I'm in a similar boat to you at the mo, so know how your feeling, even though some of my charts have cross hairs, my doc said most if not all my cycles have been an-ovulatory, so hoping that these cross hairs this month are accurate and I really did ovulate! So hopefully, yes, I am in the 2ww. I don't know my LP, so I don't know when my test date would be or when AF is due.
It is so difficult, I agree, everything seems to go hand in hand!