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[Convie]

Tdog I'm so sorry to hear about your daughter, don't feel like a bad mum, people in that situation are so good at hiding it, I'm glad shes opened up to you and shes going to the docs


AFM I have just come home from dropping Chris off, we DTD one last time this morning, I'm still getting flashing smileys on my clearblue, so I'm not really sure if I'm in the running this month? had some fresh blood spotting just now as well, which I had last month I think the day before positive opk?

 

[Hoping4numbr3]

@tdog - HUGE HUGS to you. I'd have already sent a nasty gram to the ex. Sorry you are having to deal with this!

@jellybeanxx -Come on AF or bfp! Grrr! I can't even imagine how frustrated you must be

I am so sorry ladies I still have no idea how to make the signature disappear so I just haven't been messaging as much but I am still keeping posted on you all and blowing BFP dust all over you ladies this cycle

 

[Kaymumof2]

Hi ladies! Sorry I've been so quiet. Just had a lot going on....

Jelly oh my god girl you must be ready to rip your hair out with this! How frustrating! It's cruel to keep you in limbo like this.

Tdog so sorry hun. But your dd will be fine. She has you and the school for support and now the gp may be able to offer her some counselling if they feel she needs it. Don't blame yourself. Kids are so good at hiding things. Her dad sounds like a royal prick. It's him who should be shouldering the blame, not you! But well done for keeping calm!

Hoping why hide the signiture? We're all happy for you. I love seeing it going up with the days and weeks. Show it off girl!

Convie fair play for getting a session in before Chris left! Sperm lives for at least 5 days so you should have some waiting in the wings when you O as it sounds as if o is close.

Hope everyone else is well. Afm I'm cd 8 will prob O around cd17 again. So countdown is on for that!

 

[Convie]

thank you Kay! I hope you're right and some little spermies make a nice little home for themselves for the next few days

 

[Kaymumof2]

Lol I'm sure they will. They gotta travel to the right spot yet so hopefully your little eggy releases as the spermies get there! When is Chris back home?

 

[Convie]

Lol I'm sure they will. They gotta travel to the right spot yet so hopefully your little eggy releases as the spermies get there! When is Chris back home?

2 days AFTER next ovulation :'( then he leaves again after a couple of days and is back the day of december ov -_-
going to see if I can go up there on my fertile week but still don't know if i can or not yet :/

 

[Kaymumof2]

Oh bummer. Hopefully you can sneak up there for some alone time lol it is so annoying that we can't store that kinda thing. For back up purposes

 

[tdog]

Hi ladies sorry not been on much today been to docs with dd they told us to ask if the school offer counselling for her but they did give me a number for one just in case. Xx

@Hoping4numbr3 don't try and hide it I love seeing it and so so happy for you xx

@Convie so glad you got another session in before he went hopefully you catch the eggy xx

AFM still got a flashing smiley opks are still the same but if I have a solid smiley tomorrow no doubt the lol will be positive xx

 

[Bevziibubble]

Hopefully she can get some counselling to help

 

[mme]

Ladies I need your advice, bear with me it may be a long one !
So I’m feeling totally down today, looking at my life and I hate my job but dh doesn’t want me to leave it as I’m overpaid, I’m not happy where we live it’s getting worse and I want to move to a nicer place to bring up my dd which is around 2 hrs away that I have been looking at. I thought he was onboard but today He says he can’t leave his mum as his sibling moved away so if he does his mum has no one other than her dh. I don’t have any friends so nothing to loose there, I have my sis but she’s a busy lady and maybe only see her twice a month, my brother only wants to know me when he needs money or wants to come watch out sky tv. Dd has no cousins only ones that live half a days drive away. School run is hard as I’ve not connected with anyone and feel I’m the only one stood there alone at pick up times (maybe it’s me the fact I’ve never had friends and feel I kinda don’t know how to act) I don’t have friends as I moved schools at 15 due to been bullied really badly therefore never had a friend connection with anyone. To top all that off we can’t conceive number 2 which tbh has been getting me truly down for the last 3 months. Today I’m looking at all that is bad in my life and it’s depressing! I love my dd, my husband and parents with all my heart but I feel lonely in some kinda way, I’ve even started to feel hubby is going off me even though things are always as they have been, he’s never been very affectionate and I’m reading too much into it that I mentioned it to him and he said don’t be silly ! When I look at what makes me happy in life I can only say my dd, dh and parents. We don’t socialise, only go out for lunch on a weekend or holidays, all as just the 3 of us. I could go on and on with more but this post is long enough ! Thanks to anyone who took the time to read and tell me to snap out of it woman !!

 

[jellybeanxx]

@mme that sounds tough are there ways you could imagine making your life better where you are? Maybe look at getting a different job? The money isn’t worth it if you’re unhappy.
I find it’s also harder to make friends as you get older and the only way to do it is to be bold and strike up conversations with people you see. It’s something a new job could help with though. We moved to a different area 4 years ago and it took a while to meet new people. I definitely had to move out of my comfort zone to do it but it was worth it!

@Convie hopefully you’ll be in with a chance this month anyway! Keeping everything crossed for you!

@Kaymumof2 hope the time passes quickly, that first part of the cycle is so dull (which I can really empathise with at the moment )

@Hoping4numbr3 I like seeing your signature and keeping up with your progress. Please stick around!

@tdog hopefully the school will be able to arrange something for her but glad the GP has given you a contact just in case. Hope the wait isn’t too long.

