Calling all RMA Ladies (1st page updates)

[Kins]

So I had my blood work today. The HCG did not double it again went up but not enough 293->537. Progesterone 6.4->7.7

They want me to continue Crinone and come in on Monday for an u/s and more bw to find out where this embryo is implanted. They are leaning more towards and ectopic tubal preg since these numbers are not rising as they should if I had a implantation in the uterus. So when the tech called to give me my levels today she was stating things like if you have any cramps or pain in your back this weekend dont hestitate to call etc. I guess they are afraid the fertilized egg is in the tubes and could cause lots of issues. This sucks big time.

I am still trying to think of this in the positive way that at least I was able to get prego with the meds and intercourse. Its just fustrating.

We also had a consultation today to think talk about IVF. Im still not sure what I want to do. My husband wants to try a couple more of the IUIs but he is leaving the ultimate decision to me.

So ya I gotta go back Monday. I think they have to give me an IM injection in my butt of Methotrexate which I am SOOOO not looking forward to. its gonna hurt. They took extra tubes of blood to check liver/kidneys etc because this medication is a chemo and can cause s/e.

I also have that funny uterus arcuate..i think its called. So today during consultiation she was talking about a test I think hysterogram?? I forget but they put a camera all the way up into my uterus to see what the actual shape is inside I think. Because its possible that my egg inplanted on this extra piece in my uterus and makes the pregnancy not viable. So that extra piece in my uterus may need to be removed.

So ya thats where we stand. As of right now I am taking it as I have a failed pregnancy and must start thinking of the next steps.

 

[Littlee49]

Ugh. Hang in there kins. I know it's so tough but continue to look at the positive side of things.

As for the IM injection..:its not as bad as u think. I have to do the progesterone in oil IM injections everyday. U just feel the pinch from the needle going in.

Sonohystogram (test where they check ur uterus) also, is not bad. I had to get It done twice. It's just a little uncomfortable and u might have slight abdominal cramping, but nothing to terrible

Again...hang in there... Keep us posted

 

[jchic]

Oh Kins Im so sorry. Hoping all works out and glad you are exploring your options for IVF.

 

[DaisyQ]

Kins I'm really sorry. This blows the big one.

If you have any shoulder pain, you should also call the doc - that's another sign.

As for the unicornuate uterus, definitely take RMA's recommendations. If they recommend a sonohystogram and/or surgery, it's probably a good idea. I would trust them.

It is a good sign that you got fertilzation and that it stuck (somewhere), but you definitely want to optimize your chances for a future healthy pregnancy. We are all here for you. Hang in there.

 

[Kins]

THanks ladies for the responses. Definitely having a bummmed out day. But owell the process hasnt been easy this future if kid of mine is sure giving me a run for my money.


Was reading up on the IVF paper work WOW. So much involved it sounds so much easier when you guys talk about it haha

Hope all is well with everyone. Ill check in monday when when I hear back after my appt. For now its a waiting game to see what my RE wants to do next.

I think all for surgery if it has to be done

 

[Spoiledangel]

Kins so sorry your going through this right now *hugs

Well I just got my call from the nurse we still have 7 growing out of the 8 but they are turning it into a freeze all cycle, she said whatever reaches the full stage by tomorrow will be frozen and a FET transfer next month.

This has me crying my eyes out for the first time in a while cause now I have a million more things to worry about, are any of them even going to make it tomorrow? Will they freeze right? Will they thaw correctly? I'm a wreck, doesnt make it better that I'm at work right now.

I was told to stop the progesterone. Medrol & doxy tonight any idea as to how long it will take for Af??

 

[jchic]

Spoiled, I know it may sound disappointing now, but don't get too upset. Freeze all cycles have an even better success rate than fresh cycles at RMA. Bluestorm and Daisy both had freeze all cycles and had success on their first round of FET. They will certainly freeze right, and its very rare that some don't make it to thaw. I think its less than 5% from what I read. Hang in there and next month will be here before you know it!

 

[DaisyQ]

I know it's disappointing, but don't despair. They convert to a freeze all cycle 40% of the time, and some recent research shows a higher success rate for FET than fresh transfer. the FET cycle is much less stressful too. I am sure that some of your 7 will make it tomorrow. There does tend to be a drop off in growth between day 3 and day 5, but the fact you still have 7 today is a good sign. Try not to worry about freezing them and thawing them. Like Jchic said, only a small percentage don't survive the thaw - I unfortunately happened to be in that group, and look - I'm still pregnant. Some people think that if an embryo didn't survive the thaw, it may not have been a strong embryo, and may not have implanted or thrived. Hang in there. I am optimistic your FET will be a success, and you'll have your bundle(s) of joy come July.

