Cycle Buddy Wanted *UPDATE* Cycle 2 CD Oct 20 (Cycle 1 Cd1 22 Sept)

[DebsHopeful]

Gabrielle and 1stBaby, I think you two have the right approach, unfortunately I am the exact opposite.

I wish I could think of something else but my mind always comes right back to babies.

Still for most of us we only need to start bd for babies from Friday onwards.
I am only going to ovulate probably Tuesday next week.

Jai_Jai I had a look at your ff and from my experience I would actually guess that you ovulated on CD12, you are two days ahead of me so I would think you should plan a lovely romantic weekend with no stress.

R, Mel how are you two? Have you got your appointments set up yet?
How long are you going to keep it a secret?
I am terrible at keeping good news a secret.

Has anyone heard from Sarah? I hope she is okay.

And how are you today, Nlytin, MsTwiggy and Bebe?

 

[1cre8tivgrl]

Hi girls!! I am doing good, still no symptoms yet. I seem to be a little more tired at night but that's about it. MS kicked in at 7 weeks when I was pregnant with ds so that means I have 2 weeks to go.. eeekkss!!! I had the most vivid dream last night that I was in labor and ds daycare teacher was my midwife! I gave birth to the most beautiful blue eyed little boy. So now I'm thinking that its going to be a boy! I dreamt I was having a boy when I was pregnant with ds too. I soooo want a little girl though Don't get me wrong I will love him unconditionally if it is a boy. I just would be estatic if it was a girl!!!! That's all there is in my family is little boys so I'm sure this one will be too!

 

[Gabrielle]

Yeah 1st baby...i know what you mean..like im not going to use anything to help us and just going to bd when we feel like it. Im scared..idk if i just dont want it as much or if im just being relaxed..?? I am suppose to go out with girls from work in two weeks and ive never had a girls night out soooo that has been on my mind!!! I feel selfish for that..? Who knows though..cause af is still here and when she leaves i might feel different as we get closer to ovulation..?

Debs i know its hard not to think about it but i have like i said tried to enjoy life and just let it happen when the time is right. I'm a firm believer in that its not in "our" hands and that there is nothing we could do to help it or stop it...and it will happen when it happens....idk maybe im wrong??

How is everyone else doing? Af gone for everyone?...she still here..getting lighter finally!

Btw I talk to sarah and as far as i know she and her hubby have deciced to wtt till Michael is 2, shes in her last year of college...just thought i'd let you girls know!!
She still comes on here though.

Hope everyone is having a great weekend!!! Take care girlies!

 

[Jai_Jai]

hey guys!! I am like all of you - sometimes I am nah dont even care if it happens it does but most of the time its all i think about you know i catch my self staring a pg women and being so grrrrrrrrr jealous and oh i wish i had her tummy etc etc its funny eh?? I am feeling ok and me and DF are gonna soon i feel a little for telling yo actually - I am looking forward to it and as I am only 7dpo there is no Baby Making attached to it, its just for us hope u all have a gd sunday the clocks have gone back now so its noe 22:37 - what is it in USA Gabby? Hope ur all ok? Maybe we will get obsessive again over OV and 2ww I hope not hey? mwah and to all of team jelly belly xxx

 

[msTwiggy]

I'm on a hunt for preseed, i think that explains my situation!! LOL!!!

A friend of mine said the cutest thing to me awhile ago. She said "Dearie, I'm getting married in a couple of years time and I need alittle flower girl from you!"

that's more than enough motivation I tell ya!! The baby making process is back on for me and OH! AF leaves today! Wheee!!!

 

[DebsHopeful]

Hiya,

AF is still lingering slightly.
Wish she would arrive do her thing and then pack her bags and leave!!

I am going to join some friends at a spinning class because as of next week I won't be doing any excercise for the 1st trimester so as to take every precaution not to hurt the bean.

Just think this time next week (and for some of you sooner) we are going to be pregnant, scary and exciting!

Now if only time would fly by until Friday

How was everyone elses Monday?

 

[bebe]

AF left early for me on CD4 so I had a lovely weekend with my DH like you Jai Jai for no reason other than cos we wanted to be together. Also why I wasn't on here all weekend. I I am fine with all of the ttc until I get into the 2ww. I always swear I won't obsess but still end up with it playing on my mind the whole time. Maybe this cycle I will manage to be good and just go with the flow and wait and see, in my dreams maybe! I start opk's at the end of this week so good luck to all

 

[1stbaby]

I am doing OPKs this month until the I am out of them. Only because I bought them the first day af was here, then after no more, just the relaxed approach. I am still very calm, but that may change for me as well in the tww. I hope I ov on time this month, I hated thinking last month something was wrong when I ov on CD 20. I am only on CD 8, but af left early this month for me as well. DH and I have bd a bit just for fun, but he does not want to know when I ov because it stresses him, so that will remain between us haha.

