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[happyh29]

Thank you my lovelies.

Dr won't put me on any tablets as he said its far better to take light exercise. To be honest I have seen specialists since my veins but they all avoid going on tablets.instead its keeping my weight down and taking light exercise regularly.

I'm trying to be positive. Its hard but I will gel better in the morning . Thank you again x

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

Ooh Daisy if I did o yesterday than we will be twins again!!

 

[DaisyQ]

Ooh Daisy if I did o yesterday than we will be twins again!!

I know it chica!!

 

[jchic]

Happy, what do you mean by tablets?

How is everyone today? 2nd POAS for me and it was low, as expected.

 

[happyh29]

so update -

this morning i got up and had really bad cramps.I went to the loo to do a poo ( sorry but i feel i have passed all levels of TMI on this anyway so i might as well carry on!!!)

and i was in agony in my tummy. Like agony.

I thought i was going to throw up. And after when i wiped there was a massive big blob of dark dark brown blood came out. Loads in the toilet paper. and i mean loads. No clots or anything. Once it came out like in one wipe i had nothing there. At all. I did a couple of internal wipes and nothing at all.

so i rang the EPU and they said it sounds like i have bleed over night and its pooled. When i have had a bowel movement its pushed the now old blood out. She said all they would do if i came in was look at me with a speculum and not scan me till next week. She said she wouldn't advise the exam as its just more intervention.

She said very kindly it sounds like the start of a miscarriage but im just far far to early to stop it.

Any way i am now just sat on the settee just a bit numb. I know deep down this is totally not a good sign and i have very little hope. But until im officially told its no good then i wont give up all hope.

also i have no symptoms today at all. No sore boobs, no nausea or anything. So, yeah, its totally not good. i have not bleed again at all but i have nooooo symptoms not even stomach twinges.

i just thought i would tell you all, thanks for listening
xx

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

awe hun I am so sorry!! You are in my prayers!!!!!!

 

[jchic]

Im so sorry Happy....dont give up just yet, ok? Please stay positive for you and your little bean!

 

[happyh29]

thanks hon. its in Gods hands. im going to stay positive until monday and then deal with whatever happens xxx

 

[DaisyQ]

Happy, so sorry for you. . You are in my thoughts.

 

[happyh29]

thanks hon. ...

im staying positive and hoping that im just having breakthrough bleeding as it should be period times. That matches the period style cramps ect.

lots of love xxx

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

another girl on bnb posted this on a thread I was reading thought I would share it with you ladies

Odds of conception (from american pregnancy association)
5 days b/4 ovulation: 0
4 days b/4 ovulation: 13%
3 days b/4 ovulation: 13%
2 days b/4 ovulation: 28%
1 day b/4 ovulation: 26%
day of ovulation: 5%

 

[Mrs.B.]

Interesting! ... but all quite low

 

[jchic]

I know, its literally like a crap shoot each time It will swing in our favor at some point!

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

I know!! But from what I've read the longer you've been ttc the higher your odds are! We will get there girls!!

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

So my temp dropped a little this morning and my pain in my uterus is gone. My stick also had almost no line in the LH area and a definite line in the estrogen side. So LH surge is over. You girls don't think I can o today do you? DH and I did not dtd this morning

 

[Mrs.B.]

this always make me confused...

My friend had sex the day before her period.Not in a relationship so she knows this was the one time. She has a normal legth cycle of about 28 day. She fell pregnant!!

Baffles me every time I think about it!

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

the day before AF? That isn't possible...that would mean she ovulated while she was still on her period. She must have been pregnant before that cycle and just not known it.

 

[DaisyQ]

There is also some research out there from 2003 that found that women can ovulate more than one time per cycle... there are multiple waves of follicular development... so perhaps that is what happened. ?? Or the "period" was not a real period but just spotting/break through bleeding.

 

[Mrs.B.]

That was the only time she had sex so must have been from that time lol. Bizzare isnt it!

 

[jchic]

Mrs B - hmmm, that is crazy, but sometimes science doesnt answer every question, ya know?

Cre8tiv - I definitely think you O'd ON Monday! I am putting a good bet on it! So you are 2 DPO in my book I wonder with all that research if they know how long it actually takes the sperm to get to where it needs to be? Do you know?

Daisy - whats cooking sister?