 

[Spoiledangel]

Not to be a pain but for anyone who did FET through RMA what is their protocol like so I can forewarn my boss, I am lucky enough to have a boss who went through IVF ironically at RMA but she did several Fresh cycles never had frozen so we were prepared this month for what days off, mornings off ect I needed now were both going in blind

 

[DaisyQ]

You may do bcp and Lupron - or not. So the time line may vary. 3 days after stopping bcp, or on day 3 of your cycle if you have a natural start, you'll go in for blood work and us. If your lining is thin,you'll start estrace (pills). You'll go in every 3-4 days for us and bloodwork until your lining measures 8mm or thicker. They will also likely keep bumping up your estrace dose - that's normal. Once your lining is thick enough, (8mm+), you will start pio. Five or six days later you go in for your transfer - it will be in the afternoon. You keep taking estrace and pio until your beta 9 days later, and beyond if its a bfp. The whole cycle takes about 2-3 weeks from the tome you start estrace, until transfer day.

 

[Spoiledangel]

So that's not too bad thank you so much, also I read blues ttc journal and it made me feel a lot better as it sounded so similar to everything that's been going on even the phone call today, now I just have to wait til tomorrow with everything crossed that we have some decent frosties

 

[BlueStorm]

Kins - I am so sorry for what is happening to you. This is so unfair but like the other girls have said at least you know that you can get pregnant this way and I am sure they will figure out what is the best option regarding surgery, ect. Hang in there

Spoiled - I know exactly what you are going thru. It is hard to have to wait again. That was my biggest hurdle after I found out we had to freeze. I just couldn't stand the thought of having to wait another day let alone another few weeks. Don't worry there is a reason why RMA has such high success rates and they are just doing the best thing for you and your embies! You will get there!

 

[Littlee49]

Positive beta: 130...still so hesitant to get excited based on my history and the fact that I'm still bleeding. Trying to stay positive!!!

 

[jchic]

Little, that is a great beta!!! Excited for you. Spotting is normal in first tri, dont worry too much! When is your next beta?

 

[Littlee49]

Little, that is a great beta!!! Excited for you. Spotting is normal in first tri, dont worry too much! When is your next beta?

Thank you! It's more than just spotting though that's why I'm so nervous...and it's happened before and I've m/c.

Next beta is wed and of course I'm going to be in a meeting all day...staring at my phone! Haha

 

[jchic]

Well try to stay calm until then. hang in there. Sending positive vibes to you!

 

[Poms Mom]

Kins--so sorry to hear of your complications. atleast you know it still possible. it will make it all more worth it and maybe share your experience with other who need some perspective. good luck and good health!

AFM, im through my first week of 2ww. over the weekend 6-8DPO, i had crazy crazy pinches that i never felt before. no spotting..just seemed like very small discoloration when going to the BR. back pains heartburn, ache pelvis. started doing BBT and saw a drop over the weeked for 2 days but went back up and stayed at same level past 2 days. my BPT is sunday but im trying to attleast try the HPT. I took a trigger booster shot of ovidrel last weds, so im thinking that i will have that in my system longer. How soon do you guys think i should test? i think i may stop at the dollar store pick up a few $1 PTs and try em out lol. but what if i get a BFN then im just freaking myself out.

Have any of your guys done HPT before BPT and how soon? I really hope im pregnant. with having PCOS as a hereditary issues, i believe i rarely ovulated from the get go. so all these sensations are new to me.

 

[Spoiledangel]

Thanks Blue, and as I wrote your Journal Calmed my nerves immensely, just got my email and ironically 5 out of 7 made it to blast and freeze she didn't give me grades though which I just wrote her back and asked about, I would like to know at least that but my normal nurse is out today so I get the sub!!

 

[BlueStorm]

That's great news! They should give you the grades

 

[jchic]

Spoiled, wow 5 is great!!!

Poms - I tested 5 days past my 6 day transfer and got a positive. Hoping this cycle worked out for you! Try and hold out as long as you can so you can get the most accurate results.