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21be70


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/ticker/21be70/ttc.png

 

[Jai_Jai]

I am glad you girls are doing ok! I am loving this TTC thing atm but I know that U will get a little obsessive in the 2ww though even though i think that i wont get like that i know deep down when it arrives i soooo will oh well!!

Ii had a lovely weekend with DF. I took my Mother shopping on Sat and got a few bits for the house and for my Best Friends little girl, she is a premmy so v tiny he is already saying i need to go and see her he knows how broody i am lol we dont live close anymore i moved away!!

I hope this is it for us ladies!!! come on PMA!!!!!!!!!!!!! to all!! Love you ladies!!! and is no one being a Jelly Belly except Debs and I??? Shocking ladies totally shocking!!!!

 

[msTwiggy]

Erm.. how do I put the Team Jelly Belly glitter onto my signature?

Ladies, glad to hear everyone is taking it easy this time around I on the other hand, is as obsessed as ever on trying as best as possible this cycle!!

Still out on my search for PreSeed. Gosh, didn't know it would be this hard to find!

 

[Gabrielle]

So ladies..if we are going to all O in about a week or alittle more..when do you start bding..?

 

[msTwiggy]

mmm...Friday for me i think?

 

[Jai_Jai]

i started the night before last, and doing it every other day so tonight and then on fri, sat, sun, mon and ack to every other day or how we feel after that.

Ms Twiggy have u looked on internet for preseed? xxxx

 

[Jai_Jai]

if you want it then this should work copy and paste this link IMG]https://img701.mytextgraphics.com/sparklee/2008/10/25/441ed7534d9e98f48a37d097191785ed.gif[/IMG but then but these brackets around it [ ] make sure they are the square ones and gd luck!!!!

and this is how u do the sig xxxx

 

[Gabrielle]

So my cycles vary between like 28 to 31 days ...once was 35......so I've decided to start bding about four days before the earliest time i could O and keep going till the lastest i could..ya know what i mean? And i will start opks on friday probably. Does that sound right? Cause otherwise i might miss my O, since it varies so much!

 

[Jai_Jai]

Yes that sounds perfect pretty lady looks like we will both get our halloween bean this yr

 

[1stbaby]

OH and I started Bding for fun over the weekend and now we are on every other day until I get a pos opk. We will probably BD every day over the weekend starting with fri and then back to every other day starting with mon. It works out this way for me anyway because I work two jobs on tue and thurs and I dont see Oh, we have worked it out to BD around this and luckily I think that will work for when I ov too. Last month was a pain the you know what tryin to BD every day until after ov. I had to rush home in between clients and stuff, so we are taking it easier this month. I buy the 20 pk of opk so that I dont miss my ov. I dont know when I ov or else I would love to just have to use two or even seven. I want a halloween sticky Bean too!!!


https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/21be70

 

[msTwiggy]

i started the night before last, and doing it every other day so tonight and then on fri, sat, sun, mon and ack to every other day or how we feel after that.

Ms Twiggy have u looked on internet for preseed? xxxx

Well the official for a bfp would start friday for me, but otherwise, we've been having fun since yesterday, and by the looks of it, later today as well.

Jai jai, I have thought of ordering online, but it would take at least 2 weeks for it to reach me and by that time, i would have missed the O-boat. Not to worry!! My persistent search has paid off!! I've found a pharmaceutical in the next residential that has it, so I'd be paying them a visit tomorrow to grab myself a pack.

Err... the normal pack of six should be enough right? Sorry, amateur here

 

[1stbaby]

By the way, I didnt get too emotional last month when I af arrived, but I have a feeling that even though I am trying to relax, and it is pretty much working out, that i will cry if af arrives this month. My OH birthday is July 28th and mine is July 31st. I would love to have a baby in July and if we get pg this cycle baby would be due July 27th.... What a wonderful birthday gift. My friend just had a baby last week and her birthday is in a week. My other friend is due 9 days after her birthday in March. I would love to follow the trend around here.

 

[Gabrielle]

Hey ladies on what day will you start using your opks...? i am clueless on when to start using em..