Can't admit to anyone else...

[Parkep]

Oh mrs h, i am so sorry! That must be so hard. I'm sure he is going to be an amazing little boy. You are going to mourn and that is completely acceptable. Huge hugs for you hun.

 

[skyraaa]

I'm so sorry Mrs H I will feel the same if this one is a Lil girl when he's here u won't care that he's a boy u will just unconditionally love him, I hope u r ok x

 

[_Meep_]

Sorry it hasn't turned out how you hoped.

 

[Wish85]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl Mrs H

 

[loubyloumum]

Mrs H, I'm so sorry lovely. I completely understand how you are feeling as I felt it with our third boy. I know it seems difficult now but in time you wouldn't change it for anything, you need to allow yourself time and allow yourself to cry and be sad. That doesn't mean you don't/won't love your little boy just that you miss the loss of your girl. Thinking of you at this really hard time xxx

 

[Mrs.H2016]

Thank you ladies very much.

The first day was tough but I am ok. I am sad I will never have a girl and trying to find extra positives about having all boys (I shall never do yard work, or take the garbage out again. I also have my own personal snow shovelers). My 3 year old cried and cried he isn't getting a sister; that upsets me but in time I will maybe get granddaughters so it's not so bad right? If I sit and think about it I get upset so I try not to. I am excited about my baby as really I was fine with either but I did want a girl if I had a choice. Clearly we didn't have a choice in gender so it's all good. I am envious of those of you getting your desired gender I am not going to lie.i am glad I found out early on so I didn't spend half my pregnancy thinking I was having a girl. I think that would have made it worse.

It's funny I have had two scans and each time they handed me the picture I told hubby; that's looks like a boy to me?! But built myself up that just maybe it was a girl. Sure looked like it at 11 week nub shot lmao. I guess deep down I knew; I mentioned here too I thought boy. I think we are or own worst enemies sometimes.

I am thankful for you ladies so very much.

I have told everyone it's a boy so I don't hear stupid comments about how it's awful it's not a girl or whatever. As we all know some people just don't think before they open their mouths. I assume shopping for baby stuff will be hard when yet again I walk past all the pink and settle on blue☹️ I guess you can't miss what you never had really. If that makes sense.


So I lost track (sorry) who's next and what gender are e hoping for?

 

[MemmaJ]

Mrs H I'm so sorry you didn't get the news you were hoping for, but what a great attitude to have - you must be a very positive person!

 

[skyraaa]

Mrs H think I maybe next hoping for a boy I have 3 girls eeeeek find out next Saturday not very hopeful tho

 

[Mrs.H2016]

Can u post your scan pic again?

 

[Parkep]

So.... After three girls, we finally are getting our boy!!
We still have some tests to come back from the animo (another three weeks) but the intial testing is good!

 

[_Meep_]

Fantastic, congratulations Parkep!

 

[Mrs.H2016]

Congratulations.!

 

[Bevziibubble]

Congratulations Parkep!

 

[MemmaJ]

Yay congratulations Parkep! Great news!

I had my first Consultant appointment a few days ago after transferring my Care to the hospital
I work. So glad I was brace and did the transfer or I'd never even have seen a consulatant, as the midwife here thought it wasn't necessary.

As it happens, I've now had an urgent iron infusion (had it yesterday!), I'm having another scan in a couple of weeks to check growth and cervical length (in view of my previous 27 week delivery), and I'm having extra input from other specialists like the diabetes midwife (as my mum is diabetic), and have had another blood test to
check B12 Levels, as apparently that can also be low with low Ferritin levels and no-one has checked it.
I'd never have got any of that here!

So excited to have another scan - hopefully everything is OK cervix-wise and growth-wise and they MAY also be able to confirm she's still a girl too! Still not feeling much in the way of movements (23+1 today), so it'll be nice to have some reassurance.

 

[skyraaa]

So.... After three girls, we finally are getting our boy!!
We still have some tests to come back from the animo (another three weeks) but the intial testing is good!

Wow that's brilliant how far along r u?
Mrs H for some reason it's saying file to big for posting on here it's on gender prediction tho no nub at all showing

 

[Mrs.H2016]

So.... After three girls, we finally are getting our boy!!
We still have some tests to come back from the animo (another three weeks) but the intial testing is good!

Wow that's brilliant how far along r u?
Mrs H for some reason it's saying file to big for posting on here it's on gender prediction tho no nub at all showing

Based o the shape of the head I say boy

 

[Parkep]

Thank you ladies, we are so excited, although now I have a lot to buy haha!

I will be 19 weeks on monday

 

[c.m.c]

Mrs H I'm just catching up now. I don't want to say sorry, as I know you're going to have an amazing wee boy that you will love so much and that's only amazing. But I do know how you feel... I really do... I'm not getting my preferred gender this time either. I am okay I did cry to my mum many weeks ago and I've told a few friends as my DH doesn't want to know the sex I just couldn't know this alone and defo talking and telling is just far easier. I'm fed up with the "oh maybe it's a boy" comments already!!!!

Parkep congrats to you... if I ever pluck up the courage to havev4 I hope I get a brood like yours... 3 girls then a boy

Delighted for you!

 

[skyraaa]

So tomorro is the day for Me I'm so nervous, please let me see a willy!!

 

[_Meep_]

Hoping for a willy ...