buddy wanted - ttc after ectopic surgery to remove a tube or more

[wantjust1more]

Well af showed up three days ago, but it's okay i'm still hopeful and onto iui #2 this cycle, with it being Natural no clomid or femara. FX'd this is it!!!

 

[ladyluck84]

Think she is about to show for me too. But at least then I will know my dates. I have no idea at the moment!

 

[c.m.c]

my HCG came back at over 10,000 its defo doubling every 48hrs!!!!!

 

[Amcolecchi]

Way to stay positive I got prego my second IUI back in April so two times is the charm!

Well af showed up three days ago, but it's okay i'm still hopeful and onto iui #2 this cycle, with it being Natural no clomid or femara. FX'd this is it!!!

 

[babey]

10 days ago I had surgery to remove my 7 week old eptopic pregnancy. They tried to save as much of my right tube as possible because my left one was badly scarred, meaning its very unlikely I will fall pregnant naturally I would love to hear of any success stories from anyone who had been through a similar experience! My partner and I would love to have a baby! I'm still feeling very depressed about losing my baby.

Xx

Ealtly Miscarriage 2010
Eptopic at 7 weeks August 2103

 

[ladyluck84]

Great news cmc

 

[c.m.c]

10 days ago I had surgery to remove my 7 week old eptopic pregnancy. They tried to save as much of my right tube as possible because my left one was badly scarred, meaning its very unlikely I will fall pregnant naturally I would love to hear of any success stories from anyone who had been through a similar experience! My partner and I would love to have a baby! I'm still feeling very depressed about losing my baby.

Xx

Ealtly Miscarriage 2010
Eptopic at 7 weeks August 2103

Hello

I'm so sorry for your losses. Have you investigated Ivf?

 

[Peacenik]

10 days ago I had surgery to remove my 7 week old eptopic pregnancy. They tried to save as much of my right tube as possible because my left one was badly scarred, meaning its very unlikely I will fall pregnant naturally I would love to hear of any success stories from anyone who had been through a similar experience! My partner and I would love to have a baby! I'm still feeling very depressed about losing my baby.

Xx
I'm so sorry for your loss Babey.

 

[ladyluck84]

Babey what have they said to your about the future are they going to refer you to a specialist?

 

[babey]

Thank you ladies

I am entitled to IVF on the NHS which is great, it just seems a lot to take in at the moment. They said we would need to 'try' for a year before we could even get the ball rolling with IVF though, which seems pointless knowing my tubes are badly damaged! We never realised we wanted a baby this much until we lost. I guess we are still grieving and need time to think about our options. I hate moping around but I just feel like it's so unfair! Xx

 

[ladyluck84]

Do you need to be trying for another year? just wondering as I have had 2 losses but they said they would refer me after 18 months of trying in total

 

[Amcolecchi]

Ok they called and I am not happy...they said my blood was 2,041 and she said that was normal because I am doubling (At 4 weeks I was 131 and two days later was 351 and today is exactly 5 weeks) but I feel like I should be more than that...so I am just so worried..I was 6,000 last time I had my ectopic and I was 6w3d I want to see if they would let me come Friday....I dunno...I want to cry

 

[c.m.c]

Ok they called and I am not happy...they said my blood was 2,041 and she said that was normal because I am doubling (At 4 weeks I was 131 and two days later was 351 and today is exactly 5 weeks) but I feel like I should be more than that...so I am just so worried..I was 6,000 last time I had my ectopic and I was 6w3d I want to see if they would let me come Friday....I dunno...I want to cry

Your numbers are perfect. If you double those you will be 8000 at 6 weeks this time and that's great

 

[Amcolecchi]

Thank you ladies! I guess it's just so easy to get worked up about it, you know? My husband and I sat down and realized the last time I had my ectopic I was only like 550 at 5 weeks so I am doing A LOT better than last time...ahh 8 more days lol..trying to take one day at a time now!

 

[hilslo]

Hi ladies just thought i'd pop in. Bad news from me I'm afraid. Two scans over thr past few days have shown that i was having twins. Baby b had already died a few days prior and todays scan showed baby a's heart has now stopped beating too. 3 babies in 4 months. Heart broken doesn't come close.

They were def both in my uterus this time though so fingers crossed for next time.
Might take a break for a bit though.

Good luck ladies. xx

 

[Amcolecchi]

Hilso-I am so sorry girl!!! I know there is nothing I can say or do that will make you feel better but definitely try to stay positive. You got prego with twins with one tube and they were in the right area! You are moving along in the right direction. PLEASE take care of yourself and get plenty of rest and when you are fully ready we will all be here for you!

 

[Peacenik]

Hi ladies just thought i'd pop in. Bad news from me I'm afraid. Two scans over thr past few days have shown that i was having twins. Baby b had already died a few days prior and todays scan showed baby a's heart has now stopped beating too. 3 babies in 4 months. Heart broken doesn't come close.

They were def both in my uterus this time though so fingers crossed for next time.
Might take a break for a bit though.

Good luck ladies. xx

I'm so sorry Hilslo. It's so unfair. I'll be thinking of you.

 

[c.m.c]

Hi ladies just thought i'd pop in. Bad news from me I'm afraid. Two scans over thr past few days have shown that i was having twins. Baby b had already died a few days prior and todays scan showed baby a's heart has now stopped beating too. 3 babies in 4 months. Heart broken doesn't come close.

They were def both in my uterus this time though so fingers crossed for next time.
Might take a break for a bit though.

Good luck ladies. xx

I'm so sorry hilslo

It's just so shocking to lose 3 in that time it's so unfair

I truly hope there is a rainbow very soon for you. I feel devastated for you. I feel like I know what us ectopic girls have been through and this s just devastating after an ectopic

 

[sandyhen85]

Hey ladies, sorry I haven't been on for ages, last months cycle was so messed up and I didn't take it very well, so decided to calm it on everything including my obsessing on all the different threads on here haha

I decided to just temp this month, i used OPKs for the first time last month and they just made me crazy, I couldnt distinguish a positive from a negative and the digi ones are not available here in Thailand. So far things are going better this month, im a lot calmer thats for sure. My temps say I ovulated on Cd10 (wed 7th Aug) and they are so far remaining high. I started getting tender bbs on 2dpo which I thought was crazy, but I've only ever had tenderness the 2 times I've been pregnant. Today I am 8DPO and when I woke up today for work I actually felt like crying when I put my bra on, they hurt so much, but it was also across my chest and through my upper arms which I've never had before...I posted in the 2week wait trying to find out if anyone has experienced this, but got no response, so I think maybe I'm just coming down with something. I'm going to do a test in the morning and go from there.

I am so thrilled for the ladies with your BFPs, amazing news - H&H 9 months to you. sorry to hear of the new ladies losses, I hope you're all doing ok (as well as can be of course). hilslo, I was so happy for you when i was reading the messages catching up with what's been going on, and then devastated for you when I got to the end and saw your last msg, my heart goes out to you and your partner...I don't know if there are any words that can make you feel better at this point, but I really hope you're doing ok x

 

[ladyluck84]

Nice to see you again sandyhen. Let us know how u get on with testing