CD22 and waiting to O, anyone else?

[melodyy_mtb]

Andi - Hope you're enjoying Mexico! What a wonderful couple of weeks you've been having. Thanks hun. I'm just taking each day as it comes.

Dragonfly - That's hilarious! I could imagine all the bfps popping up after a storm. Aww I'm still in shock. Such happy news, for you and Andi! Thanks for your support hun. It is really stressful... well you know. But you ladies' bfps definitely gives me hope! I dont think my donor can visit me that often as he has a child of his own. I'm seriously considering not charting for a month but I'm not sure that i can risk it. We shall see... My Dr has confirmed that I need two more cycles of day 21 tests before I get referred, so I just have to wait it out

Pria - Aww I dont think I mentioned but I'm ttc on my own with donor sperm So that means I cant bd like everyone else but I do agree with you and Dragonfly, I need a break from this charting madness. I probably wont bother going to the doctor as last time i was cd58 and told to wait longer. I'd rather spare myself the upset. This tea sounds interesting, I'm totally having a look now! Hope everything is ok with you

Nothing much to update atm but one thing, I've been spotting for about 5 days now. I have no idea what that's about. There's no pain but I've never spotted like this before. I'm a tiny bit worried

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Maybe a compromise with the charting would be good, don't chart again until you over your next af and see how you feel about charting then. Strange about the spotting, I hope that means you'll be getting an answer soon. If it keeps up it would be worth mentioning to your doctor.

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Hey ladies, checking in to see how you're all doing I hope that Andi is having an amazing time in Mexico! Any more news Melody?

Pri and BBY - How are the two of you doing?

 

[itsnowmyturn]

I'm 13dpo today. af due tomorrow, hope she doesnt take too long to come, I need to move on with ntnp now. I think ov been on bnb more since I said I was having slme time off it than I did before

 

[PriandRafa]

Hi Ladies!!
this week has been crazy at work, which is good, time goes by fast!!

Melody, oh, I guess I missed you were using a donor. So, yes, unfortunately now for the fun of it wishing to get lucky LOL

Dragonfly, how is your bean???

itsnowmyturn, I hope you get your AF tomorrow!!!

AFM,
my fertili tea arrived on Monday. Have been drinking since Monday LOL.
I just hope it helps me get my AF in a normal time. and I need to make the appt with my dentist to have my crown issue solved THIS month still so I can be back next month.
I am planning to bd a lot next week, which, if the tea is working, it should be my window.... let's see
Next Thursday is our 4 year wedding anniversary

BBY, where are you??

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Itsnowmyturn - I'm hoping that af wont show even though you're expecting it.

Pri - At least time is flying since you've been busy! How is the tea? Woohoo for plenty of bding! I hope you catch it good in your fertile time!!

Little bean is good, I'm praying it's a sticky bugger. I'm still having cramps, but everyone tells me that's normal. My doctor feels an ectopic is less likely now because the pain has decreased. hcg yesterday was 1121! I go back in on Saturday for another blood draw.

 

[melodyy_mtb]

Dragonfly - I'm taking your advice and not charting until it's absolutely neccesary. I already feel a little less stressed lol. Hope you and little bean are ok

itsnowmyturn - Good luck for tomorrow hun. I know you're waiting for af but if there's a chance you could be pregnant, I really hope she stays away. You'll always be in our thoughts when you start ntnp xx

Pria - Lol, that's ok. I will be a smbc (single mother by choice) Hope your fertiilitea works! It has Vitex in it so I'm sure it will regulate your cycles quite quickly.

Afm: I was way too worried about the spotting to wait for an app with my dr so i went into our local walk in center yesterday. The on call dr was lovely. So sympathetic. Its nothing to worry about aparently. It's just one of those things, especially with my borderline pcos. He called it break through bleeding. My body is just trying to bring on af. I just need to wait it out. But im not in pain and tested negative for all infections so it's not all bad. Never been on cd60 before but nothing I can do, just going to try enjoy life until af shows. x

 

[itsnowmyturn]

Af showed as expected, not surprised but still bummed by it

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Melody - I hope af shows soon so you can get a fresh start. Really glad that the clinic doctor was nice and understanding.

Itsnowmyturn -

 

[PriandRafa]

itsnowmyturn,
focus on this next cycle! At least AF showed up "on time" and you can now do what you were going to do!!!

Melody,
thanks for the decoding the code LOL. I am kinda new with all these blogs and codes, it took me forever to figure out some of them, and others I still have no idea what they are. Yours, I would be thinking about for a week hahahaha. You go, girl!!! Love independent women!! Proud of you
and, cd60..... patience, girl, it will show up!!! Good thing as you said, the dr told you is was nothing, and no infections or anything!

dragonfly,
hope your numbers continue to go higher!!!

The tea is good, I made a gallon of it and have been drinking as iced tea.Just need a little bit of sugar and it tastes good. Will know soon if it works for me. The tea has:
Chasteberry (Vitex), Red Raspberry Leaf, Green Tea, Ladies Mantle, Nettle Leaf and Peppermint LEaf.

