about af knocking on my door. And ss really helps me pass the time. I am really excited about this cycle for all of us. this is such a great group. I am going to work those dancing bunnies overtime so they can spread their fertile joy all over this tread!

Ok silly question what is ss???

I love the dancing bunnies, my DH thinks he luck is majorly in atm with me making a huge effort lol
I love those little guys lets have some to go with them xx

ss=symptom spot

I had realised that once I had posted
I think it is really hard not to ss (he he I can use it too) I will try not to but know that I will end up doing so!!
So TMI but we are all friends here anyway today I have got lots of EWCM really sticky elastic stuff, my poor DH has told me how tired he is but Ive told him he can have a night off tomorrow lol

That's sounds like a fair deal! get him in that bedroom, he can rest tomoz
With cm like that I would pounce on my OH !!

Oh that has made me giggle, he just told me he got up at 4am and then struggled to get back to sleep I told him he should have woken me up by popping his bits in my face he has now asked me what is wrong with me so I have explained that women have 2 times of the month the good one and the bad one

 

[tankel]

Too funny, mummy!

I think I found my TTC soul mates!

 

[mytimewillcum]

Too funny, mummy!

I think I found my TTC soul mates!

 

[mummy3ds]

Morning lovelies
This is such a lovely group, I am glad I am sharing this time with you
This morning I have woken up with awful back ache and headache so am thinking I may have bug, going to have a chilled day as working tomorrow.
Be back later to see how everyone is xx