Calling all RMA Ladies (1st page updates)

[Spoiledangel]

Sorry for TMI but Ill start by saying last night I was freaking out I was in CVS and had to P so used the bathroom when I went I was spotting very very light pink so I rushed home my husband was calming me saying its normal ect but after 5 m/c's your mind goes crazy!!! It stopped and had like light beige spotting today but its just a tiny bit not even enough to use a panty liner.

Beta in I was 5 away from fully doubling we went from 191 to 377 which she said was good now I have to hold my breath until my 1st u/s next Tuesday

 

[iheartqueens]

Congrats Spoiled! Good luck getting through to next week.. this 8 day wait is killing me already!!!

 

[jchic]

YAY Spoiled, great great beta girlie!!!! Hang in there, Tuesday is right around the corner!

Happy Thanksgiving to you ALL!!! Wishing you tons of love and food

We find out the genders today, so will post later on tonight! YAY!

 

[Spoiledangel]

Ahhhh Jchic genders yay!!!!!!!!! Can't wait for that post

 

[Poms Mom]

woohoo spoiled! my first was 135 and second 280..yours looks nice and strong!

 

[iheartqueens]

jchic - can't wait to hear!

Happy thanksgiving to all!!!

 

[Gabie20]

Spoiled great Beta

Jchic- Yay for genders always exciting!!

Everyone else have a wonderful and safe holiday

 

[jchic]

Hey all!!!!! Its a BOY and a
GIRL!!!! One of each!

 

[Littlee49]

Yay! That's so exciting!!!! Congratulations!!

 

[iheartqueens]

Yayayayay! Congratulations jchic! So exciting

 

[Kins]

Awwww a 'millionaires" family congrats! So truly happy for u

 

[Spoiledangel]

Ahhhh congrats yay team purple !!!

 

[Hopeful_NJ]

Ok, so I'm back. I had to step away for a bit to get my emotions together. Since my first IVF failed I've been on a an emotional roller coaster. It was just hard for me to accept that not even 1 of my "beautiful embies" (that's what my RE called them) did not stick!! Why??? That was the worst part, not knowing why. Everything had been picture perfect, but then a chemical PG??? I just could not believe it.

I don't know about the rest of you ladies, but the DH and I decided not to share our journey with family/friends. Decided we would lean on each other for support. I love my DH dearly, but I feel almost alone in this. My emotions have always been like a wild flowing river while he has so much control over his. He can't completely understand how I'm feeling about this whole thing because we are so different emotionally. I never realized how alone I would feel if my IVF cycle failed. Thank God for you ladies and this site.

Anyway, sorry for the rant, just had to get it out. Now we are moving on to a FET. I have my CD2 baseline BW & ultrasound today, on Turkey Day. I was just so anxious to move forward that I told my RE to schedule my cycle ASAP. Hopefully I am able to start taking estrogen today and have my FET by the first week of Dec. I just can't help but to feel tentative about this though. I keep saying I/they don't know what went wrong the first time so how will this be different??

Well, I will just pray for the best and try to stay positive. Wish me luck!!

 

[Hopeful_NJ]

Oh and Happy Thanksgiving ladies!!!

Jchic - So Happy for you!!! Congrats!

Spoiled, Iheart - Congrats on your BFPs!!

 

[jchic]

Hopeful- going through that is never easy and I think no matter if you share your journey or not, this process is so emotionally draining that we all feel lost and alone at times. I have faith that this FET will work for you! Sometimes IVF is just a numbers game and this round the odds are in your favor. You are not alone- we are here to root you on and of course to be your shoulder. Stay strong!

Happy Thanksgiving to all and thanks for the congrats!!!! Xoxoxo

 

[MissyMaddy]

Jchic that's so exciting. One of each. sooo cute. Congrats!!

Hopeful.. I am so sure your bfp isn't far away dear. Odds are in your favour. I cry everyday!!!!! Sspecially when tons of family members are expecting. Its so tough but we will get through one-day
Gabie.. so sorry about negative better luck next time hun..

Happy Thanksgiving everyone! Have fun..

 

[Lucinda7981]

jchic how exciting; one of each!!!
Happy Thanksgiving everyone!!!

 

[iheartqueens]

Hopeful - It's definitely a very tough situation to deal with, especially alone. That is what we're here for. We had the same thing happen in February and we too haven't been sharing our journey with others. One thing that really helped me during this, my 3rd IVF cycle was to see a therapist... never thought I'd say that. I only pay a $15 co-pay and you may get a discounted rate as well with your insurance. Typing out your feelings can only help so much - if you're able to, even twice a month or just when you need it you may want to speak to someone. Either way, you're never alone - you and your hubby are in this together!

Good luck with your FET, just try and stay positive! I am not sure if this was your first or fifth time but I am assuming that the doctors will try something new and figure it out, what ever it is!

 

[Spoiledangel]

Welcome back hopeful I'm sorry for all you were feeling & the disappointment but I'm sure this will be your cycle, I was upset my fresh transfer was cancelled but when I got my FET bfp all that went away so hoping the same happens for you.

Iheart are you going crazy yet lol I'm 3 days away and so anxious I just need to know what's in there and that their ok!!! Is your u/s Monday or Tuesday?

 

[Hopeful_NJ]

Thanks for the support ladies!! So I'm at least starting off well. BW & US were perfect so was told to start the estrace!!!