[CLOSED GROUP] Trick or treat, Baby feet, Give me some chubby cheeks to eat

[TTCaWee1]

That's awesome Nichole! You can do it!!! And it will take your mind off TTC! Bet you'll end up preggo when you enroll.

 

[frsttimemama]

Sandy - how long did it take you to get pregnant the first time? Hopefully the clomid works for you. Try not to stress bc that can't help ovulation at all. We've all been there, and I can say I don't miss that feeling at all. I know it's probably much worse having been pregnant and losing a baby but at least you know you CAN get pregnant. We all know that for most it just takes time. And don't cyber punch me for saying that bc I know it sucks to hear, but from someone who it took 13 cycles to get one bfp, I know that it just takes time. I honestly think that for me, it was timing. I mean really? 13 cycles and I get pregnant the week we close on our house? Can't be just a coincidence.

Thanks. It took me 10 months last time. And you're right. It takes time. And stress is bad. I'm just scares because I was so afraid of not being able to get pregnant again.

Nichole, how awesome!! Yay!

 

[Lotalaughs16]

Brittney don't cross your legs. You'll never get pregnant that way...lol

bahahhahah

Thank you all. I don't know what is going on with me. Getting pregnant takes so long, and my friend just had her baby and EVERYONE it seems like is baby baby baby. It's so hard knowing my chance was so close and its so gone. And starting from scratch. Then the definite pcos diagnosis after that. I'm just having a really tough time. I try to be patient, but its so hard. Sorry it sounds like I'm whining. I'm not.

you don't sound like you're whining, TTC is SO stressful mostly because you have NO control over when your body will do certain things so then we they don't happen at the time you strategically calculated out then it causes stress...at least thats how it is for me then the stress delays things even more which makes me more stress...you get the picture, we're all here for you!!

I am so excited right now. I hate admitting it but I never graduated High School. I had some really crappy things happen to me and needed to drop out. These past 9 years I've tried to go back to school multiple time but something always got in the way. Well, I just found an adult school about 20-30 mins from me that can get me in and on my way to graduating. With all the credits I earned the first time around, I only need to do 4 credits in economics and then I can graduate. I am finally going to be able to get my diploma!!

Thats really GREAT and then we can throw you a cyber grad partay!!

 

[NDTaber9211]

Thanks ladies! I was expecting it to be more then 4 credits so I am crazy happy about that. California also requires you to pass an exit exam (CAHSEE) to be able to graduate. My original graduation class was basically the guinea pig for it and we were the first ones to take it. It wasn't a requirement yet so they didn't keep track of the scores like they do now. I knew I passed it before so I had to call like a bagillion places trying to find my scores. I thought I was going to have to take the CAHSEE so I was worried. They were able to track down my results so I don't have to worry about the test now *whew*. I go in tomorrow to get started.

 

[VivianJean]

 

[NDTaber9211]

2 of the best emoticons right there ^

 

[goldstns]

Nichole- congrats... that will take NO time at all. You go girl!

Brittany- have you taken a HGC test? Im wondering if you are preggo? Otherwise I did have light spotting around O time once in a blue moon. But not more then spotting.

 

[CantHrdlyWait]

Awesome Nichole!!!!

 

[Lotalaughs16]

Nichole- congrats... that will take NO time at all. You go girl!

Brittany- have you taken a HGC test? Im wondering if you are preggo? Otherwise I did have light spotting around O time once in a blue moon. But not more then spotting.

I have not done an HCG test, Im only on CD 13...so not preggo yet lol

 

[clynn11]

I think Nikki means that you got pregnant and all of this bleeding you have been experiencing is not actually AF, but early pregnancy bleeding that a lot experience. Maybe take an hCG test to be sure

 

[Disneybaby26]

Cass- I see those + Opks!! You getting any bd in lady??

 

[clynn11]

Nope. Lol. I'm so over TTC. I've basically thrown in the towel with trying to initiate/plan BD. If DH wants it, he can come get it. Other than that i'm over trying to make things happen lol.

 

[Disneybaby26]

Awe, I'm sorry hun...hopefully he gets it sooner rather than later! I know this means a lot to you. Big hugs xx

 

[clynn11]

Thanks. He says he wants a baby. He doesn't show it. So i'm over taking his word for it, he can either put a plan into action or keep doing what he's doing. Either way, i'm kind of over his BS lol. He gets 'performance anxiety'. So i'm just not initiating AT ALL.

 

[VivianJean]

Have you considered porn?

I'm serious. When I'm lazy... get's me going and then DH barely has to do anything, lol.

 

[Lotalaughs16]

I think Nikki means that you got pregnant and all of this bleeding you have been experiencing is not actually AF, but early pregnancy bleeding that a lot experience. Maybe take an hCG test to be sure

oh gotcha! I had a blood test back in september before I started provera and that was negative, then we used protection until I got AF on Oct. 4...the spotting is definitely spotting, not enough to call it AF. I did consult dr. google earlier and found that some women experience heavy spotting around ovulation so I'm going to just go with that is probably what it is especially since it was so long between periods...maybe my uterus is just making some room for the future bean!

 

[Lotalaughs16]

I'm sorry Cassidy, I hope he gets his act together soon and throws you over his shoulder and carries you to bed!

 

[VivianJean]

Flunitrazepam?

 

[CantHrdlyWait]

so sorry Cassidy. That's insanely frustrating.

 

[clynn11]

We both aren't really fans of porn, lol. He text me just now saying "let's try tonight." I feel like it's too late though, think I O'd this morning. Guess it's worth a shot.