SashimiMimi
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Thanks, everyone!! I really appreciate the feedback. I have to be quick, too as I am still at work.
I think OH is just worried about making up two-weeks worth of excuses as to why we cannot visit. There were times in the beginning of our relationship, where I felt OH chose this friend over me. Now I feel like he is doing it again by visiting without me. These friends have struggled with fertility in a different way--one premature baby (who is totally fine now, one MC and now this new baby is a real triumph for them. I should be supportive, and I would be if this was my first or second IUI... But I know how uncomfortable I got telling them about our first IUI, I just can't stand to talk about the injections, the possible lap surgery and our uncertain future when it comes to starting a family.
Haribo: That was ME with the cold legs!! HAHAHA! It happens more often than you think.
Pino: Feel better!
Lauren, Country, Lxb: It's true, I do have a cold (although its getting better, is that a bad sign???), and I have the trip coming up, offered to do some extra work at my job with the trip coming up, I honestly don't have time to see them. I just don't think OH will think it's a good enough excuse because you apparently "make time" for friends. Yet, his falling and twisting his ankle was fine to miss out on the tennis match when we were doing IUI! LOL!
I think OH is just worried about making up two-weeks worth of excuses as to why we cannot visit. There were times in the beginning of our relationship, where I felt OH chose this friend over me. Now I feel like he is doing it again by visiting without me. These friends have struggled with fertility in a different way--one premature baby (who is totally fine now, one MC and now this new baby is a real triumph for them. I should be supportive, and I would be if this was my first or second IUI... But I know how uncomfortable I got telling them about our first IUI, I just can't stand to talk about the injections, the possible lap surgery and our uncertain future when it comes to starting a family.
Haribo: That was ME with the cold legs!! HAHAHA! It happens more often than you think.
Pino: Feel better!
Lauren, Country, Lxb: It's true, I do have a cold (although its getting better, is that a bad sign???), and I have the trip coming up, offered to do some extra work at my job with the trip coming up, I honestly don't have time to see them. I just don't think OH will think it's a good enough excuse because you apparently "make time" for friends. Yet, his falling and twisting his ankle was fine to miss out on the tennis match when we were doing IUI! LOL!