iwanababybump
Mum to Jamie- due inApril
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Ok so I have two friends with children a couple of weeks older than mine however after there recent comments no sure I would call them friends anymore one I have known since school the other I meet trou antenatal classes
We met up today and were discussing our LO's which I dread with these two as everything seems to be a competition however I carried on And we got talking about naps and sleeping I explAined DS doesn't have set nap times as he is not a great napper to which I got the response that I was crazy for not setting a regular nap time and that my DS was weird as her child and every other child she knew slept fine throughout the day when asked about him STTN I explained he doesn't and that he wakes sometimes once a night but sometimes twice a night and because he doesn't have set times that he wakes in the night the other friend replied god he really is a little freak isn't he they both found this hilarious yet I felt so upset my DS is not a freak or weird
I guess I'm posting this to get reassurance that his behaviour is normal I know some children have routines for when they sleep but surely not every child and does it really matter that sometimes he wakes at 11:30 for his first night feed and other days he wakes at 1:30????
We met up today and were discussing our LO's which I dread with these two as everything seems to be a competition however I carried on And we got talking about naps and sleeping I explAined DS doesn't have set nap times as he is not a great napper to which I got the response that I was crazy for not setting a regular nap time and that my DS was weird as her child and every other child she knew slept fine throughout the day when asked about him STTN I explained he doesn't and that he wakes sometimes once a night but sometimes twice a night and because he doesn't have set times that he wakes in the night the other friend replied god he really is a little freak isn't he they both found this hilarious yet I felt so upset my DS is not a freak or weird
I guess I'm posting this to get reassurance that his behaviour is normal I know some children have routines for when they sleep but surely not every child and does it really matter that sometimes he wakes at 11:30 for his first night feed and other days he wakes at 1:30????