Calling all RMA Ladies (1st page updates)

[ashknowsbest]

Kins - I am so sorry . I don't know what to say right now I'm shocked but I'm here if you need to talk!

 

[jchic]

Congrats Ash and iheart! You are PUPO!

Kins - oh no. I am so so very sorry. Do they know what happened??

 

[Spoiledangel]

Kins I am soooo sorry, unfortunately I know the feeling very well and reading you post made me cry. Sending hugs and prayers to you right now.

Ash & Iheart congrats on the transfers I hope they snuggle in

AFM ugh we'll FET is tomorrow which I'm excited about but my lining shrunk even though my estrace was upped Sunday it was 8.9 today 7.6, this has me so worried, but Dr. Rybak said it looks fine, triminular and tried making me feel better, anyone else with thin lining issues get a BFP??

 

[jchic]

Spoiled good luck with FET! I will be thinking about you!!!!

 

[ashknowsbest]

Spoiled - best of luck with your FET! FX'd for you!

 

[Hopeful_NJ]

Kins, so sorry to hear this!!! I also no that pain as I have has a past miscarriage at 9 weeks. I wish I could hug you right now xoxoxo.

Don't give up...things will only get better from here. Not sure if you have shared the BFP with family or friends, if so lean on them for support.

 

[Hopeful_NJ]

Ash & Spoiled: hope you get BFPs fx for both of you.

I will be having my FET later this month after a failed fresh cycle last month.

 

[Gabie20]

Kins- I am so sorry, I can't imagine what you are going through ((HUGS))

 

[Poms Mom]

So sorry to hear Kins. you did all you could. keep your head up..its still a possibility and it will work out and it will be perfect.

 

[Poms Mom]

AFM- Beta was 28,000 at 6w2d. the 16th is the last day at RMA if all goes well. Made appt with ob for Dec 6. So excited and thank god for being able to keep it going for us!

 

[Gabie20]

Wow poms that is a great when is your ultrasound?

Spoiled- GL with the FET tomorrow

afm- 5dpt..... progesterone was 8.2 today, I am so bloated it's ridiculous it's like I can feel my ovaries when I am walking ugh.... I hate the 2ww....

 

[ashknowsbest]

poms - great beta!

AFM - I got a call from my doctor and he told me that out of the 2 embryos that we didn't transfer only one survived until today and he doesn't think it's worth freezing it because it's not that great quality and it's 1000$ to freeze. He said since my insurance covers 3 more fresh cycles it's not worth it, also he said that when you thaw them they can degrade so he told me it's really not worth it but if I wanted to do it I could. My OH and I had already talked about this and we had decided that if there was only one we wouldn't freeze it anyways just because of the cost. I'm sad about it but I'm trying to stay positive that I'm not even going to need that frosty. My doctor pretty much said the same thing, he told me that we have a GREAT chance of achieving pregnancy with the embryos transferred so ... FX'd!

 

[Poms Mom]

Wow poms that is a great when is your ultrasound?

Spoiled- GL with the FET tomorrow

afm- 5dpt..... progesterone was 8.2 today, I am so bloated it's ridiculous it's like I can feel my ovaries when I am walking ugh.... I hate the 2ww....

my 3rd and final u/s with RMA is next Friday. the 2ww is the worst. What i did, and not sure if you want to do it to yourself because it was still torture. I went to the dollar store. picked up a bunch of dollar store HPT. Started testing about a week after trigger shot - when i started feeling weird cramps aorund the time when i read that implantation occurs. - 5-6 dpo. my first test was the start test..if you get a line that means you implanted and its early or you still have the trigger in your system. I did a test every morning and the line got slightly darker everday. Since the line didnt go away completely, i figured its not the trigger and i may have implanted because if it was the Trigger and you are BFN, then the line would disapper every day more. But for me it got darker..and i got a BFP. again this i what i tried and what i figured it would be. lucky i tried it $store tests because i only spent $6 on tests! and i got my bfp..but then you can soup yourself up or set yourself up for disapointment if its a BFN.

 

[Gabie20]

I was planning on running to the dollar store tonight actually lol and start testing tomorrow morning.... The last cycle I triggered it was out of my system by 5dpo. I always brace myself for a bfn... I try not to get too excited about anything lately...

 

[Kins]

Congrats Ash and iheart! You are PUPO!

Kins - oh no. I am so so very sorry. Do they know what happened??

Dunno the NP had said in 60% of miscarriages it's usually chromosomal but no idea. Ugh sucks. When it comes time to try again I am going to get a hysterography(?) to find out exactly what is going on w/my uterus.

I just took the medicine -had to work up the nerves- now waiting for the cramps to start. Apparently they r going to be real bad with nausea vomit n diarrhea side effects ;-(. Looking back I wish I went w/the d&c procedure...owell gearing up for the worst AF ever tonight. Med is supposed to work very fast. So OH was crying today- he's not a crier it's hard to watch b/c we had so much hope. But from the beginning with our Beta we have had setbacks.

To everyone currently

 

[Kins]

Oops never finished was I was saying. Congrats on all your transfers and soon to be bfp's.

 

[jchic]

Kins- thinking of you. Try and breathe through it and remember this will happen for you, ok? Stay strong love.

Poms- yay for wrapping up at RMA! Woohoo!

 

[Spoiledangel]

Well for the first time ever I'm PUPO just left the office, we put back 2 perfect little blasts who were hatching according to Dr. Shastri When she gave us the picture of them. Now just crossing all body parts until the 18th that these little guys stick. Will be back on later when I'm home relaxing

 

[Littlee49]

Yay! Fingers crossed!

 

[Kins]

What is PUPO?