bring on baby!! Welcome!!!

[bexxc]

i would be honest with her and say that bentlie won't spend a minute in their home because of their unhealthy habits. if you don't want bentlie in that environment then you don't have to bring her there. just refuse.

 

[bexxc]

just make sure you've made your intentions and reasons clear beforehand.


army- your tickers look great!

 

[annie00]

U don't know this lady to well she has punched me and I punched her back it's either her way r no way!! She is crazy physco and if lance isn't on my side I'm gonna leave him!! Sad to say but he has to stand up for his feelings too

 

[annie00]

I can't do that I'm just gonna keep saying no she is to young still and blah blah .. Lance needs to tell her not me!!

 

[bexxc]

wow. if she lays a hand on you or threatens you, have her arrested. do not let your child go over there. she is clearly abusive and that is not a safe environment for a baby.

 

[bexxc]

you must be more patient than me. if that were my mil you couldn't pay me enough to bite my tongue.

 

[armymama2012]

I hope it doesn't come to that. I have started to stand up against my mom since we have been married. I love my mom but she is really selfish most of the time.

 

[armymama2012]

Ok, be back in an hour. I need to eat. Read my Bible chapters for today. And do the rest of the dishes, ugh.

 

[annie00]

Yea she never put her hands on me ever again!!! She realized i was here to stay an she couldn't make me leave!!
I can't stan her!!

And tbh I know that is gonna be one of me and lances biggest problems bc he isn't gonna stand up for his thoughts!!

Monday I was across the street visiting my friend and she came over here to use our phone but I wasn't home so she was leaving N the bug man pulled up and she ended up coming in our house and letting the man spray which I dc but if I would go in her house without her knowing I would get in so much trouble!!!
I told lance to tell her don't do it again as he didn't see
Know harm in it!!!

 

[bexxc]

imo if lance isn't going to stand up for bentlie, you have to do it. you should make it clear that you're not going to put her in a physically dangerous environment with an abusive person who exposes her to deadly toxins.

 

[annie00]

I know.. Lance knows how I feel he says he feels the same way but I don't believe him..

I mean I'll let her go over there when I with her if and if the lite one up I'm outta there

 

[bexxc]

your mil sounds trashy...i'm sorry.

 

[annie00]

Trashy ain't the word she never washes her hair she likes to start shit and now she is gonna make me have a used swing that I can't return!!!

 

[bexxc]

just thank her for it and donate it to goodwill or something...

 

[armymama2012]

Trashy ain't the word she never washes her hair she likes to start shit and now she is gonna make me have a used swing that I can't return!!!

My grandma was nice and bought me a swing for my son from a garage sale. It was good for 5 months but then he fell out of it because he was able to kick the tray open and the harnesses weren't operating properly (the latch wasn't secure enough). I appreciated that she got it for me but I left it at my parents house when I was there.

 

[annie00]

Well she ended up calling me about my registry and said someone bought the swing I wanted on my registry today an that is for her for her house.. It's cute but I'm not gonna have my baby sleeping there!!

I just took the fun fettie brownies out now I'm cookin my sweet n sour chicken served over rice and corn ..

 

[bexxc]

mmmm....sounds so good. i'm still starving, but i'm trying not to chow down all the groceries i bought yesterday.

 

[annie00]

That is the hardest thing to do when I buy groceries I want some of each lmao!!!

Lances aunt bought me s stroller and car seat combo off my registry

 

[bexxc]

stupid double post!

 

[bexxc]

wow! that's fabulous!

i am so anxious for our furniture to arrive. they're supposed to call by tomorrow to set up a delivery date/time. i'm tired of waiting!!! i want to put it in the nursery already!