Can't admit to anyone else...

[MemmaJ]

These were the only ones I got from the hospital and I don't think anything can be seen

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/34B50EEE-2D08-4EAB-B5D6-7D904244404E_zpsh9wx24r8.jpg

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/DEE4C6BB-9C8A-4DCE-A7FC-29FAAABB251B_zpsd48kbywr.jpg

 

[Jessicahide]

Stupid cow. I hate that sort of 'medical professional'. Unrelated, but sort of similar - we once paid hundreds to see a private paediatrician as our baby had awful breastfeeding issues and I just KNEW she had a posterior tongue tie ... well, this stupid woman told me that there was no such thing and tongue ties are always visible at the front, so I should just put her on formula!!! A week later, we had it confirmed by a lactation consultant, who treated it, and well ... we're still breastfeeding at 2.5 years without issue, so that paed can kiss my arse.

It's just so deflating!!! Horrible people.

Do put your shots on, someone might spot something.

I know so many mums who have gone to professionals and were scoffed at only to later discover they were in the right!

Not that its the same but after i had ds3 i felt so ill, i thought i had blood poising and went to my gp and begged to be sent to hospital, she refused and said "Don't go to a&e unless you have been hit by a car..." I collapsed the day after, and after having breathing problems for the day i went to hospital, i had 6 blood clots on my lungs.....

Ffs! Presumably you could have become seriously ill or worse!? Unbelievable how SHITE they can be. There's a lot to be said for trusting your instinct!

One is enough to kill you... I was so lucky!

 

[Jessicahide]

These were the only ones I got from the hospital and I don't think anything can be seen

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/34B50EEE-2D08-4EAB-B5D6-7D904244404E_zpsh9wx24r8.jpg

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/DEE4C6BB-9C8A-4DCE-A7FC-29FAAABB251B_zpsd48kbywr.jpg

Looks girlish to me!

 

[MemmaJ]

There lots more on the previous page Jessica, from the private clinic with visible Nubs

 

[sil]

I'm not good at nub shots and guessing (I know about the theory but never looked into it too much), but I really hope this is your girl. I have everything crossed for you.

I have my private gender scan booked for January 13. When is yours, Memma?

 

[LittleMinx]

Your pics are very similar to mine from my last pregnancy .. Skull shape etc all look girly to me x

 

[Bevziibubble]

 

[MemmaJ]

Mines 30th December Sil, I'll be 15+1.

The private sonographer really seemed like she was leaning towards 'boy' when she looked between the legs. She said if she HAD to sway one way or the other right now she'd say boy , but could only say 55/60% because of gestation...

 

[_Meep_]

Memma, 100% that looks like a girl nub in my opinion. Of course, that means nothing until you know for sure! But as nubs go, it's a girl's one. Definitely.

Notice how the baby is more curled/crunched up in the pictures where the nub seems to angle up a bit. That could be why. Also, for a boy, they're looking for a 45 degree angle of the nub against the spine, which that isn't I don't think, even in the 'stacked' ones. It still looks practically horizontal.

No shadow at the tip either that I can see, which is something sometimes seen with boys.

All in all, a girly nub, as the theory goes!

 

[sil]

Mines 30th December Sil, I'll be 15+1.

The private sonographer really seemed like she was leaning towards 'boy' when she looked between the legs. She said if she HAD to sway one way or the other right now she'd say boy , but could only say 55/60% because of gestation...

I'll be 16 weeks at mine. There are two places within reasonable distance to me that do gender scans, but neither one will book you until you are 16 weeks.

It's sooo hard to tell at 12 weeks that I wouldn't put too much into what the sonographer said.

It's so hard waiting for that confirmation one way or another. We'll get there soon and whether it's girl or boy we'll all be here to celebrate with you and/or mourn with you and help you through it. Hang in there! Try your best to enjoy the holidays and stay distracted. That's my only saving grace right now.

 

[Jessicahide]

You'll have to bear with me as there's quite a few..! These are all from the private clinic and she gave us loads.

So in these ones I personally think it looks quite flat/parallel and girl like...

