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buddy wanted - ttc after ectopic surgery to remove a tube or more

I've just noticed my previous post....I'm so sorry for the auto correct text I hope u guys understood what I typed lol.

Yes I had 2 positive
O tests today. Am defo going for it....how r u sandi? Are u temping?

I think I'm Oing today.... Is your O day cd16 ?
 
I'm sure we all understood don't worry hehe

I'm meant to o tomorrow apparently (although i thought it was meant to be today) tests don't seem to be getting dark tho, so not sure i will this month......I did however feel some twinges in my left side earlier. I'm trying to temp as well, but they are all over the place......going to continue to bd everyday and hope for the best...wasn't expecting a bfp first month though, as it took around 3 last time.

That's great that you got a positive though c.m.c, are you temping too? The whole temping process does confuse me, my low temps also concern me....I think I worried less when I just said we would bd everyday for 1 week around ovulation and go from there.....it worked to be fair haha

First baby hope you get a positive soon....well all be entering the two week wait soon eek!!!
 
I am temping but taking no notice lol...I too believe in lots of DTD...... I only had positive O tests on the digital ones.

Hope we get our BFP
 
Living in Thailand means my tests are about 10years behind....you cannot get digital anything out here, so relying on normal read it yourself jobbies haha
 
sandy maybe have a look on ebay and get sum digi delivered! mite take a while tho lol

my test lines have stayed the same the last three days so now im wondering if these tests r actually right or not. dtd everyday just incase... tho sometimes I have to force the oh into it... feels a bit rapey lol
 
I was going to get some delivered, but then at Christmas and over my birthday in February, my family sent packages and cards to me and half of them never arrived, so now I'm not having anything posted to me...it's ok though DTD everyday is better for me I think......I seem to be stressing over my temps and today my opk at 8pm and 11pm were super light compared to yesterday, but I went to sleep for a couple of hours after the 11pm one and tested again at 3:30am and its back to the same as yesterday.....also, I started bleeding during our bding last night and still spotting when I wipe today, it's a watery red blood, so not sure if my cycle is out of whack.....but my point is that doing this temping/opk testing seems to be getting me more worked up than I was before.....I think I might go back to nothing after this cycle.....btw I live in Thailand, but I work uk hours so my living hours are odd too, i sleep 5am - 1pm and then work evenings through to 11pm/midnight which of course means my testing and temping are all at odd times, hence the 3:30am test tonight haha

First baby I'm sure your oh has no problem with DTD every night, my other half is in his element right now haha I hope those opk's get darker tomorrow for you
 
my partners actually a nightmare past 9pm he falls asleep n gets grumpy. its a bit difficult atm as I have lodgers and they r always here n its obvious if we go lock ourselves in our room, plus my bed is creaky grrr lol..
they go away this weekend luckily just in time for my ovulation :)
 
Hey ladies, can I join? In Jan. of this year my husband was diagnosed 2% sperm morphology which is awful...so we did IUI's. The first one failed, the second one I got pregnant but unfortunately on May 20th found out it was ectopic, had surgery and lost my left tube. I am still waiting for my numbers to go down. The day of my surgery my numbers were 6000 and today they were 40. It's been 5 weeks since the surgery. I want to get to 0 so we can start trying asap. How long did it take you ladies to reach 0 and when did you start trying again? Thank you for all the support!
 
Hey ladies, can I join? In Jan. of this year my husband was diagnosed 2% sperm morphology which is awful...so we did IUI's. The first one failed, the second one I got pregnant but unfortunately on May 20th found out it was ectopic, had surgery and lost my left tube. I am still waiting for my numbers to go down. The day of my surgery my numbers were 6000 and today they were 40. It's been 5 weeks since the surgery. I want to get to 0 so we can start trying asap. How long did it take you ladies to reach 0 and when did you start trying again? Thank you for all the support!

Hi amcolecchi, welcome and sorry to hear of your loss. I don't actually know how long it took for me to get to zero. I had 2 shots of metho and then surgery a week later.....I got my period 2weeks after the first metho shot.....because of the shot we had to wait 3 months to try again, because it can cause complications....I believe they also recommend 3 months following surgery, but if you had keyhole it might be less.....here on the forum it's more a case of starting again as and when you feel emotionally and physically ready for it... X x
 
my partners actually a nightmare past 9pm he falls asleep n gets grumpy. its a bit difficult atm as I have lodgers and they r always here n its obvious if we go lock ourselves in our room, plus my bed is creaky grrr lol..
they go away this weekend luckily just in time for my ovulation :)

First baby, you need to grab him as soon as he gets home, so he doesn't have the chance to fall asleep......that's a shame about the lodgers, but you should still go for it, just explain that you are ttc they will understand I'm sure x x
 
Hi ladies hope you don't mind me joining in

I'm pretty new here but now I'm TTC I'm finding it really helpful and looking for other people to talk to and go on the journey with :)

I had an ectopic pregnancy in November 2009 I had excruciating pains but didn't know I was pregnant I thought I had kidney stones I went to hospital got told I was pregnant and to go for a scan 3 days later I did and when they did the scan they saw it was ectopic they looked into it further and said I was very very lucky I had come into hospital that day because my tube was rupturing I had my right tube removed, been told my remaining tube is ok.

Due to various reasons one of them being petrified of it happening again we have put of TTC until now and we started to try 2 weeks ago, I'm trying to think positive as I see all these success stories and they give me hope xxx

Hope you all get a BFP positive soon xxxx
 
Hi kalia101, really sorry to hear about your loss, but glad you now feel up for trying again. The ladies on this site are great for advice and support. Are you using opk's or temping??

Ladies, I am gutted...the bleeding that started 2 nights ago is still going and today I actually had to wear a towel, I'm 90% sure it's another period. this would mean that my last p started on the 11th June but in order for my p to start again 2 days ago I would have to have ovulated the day after my last p started......any ideas how that would work? I am so annoyed :-(
 
Sandy-that is so weird and confusing! Have you talked to the docs about this?
 
Sandy-that is so weird and confusing! Have you talked to the docs about this?

No, I haven't....it started 2 nights ago which was the day I was due to ovulate, so I figured because it was light it was just ovulation bleeding, but today it's heavier. I have no idea if this means I ovulated the other day or not, my opk's did get darker.....jeez that means ill probably have another p in 11days.....if I do, then ill go to the doc
 
Hmm I would call, maybe they can tell you over the phone? Also, I see your ectopic was in April. Mine was May 20th...How long did it take you to get to 0? Also, when did you get your first period? THANKS!
 
Hmm I would call, maybe they can tell you over the phone? Also, I see your ectopic was in April. Mine was May 20th...How long did it take you to get to 0? Also, when did you get your first period? THANKS!

I live in Thailand, so it's easier to make an appointment to go and speak with a doctor rather than speaking on the phone.....language barrier hehe

I don't actually know when I reached 0, but I had 2 metho shots prior to my op, the first was march 27th and my op was one week later on april 3rd....I then got what i have taken as my p a week after that because then the next 2 cycles were 28days and 29days.....hence being so confused at a cycle of 15days this time lol but maybe my cycles are actually all over the place and I'm a bad person to share their story haha x
 
How are you ladies doing? Last week my Blood levels were at 40 I am hoping for a 0 tomorrow! I leave for vacation Saturday and I want them to be 0 before we go!!!
 
Hi AM.....I'm well....in the tww now


You will defo be zero this week....it drops fast at the end
 
CMC-I hope so! I have been slowly going down these last few weeks, it's pretty annoying! FX for you with TWW!!!
 

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