Day 4 of flashing smiley on CB ... Deflated!! CD14

[Daisy21980]

It could well be implantation bleeding. Who knows I've given up on signs now. I even forgot to temp this morning so did it 2 hrs later than normal. 10 days and I'll know. ,my oving seems to be getting later again now was day 13 for first 2 cycles post op, then 14 this month I thought 14 but temps say 15

 

[Maddy_desie]

Daisy, if you had fertile cm, then the sperm should be able to live for up to 5 days. Keep us posted and let us know how you make out!

loulabelle, maybe it is IB. What dpo are you?

I just got a pos opk today and ewcm! TMI alert - when I woke up this morning I felt really . . .wet down there. That hasn't happened since we started ttc, so I am feeling pretty positive. Just waiting for the end of the day so I can go home and DH and I can ! Hopefully we can catch that egg!!

 

[xloulabellex]

Ahh good luck!!! :-D

I am 9dpo today xx

 

[Daisy21980]

Hi Ladies how are we getting on?

I'm 9dpo had a temp drop to cover line yesterday and it's rising a little today. Bbs been sore since 2dpo and as usual a multitude of other symptoms that usually turn out to be nothing.

Feeling a little down today. Hubbies sperm results have arrived at the doctors. We have both been asked to go in for a routine chat about the results.

I think we all know that's not good. At my doctors if your results are fine they tell you over the phone. You're only every called In for an apt if something's not right.

Surely Mother Nature wouldn't be so cruel? Feeling really low. Oh and had cramps and flushes all day

 

[natali0]

Don't stress yourself out too much

 

[Maddy_desie]

Hang in there Daisy! When is your appointment with the doc?

I got CH on FF this morning, so officially in the two. Have a bit of thrush though, so it's got me a little bummed. Feels like this will be the longest tww ever.

 

[xloulabellex]

Hope all is ok daisy

14doo today and negative test. Bla.

 

[Daisy21980]

Apt is Tuesday am. I'm gonna be pretty bummed after all the tests and ops I've been through to have me now working well and it turns out DH is now broken too. But we'll work through it.

I'm 12dpo neg on a one step 10mui internet cheapie this morning. I'm due between Wed and Fri, but tbh my temps have been really low this month. All above the cover line. But bar one massive spike on day 6 which I think was due to heating. And a dip to coverline e on day 8 they've all hovered at around the same temp.

Bb's hAve remained tender which isn't the norm, but cm turned sticky and after last month I'm over symptom spotting.

I'm pretty sure AF is on route. Onwards and upwards perhaps month 16 of ttc will be the magic one.

 

[Daisy21980]

Hey ladies,


Docs today for hubbies results. The sample in October showed 74m so great amount but poor fluid quality, but the results from this month showed only 14m so low. Then marker he said was over 20m

It's the lesser of the 3 evils, I'd rather low count than low mobility or morph whatever it is.

But either way we've been reffered back to the specialist for next step and I guess IVF. appointment 8th. December.

And Paris clearly wasn't magic as spotting began yesterday 13dpo, temp plummeted today and spotting getting heavier.

Perhaps we will get a Christmas surprise.

I'm so fed up though tbh.

 

[Maddy_desie]

Daisy. I know how you feel.

I began spotting over the weekend and then proceeded to have full fledged breakdown in front of DH. Thankfully, he is super supportive and sweet.

I feel completely exhausted.

DH says to relax and that it hasn't been that long. . which is true (going on 8 months ttc #1), but it didn't help that my baby sister was up with her b/f and 8 month old baby that was an "accident." Then making snarky comments to me like, "oh maybe one day when you have a family, you'll understand."

Why is this so hard.

Sorry for the rant ladies. . . just having a really hard time right now.

 

[Daisy21980]

Don't worry Maddy, we're on month 16ttc it will be a year on the 13th dec since my miscarriage. I know how you feel, my sister in law, feel within 4 months mc'd in May then was preggers again within 3 months. She announced she was 10 was the day we found out. We lost ours she now has a 4 month old a friend at work had her 20 weeks scan yesterday. She fell on our first month.

Then there's us. Fell within 3 months, lost it. A year after losing it, we've had ovarian drilling, meds and now DH has low count and no bby. .

But I remain ever hopeful and we're back to the specialist on the 8th to start the ivf process.

Hubbies don't quite get it, they are all the same. It's just male logic and their way of making us feel better. Love them xx

 

[xloulabellex]

Sending u both giant hugs

A lot of my friends have fallen preg this week.

Me? I got my first AF since July :-/

Have gyno appointment on New Years eve (nice lol) to discuss options I huess?

