Dealing with azoospermia?
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rdleela
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Baba, I'm so sorry for you and your husband on your test results; it's definitely not the end of the road for you guys! But wow, you better be sitting down and having a long, deep conversation about why he didn't tell you about the doctors call; is he really distraught over the outcome, or is it just bad communication? Best wishes...
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Hi Rdleela,
I did have a long convo about why he didn't tell me, and he said he was waiting for the right moment, I asked him if he thinks that this was the best outcome (me sending the mail and Dr responding etc) and no and that he said that he is very sorry. Its too new to discuss other options but I am looking for a councillor to help us.
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Hi ladies
I cannot believe how long it has been since I've been on B'n'B!! I've logged in a few times, desperately trying to catch up on pages and pages as I didn't want to miss anyone's news, but it's just impossible - so I've decided to admit defeat and just come and say "hi".
It's lovely to see some snippets of fantastic news as I scanned briefly through - babies and pregnancies but also so sad to see so many new members. However, as we've said many times before - it's wonderful to know that you have found this group and have somewhere to come for support; somewhere where people really understand what you're feeling.
As for a quick update on me (I will put more in my journal when I get a chance for those who want to read more)
- Aimee has just turned 22 months! I can't believe we're planning her 2nd birthday!!! This year has gone SO fast! She is doing great and continues to amaze me every day.
- Hubby is back on the anastrazole and we have made the decision to try one more time for a sibling for Aimee. It has been a very hard decision on so many levels, but before this whole azoo thing, we never planned to have an only child. She would be such a great big sister and we know that if we don't give it a go, we will regret it later down the line. We're looking at EC in Nov sometime at the moment, but (easy to say at this stage of the proceedings!) this will be our one and only cycle because of our age, finances and the fact that I don't want a big chunk of Aimee's childhood overshadowed by us being swallowed up by all this again. If we are lucky again, then it was meant to be and we will be over the moon. If it doesn't work, then we can look at Aimee, knowing we gave it our best shot, and know that we were more lucky than we ever imagined we could be!
I think about you all often and would love it if you would PM me a couple of sentences giving an update of where you're at. I will add it to the front page (and it will also get me up to speed with you all!
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I really am so thrilled that a group I started with just 2 or 3 of us, has turned into the incredibly supportive place that it clearly still continues to be
I cannot believe how long it has been since I've been on B'n'B!! I've logged in a few times, desperately trying to catch up on pages and pages as I didn't want to miss anyone's news, but it's just impossible - so I've decided to admit defeat and just come and say "hi".
It's lovely to see some snippets of fantastic news as I scanned briefly through - babies and pregnancies but also so sad to see so many new members. However, as we've said many times before - it's wonderful to know that you have found this group and have somewhere to come for support; somewhere where people really understand what you're feeling.
As for a quick update on me (I will put more in my journal when I get a chance for those who want to read more)
- Aimee has just turned 22 months! I can't believe we're planning her 2nd birthday!!! This year has gone SO fast! She is doing great and continues to amaze me every day.
- Hubby is back on the anastrazole and we have made the decision to try one more time for a sibling for Aimee. It has been a very hard decision on so many levels, but before this whole azoo thing, we never planned to have an only child. She would be such a great big sister and we know that if we don't give it a go, we will regret it later down the line. We're looking at EC in Nov sometime at the moment, but (easy to say at this stage of the proceedings!) this will be our one and only cycle because of our age, finances and the fact that I don't want a big chunk of Aimee's childhood overshadowed by us being swallowed up by all this again. If we are lucky again, then it was meant to be and we will be over the moon. If it doesn't work, then we can look at Aimee, knowing we gave it our best shot, and know that we were more lucky than we ever imagined we could be!
I think about you all often and would love it if you would PM me a couple of sentences giving an update of where you're at. I will add it to the front page (and it will also get me up to speed with you all!
)I really am so thrilled that a group I started with just 2 or 3 of us, has turned into the incredibly supportive place that it clearly still continues to be
good to hear from you!! Can't believe your little girl is almost 2!
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Hi, Deb, great to hear from you! And awesome news about trying for a brother or sister for Aimee! I think you guys have a great attitude about it, best of luck! And I'll PM you!
Oh, and yes, it's amazing what your thread has become!! 👍👍👍👍👍
Oh, and yes, it's amazing what your thread has become!! 👍👍👍👍👍
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Hi guys,
I am struggling this weekend, this is the 2nd time my OH has been diagnosed with this in the past five years. We were being (well he was, I wasnt) so positive too. What is the next step? Is there financial help available anywhere? Is there any positive stories of getting pregnant natural with this condition? xx
I am struggling this weekend, this is the 2nd time my OH has been diagnosed with this in the past five years. We were being (well he was, I wasnt) so positive too. What is the next step? Is there financial help available anywhere? Is there any positive stories of getting pregnant natural with this condition? xx
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Different stories- different successes- different ways of getting there. You'll find that here. Deb who started this group finally had her little one almost 2 years ago. I would start with the first page/first post to see what information you need to start with.
2nd time in 5 years? Define what you mean by that? Did they find swimmers, and then he had none again? I'm so sorry you're joining the boat with us but you'll find great support here.
2nd time in 5 years? Define what you mean by that? Did they find swimmers, and then he had none again? I'm so sorry you're joining the boat with us but you'll find great support here.
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Hi Deb! I still lurk in here every now and then. Great update! I'll PM you my update.