Melody, did u check the website out? Are you able to buy and have them to ship to you?

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Everything that's in the tea sounds pretty tasty! Funny thing, last cycle out of curiosity we bought nettle tea just because I wanted to know if it tingled like the plant, I wonder if that helped us get our bfp??

And just for info - I didn't experience any nettle tingling, which to be honest I was kind of bummed about

 

[PriandRafa]

LOL, I haven't experienced anything yet either!!!!!

I put a post it on my bedroom with a schedule for the days I believe we should bd for the next 2 weeks, since I have no idea where my cycle is exactly hahaha
Hubby came to me now and asked, is this our love schedule???
I'm afraid so!!! He just smiled at me
maybe he is thinking I am crazy and wondering where he put himself into!!!
Love him!

 

[itsnowmyturn]

I have made an apt to see the Dr on Monday, hopefully I will get a nice dr who will see me for an individual person and look at everything rather than just a TTC lady who needs to get at it for another 6 months before they will even take my blood

 

[PriandRafa]

Hi itsnowmyturn,
I'll be praying u get a good doctor on Monday!
What type of dr r u going?
Make sure to tell him/her every single detail of ur ttc journey, so he/she can take everyrhing into account!!

I kind of lied to my gyn. Since I was off the bc, I was very irregular. I told my gyn and that we were ttc, and he seamed not to care... so I made an appt witb an endocr, bcause I thoughr it could be pcos. She did the blood test, told me that on the blood everything was fine, but to make sure I wouls need an ultrasound.
I called my gyn telling the nurse the endocr was requesting an US. He gave me the prescription without even seeing me
The results went to him, i have pcos, so the nurse told me it waa better to go to a RE.
I spent almost 2 months doing tests before the Re would see me again to suggest the treatment.
So, do ur research, tell the dr everything and demamd a treatment, solution, whatever!!!
Just send u home will not do it!!!

Praying for u

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Best of luck it's now my turn! Let us know how it goes. Definitely emphasize your health issues you've struggled with because they should pay attention to your endo and stuff. I forget if you were on bcp before? When I told my gyno I had been off bcp since last December she used that as our trying start date even though we didn't really start until May. Praying the doctor you see is the perfect match and they'll be proactive!

 

[itsnowmyturn]

The thing for me is that i was on zoladex and had my last injection in September ladt year which wore off on11th Oct which was our start TTC date so i cant lie and they will prob just say o it takes tome for things to return to normal. Zoladex basically puts ur body into a temp induced menopause. I was also on bcp but came off it a couple of months before the zoladex wore off hoping for tjat to wear off first.

If they give me the whole try for a year thing I will say look I'm not asking for IVF I only want blood tests to make sure things are all good for us to continue trying for another 6 months.

My heart aches when I see ppl talking about their new borns n stuff, I just want my own little bubba, but I have to be patient and I no that but its so hard

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

I know it's so hard and it's even worse when doctors pass over us saying to keep trying, it hurts. I think your approach is perfect in asking for blood work, just to make sure your hormones are running right and that you're ovulating.

 

[Andi86]

Itsnowmyturn- good luck at your apt. I really hope you get some answers.

Afm- im back from Mexico! It was a good vacation but im glad to be back. It was difficult being pregnant there even though we were on a nice resort. Its hard enough trying to watch what Im eating now nevermind being in a different place and not knowing the food. I felt bad cause I started eating this desert and realized it was merengue on the inside so I stopped but still had a couple bites. Then i tried this mexican soup and realized the cheese in it was queso blanco...I felt so bad. Nothing came of it I didnt get sick but it was frusturating and made me feel guilty even though it was only a couple bites. Also everyone smoking really bothered me and people seemed to do it everywhere. Which sucked cause I would be sitting there listening to music or trying to talk to people and would have to leave because people were smoking right by me. Just glad to be home. I have a doctors apt tomorrow dont know yet what will come of it. Also ill be 6weeks tomorrow. So far no morning sickness. Just sore breasts, bloated, tired, moody and emotional.

Dragonfly- how are you doing?

Melody-still waiting on AF I assume? Or did the spotting finally turn into Af?

Priandrafa- hows it going with you?

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Welcome back Andi! Glad you had a good vacation but I can only imagine how hard it was keeping track of what was being eaten. I was bad and got Subway today But it was soooo good.

How exciting you have a doctors appointment tomorrow! Definitely let us know how it goes So far the only ms I get is a light hint of it at work or school when I don't get enough sleep. I'm with you on the sore breasts. Are you having any cramps? Yesterday I had a small glob of light tanish discharge that made me panic, but it's back to white again today and I hope it stays that way. I'm getting insane leg cramps though and started taking calcium/magnesium supplement to see if that helps.

Melody - I hope af showed so you can start fresh

 

[Andi86]

No cramps really...just gas pain sometimes.