Hope you're both ok xxx

 

[Maddy_desie]

Daisy, thanks sharing your story with me and for the support. I'm sorry for your loss and I hope that everything goes well on the 8th for you. . It is so hard though when it seems like everyone around you can get pregnant so easily. . I am not going to give up though and I've got my FX for you!

Belle, sorry that AF arrived. Are you going to try and temp or just wait for the docs on the 31st?

I'm scheduled for a regular yearly check-up with my OB in Feb. So until then, we are going to try and relax and just continue ttc.

 

[Daisy21980]

Hi ladies,

Just a quick update. Specialist today. Saw his assistant not him. Apparently when he did my ovarian drilling and the rest. Even though I asked him at follow up were my tubes clear and he said yes. He didn't check my tubes and apparently didn't do the drilling for fertility he did it for painful intercourse. I'm sorry but WTF.

So anyway, now they want to scan to check my tubes, then if all clear clomid, I questioned what was the point of clomid when my levels are great. But that's the route they want to follow. I'm pretty peeved tbh, but hey it's another step. And you never know. I'm 6 dpo today. My temp shot up yesterday from 36.22 to 36.41. Whilst it normally rises 5dpo, 6dpo it normally drops, but today it rose again to 36.44. It's really to early to be anything at all. But I'm praying for a Christmas surprise.

I want nothing more than to give hubby a box with a BFP inside.

 

[Maddy_desie]

Daisy, how frustrating! It's amazing how clueless healthcare workers can be sometimes!

Rising temps are a good sign! I'm secretly wishing for a Christmas suprise too, but don't want to get my hopes up. I'm 3dpo right now. AF is due on the 24th.

I am actually wondering if I did O this month though. My temps seems to say that I have, but I never got a positive OPK. I was using the CB digital OPK and testing with FMU. Do you think it's possible that I missed the surge?

Here is a link to my chart if anyone wants to check it out:

https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/50ec6a/thumb.png
My Ovulation Chart

 

[Daisy21980]

That's a definite rise Maddie, ive given up on CB, I used wondfo, but I didn't get a def positive this month. Here's my chart below.

I'm furious really because I found all the letters from specialist and they all sat about treatment being for fertility.

I'm due We'd/Thurs if AF appears then ill book the scan.

Since my drilling I've had cramps every month from 5dpo, had these again this month but they feel different. Also pre op I need got sore bb's bar the pg month, post op I've had sore bb's every month nothing so far.

I'd love to present hubby with a BFP and it be sticky this time, 16months in I feel like it's about time. But with low count and now possible blocked tubes on top of everything else........

 

[Maddy_desie]

Daisy, I'm not suprised you are furious! You should be! Sometimes I think people just don't understand how stressful ttc can be!

I'm sending positive thoughts out your way and hoping you get your sticky bean! Your chart looks good so far.

Do you buy the wondfo online? I've never seen them in the store.
Really hoping AF stays away, but if not, I'm might try them. I agree that CB is crap.

Belle - how are you doing?

 

[Daisy21980]

Hi Maddy, yes go on to amazon and search wondfo ovulation, I bought 50 for what I paid for a months CB. I test morning and evening with them as they only pick up,the surge.

Arm, trying not to get hopeful but chart looks pretty good ATM, I'm 12dpo today but that means nothing, I'm just praying it stays high the next 2 cause that will be a good sign. Bb's started to get sore today and had heartburn all yesterday. Cramps continuing on and off but that's an every month thing. I've not been temped to test this month going to wait until Tuesday 14dpo and if temps are still up not spotting when I check my cervix I'll test. But I. Not high hopes and I've drank the last 2 nights as had parties. Still secretly hoping for that sticky BFP. I still can't believe it was a year ago,yesterday since my mc.

 

[xloulabellex]

Sorry for long time no speak girls daisy I hope you got your BFP???

Well... I'm CD18 and AF is still really heavy :-/ so I'm gonna call docs today cos I've gone from no AF since July.. To non stop. It's ridiculous :'(

Hope you're all doing well ladies, Maddy how you doing? Xx

 

[Daisy21980]

Omg Bella that sounds awful! Let us know what they say.

My temps were up again today, if they are still up tomorrow 14 dpo I'll test. But tbh, I've had bad bad cramps since last night all round my back to. They are quite crippling tonight, had other symptoms but all can be pms and had the most stressful 2 days. Like shaking with stress stressful and I handle stress calmly. So tbh even if that bean stuck I'm pretty sure I would lose it.

Praying for a raised temp tomorrow, expecting a dip.