Just want to say a massive thank you to all of you. This cycle is utterly miserable but it would be a lot more miserable and lonely without all of you to chat to about it. I hope we all get our BFPs soon and manage to stay in touch throughout!

 

[tdog]

Oh my @mme what an awful thing to be going through, I moved away from my comfort zone only up the road but it was the best thing ever I did I have made friends where iam now more than where I was, hope you can sort it out hun xx

@jellybeanxx I'm sure we will make a thread and we will be all in it together fingers crossed for all our 's altho not feeling positive this month as he on nights so feeling out already it's knocked me this ovulating earlier lol xx

 

[JJB2]

Im sorry @tdog you are not a bad mom. Is good that you know now and you can give her the support she needs.

AFM - CD7 I havent been taking temps and probably I wont tbh. I will do opk starting on friday, Ill be on CD10 then. Also on the 6th of november im getting my progesterone levels check to see if Im really ovulating or not.
Not very convence about this cycle or TTC overall. A lot of things are going on in my life my plate is full. Is bad to say it but Im doubting if timing is good for another child. My 2yo son has a sensory disorder and soon will be evaluated for Autism. We have therapy for him 5 times a week and his tantrums are getting worse. I also have a 14yo soon to be 15 niece that lives with us (we have her custody) and things are hard with her.
We really want to have another child and we dont want him/her to be so apart in age from DS but who knows maybe we just need to stick with the responsibilities we already have.

 

[laurarebecca1]

I’m so thankful for this group...it keeps me sane!

Jjb- is there ever a right time to have a child? Something always come up!

MME - it’s so hard when you don’t agree with your OH. My OH wants to move to another country...

Tdog hope you’re okay!

Convie do you usually ovulate on the same day do you can pin point when you can go?

Jelly, honestly I don’t know how you do it! I think I would go insane!

Sorry I’ve been quiet so slowly getting through the weeks until ovulation #boring!

Currently on cd12, yesterday’s opks were the same as CD9/10 so don’t think I am ovulating early at all. Likely cd13/14 as usual or maybe even later...

Bding every other day - we had a slight hiccup haha!
We’ve done cd 8, 10, 11 and then will skip tonight and then cd 13. If I get +opk on cd 14, would you bd on 14 as well?

 

[tdog]

Morning ladies @laurarebecca1 I would do on cd14 aswell I always try and do it the day I get a positive opk aswell xx

AFM my temp went up haven't done opk test as I no not supose to use fmu so I think I'll be using smu if I need a wee that is lol xx

 

[tdog]

Right just done my clear blue and it's still flashing thunk my body all to wack xx

 

[pamg]

I had my hospital appointment yesterday at the fertility clinic. They took lots of info & examined me & took swabs & are going to repeat my bloods. I have to ring when I start my next period to book in a hyposy where they insert dye inside me.
I just feel a bit low about it all today I'm due on next week & even tho our timing was great this month I don't even have any hope I will be pregnant this month. It makes it worse that we're not gna be trying again until January now as we have a big family holiday booked for next August!

 

[tdog]

I had my hospital appointment yesterday at the fertility clinic. They took lots of info & examined me & took swabs & are going to repeat my bloods. I have to ring when I start my next period to book in a hyposy where they insert dye inside me.
I just feel a bit low about it all today I'm due on next week & even tho our timing was great this month I don't even have any hope I will be pregnant this month. It makes it worse that we're not gna be trying again until January now as we have a big family holiday booked for next August!

Glad everything went well hun that's a bummer about not trying until January xx

 

[Convie]

@mme I dont know what to suggest as I'm kind of like you where I don't really know anyone, I only have my dad as family down here and he moved me down here when I was 17 so don't know people from school, I don't work atm and when I do finish my driving instructor thing I doubt I'll be making any friends from that so I get how you feel and sorry you feel this way

@jellybeanxx thank you, I really hope the witch or a BFP shows up for you soon, I can't imagine how frustrated you must be at this point

@JJB2 my eldest has autism she was fully diagnosed at 3 years old, started evaluation at 2 so I get the stress with that, shes now 8 and I still wonder if I should be trying for another baby when she can be such a handful on her own, I dont think there is ever a right time to have a baby

@laurarebecca1 I used to ovulate at the same time it used to always be CD11 but last month it was CD13 and this month I think it might be CD13 again? I'm not sure I haven't got a peak test yet but I haven't taken one yet today I'm waiting until 3pm because its my last one, I don't know if its a good thing or not that I'm now ovving later?

@pamg glad hosp went well I know how you feel on that one, I no longer have any hope for end of the month I am just always preparing for when to try the next month, I am same as well if I can't get to US next month then probably won't be trying again until Jan either

AFM, after my fresh bloody spotting yesterday I was cramping a lot last night, felt like period cramps, did a OPK and it was still super neg, clearblue was still flashing, will retake both at 3pm today, can anyone tell me if this mornings temp was the drop before ovulation? darn chart confuses the heck out of me

 

[tdog]

@Convie let us no if you get a peak be interesting as your drop prob mean ovulation today you will only no if you get 3 rises after today my clear blue still flashing today aswell normally I get the 2 then I get the peak but nope lol xx

 

[laurarebecca1]

@Convie let us no if you get a peak be interesting as your drop prob mean ovulation today you will only no if you get 3 rises after today my clear blue still flashing today aswell normally I get the 2 then I get the peak but nope lol xx

My opks are still negative too so unsure of when I will ovulate as usually get +opk on cd12!