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/C67F8440-84CC-45D3-AF77-4DF6E0E02874_zpsq8bsxcqf.jpeg

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/D383C611-C525-4538-8AED-027D26CE2660_zpsifc6vyal.jpeg

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/E6FA57CF-B58C-4FCA-B1F9-A7CD42B8125E_zpsgbog8amf.jpeg


But in these ones I think it looks more risen and 'stacked'... especially the last one.

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/72E4369B-E54E-4433-A809-7A91F9336AD9_zpsijj6udpm.jpeg

https://i12.photobucket.com/albums/a231/mumtotwins/83663C40-D909-4AF2-A21A-EBD20851EF38_zps07tggoqd.jpeg

Oh my god sorry that is a girl nub, i feel bad saying it as i don't want to get your hopes up but that is a girl nub if i have ever seen one!!!!!

 

[MemmaJ]

The last two look really boyish to me?! Seem to be stacked? Potentially even the second one looks boyish too as it's angled up a bit...
Also the protrusion between the legs on the potty shot looked too 'long' to be swollen labia

SIL the clinic I go to normally won't do it until 16 weeks either but I requested to book it for 15+1 because it's my birthday, and we could see my last boy's bits VERY clearly as 15+1. They let me book it at my own risk, on the understanding that I won't get a refund or free re-scan if it's too early for them to tell for sure - but I'm willing to take that risk because my last boy was so obvious at that gestation.

 

[_Meep_]

The last two look really boyish to me?! Seem to be stacked? Potentially even the second one looks boyish too as it's angled up a bit...
Also the protrusion between the legs on the potty shot looked too 'long' to be swollen labia

I think it's just because the baby has crunched up a bit. If you look at the nub compared to the spine in those pictures, they are still pretty much parallel. Have a Google of some 'confirmed boy' nub shots and they really don't look the same.

Also, correct me if I am wrong, but the protrusion seen wouldn't be the labia, would it? I would have thought it would be the other bit - the cli***** (sorry, I HATE that word!!)? In the link I posted before, at 12/13 weeks that thingy appears to be still very protuberant.

It COULD be a boy, none of us can say! But from the pictures you've posted, I'd say it's looking quite positive?

 

[Mrs.H2016]

Based on skull that looks like a pink bump to me

 

[donnarobinson]

I think that defo looks like a girl nub! Fingers crossed x

 

[6lilpigs]

They all look very girly to me especially for your gestation! Flying through but will be back later

 

[sil]

I have my 12 week scan Monday at 12+3 and I really want to ask for nub shots but I'm terrified of a negative response. I hope I get up the guts to ask.

 

[MemmaJ]

Be brave and ask SIL! OK so that didn't work out so well for me (haha) but if you don't ask, you'll never know if you might have got it!

I'm so glad you're all saying 'girl'..! I would probably believe it based on the Nub alone, but it's what I saw between the legs that's thrown me and making me doubt.
She gave me a couple of pictures but they're taken at such an odd angle that I don't even know what it's really showing... but she pointed out a definite protrusion on the screen during the scan itself.

I was obsessing over potty shots and nubs for the rest of the day yesterday, so lastnight I ended up dreaming that we went for my private gender scan at 15+1 and we could see she was a girl because we could see her ovaries...! Weeeeeird, haha!

 

[loubyloumum]

I've just caught up, Memma I can't believe how you were treated in the hospital!! Some people are just so plain awful. However I'm so pleased that your OH booked you in for a private scan, it sounds like you had a lovely sonographer there. I'm also no nub expert at all but from looking at those pictures I would say it definitely looks girly...very girly! She managed some great shots for you. You will know for sure in just a few weeks time lovely, like SIL said try your best to enjoy the holidays xx

 

[_Meep_]

Hahaha, pregnancy dreams are so bizarre! I hope it is your girl. I really want another girl too and am recently beginning to feel like I might be disappointed if it isn't one, as I've pretty much convinced myself it is. Then again, it would be nice to have one of each ... I'm just not sure I know how to relate to boys?

Urgh.