no!!! you don't want to start smoking again after the baby! it's not healthy for little bean! and what if you want to get pregnant again. quitting is hard enough the first time. you don't want to have to go through all of that again!!!!!
my mom came to u/s last time, so we invited my mil to come to the next one. i think she's excited about it, but she can be a little weird sometimes so we'll see.