For those of you who remember me, I did a second FET this summer. I got a BFP from it. I had my first beta drawn on Saturday and it was only 146.3 at 15dp5dt. I have to wait 8 whole days for the next beta. They never implied that it was low, but I know it is, I had been getting BFPs for a full week. I'm scared that something is wrong and left them a message tonight to call me. I'm hoping I can do an extra beta this week.
For those of you who remember me, I did a second FET this summer. I got a BFP from it. I had my first beta drawn on Saturday and it was only 146.3 at 15dp5dt. I have to wait 8 whole days for the next beta. They never implied that it was low, but I know it is, I had been getting BFPs for a full week. I'm scared that something is wrong and left them a message tonight to call me. I'm hoping I can do an extra beta this week.
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CanadianMaple - How awful you have to wait so long, will keep my fingers and toes crossed for you too! XXXXXX
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well the report came back today and it says no sperm seen with a high power microscope. It is the second time they have found no sperm. I am just at a lost what to do next. It doesnt actually have a medical name on the report which I find odd xx
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Hello Everyone,
I have been reading a lot in this thread and I can see there is quite a few followers. I am new to this BnB group, so I'll briefly fill you in. TTC for 7 years now, DH and I are both 31. We first jumped into this in 2009 after being diagnosed with low sperm count. All BFN's for 2 years + unplanned life events = burnt out, so we decided to take a break from it before it broke us. We never "stopped" trying, but I put all the effort to one side and focused on other things. In 2013, we switched Family Doc's and after reviewing our charts, our new doc brought up our Infertility and asked for an update on our baby plans. Before I knew it, we were jumping back in. I'm ready, I've been ready and I want this. I told DH it's all or nothing this time, full speed ahead, I'm not waisting any more time.
So our Doc ordered a bunch of stuff, comparing any changes over the years. Everything came back the same, except DH's SA - no sperm!! WTF?!?!?! We were referred to a new FS, specializing in male factor. We met with our new FS in May 2014. It was a bit of a wait (I had forgot what that felt like) and to sum it up, it's trial and error if DH can make sperm again. His FSH is normal, so at least there isn't permanent damage to the testis.
DH is now taking Pregnyl injections, twice a week for 4 months (reassess in November). He's been a real trooper so far and we have had very difficult conversations discussing the "what if cards". I am kicking myself in the ass for not sticking with this years before. He had sperm, they were there, and we never did anything to save them. We were younger, different priorites, and never thought it would lead to this. Thats a hard pill to swallow.
Has anyone out there gone through this or similar scenario? Can the body start to make sperm again? Does Pregnyl really work for this?? I'm trying to stay positive and keep my head above water. DH blaimes himself enough as it is, let alone having to see me as an emotional wreck! It's hard to be strong for him when I'm bursting inside with anger and fear.
Can someone shine some light over here, please? It's lonely in the dark.
I have been reading a lot in this thread and I can see there is quite a few followers. I am new to this BnB group, so I'll briefly fill you in. TTC for 7 years now, DH and I are both 31. We first jumped into this in 2009 after being diagnosed with low sperm count. All BFN's for 2 years + unplanned life events = burnt out, so we decided to take a break from it before it broke us. We never "stopped" trying, but I put all the effort to one side and focused on other things. In 2013, we switched Family Doc's and after reviewing our charts, our new doc brought up our Infertility and asked for an update on our baby plans. Before I knew it, we were jumping back in. I'm ready, I've been ready and I want this. I told DH it's all or nothing this time, full speed ahead, I'm not waisting any more time.
So our Doc ordered a bunch of stuff, comparing any changes over the years. Everything came back the same, except DH's SA - no sperm!! WTF?!?!?! We were referred to a new FS, specializing in male factor. We met with our new FS in May 2014. It was a bit of a wait (I had forgot what that felt like) and to sum it up, it's trial and error if DH can make sperm again. His FSH is normal, so at least there isn't permanent damage to the testis.
DH is now taking Pregnyl injections, twice a week for 4 months (reassess in November). He's been a real trooper so far and we have had very difficult conversations discussing the "what if cards". I am kicking myself in the ass for not sticking with this years before. He had sperm, they were there, and we never did anything to save them. We were younger, different priorites, and never thought it would lead to this. Thats a hard pill to swallow.
Has anyone out there gone through this or similar scenario? Can the body start to make sperm again? Does Pregnyl really work for this?? I'm trying to stay positive and keep my head above water. DH blaimes himself enough as it is, let alone having to see me as an emotional wreck! It's hard to be strong for him when I'm bursting inside with anger and fear.
Can someone shine some light over here, please? It's lonely in the dark.
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hi bump_fever,
I have had two of my OH sperm sample with 0 in it. over a period of 5 years. I have a daughter due to a previous relationship. I am really devestaed at the moment. I just feel like everything is against us and no where to turn to. Just got the report back today with the results xx
I have had two of my OH sperm sample with 0 in it. over a period of 5 years. I have a daughter due to a previous relationship. I am really devestaed at the moment. I just feel like everything is against us and no where to turn to. Just got the report back today with the results xx
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Shazney, my heart goes out to you. Do you have other options? Are there treatments you can try? What about TESA/MESA/Donor/adoption?
I'm feeling it Pregnyl doesn't work for us, it might be the end of the road. DH is against donor, and I don't know how I feel about adoption.
I'm feeling it Pregnyl doesn't work for us, it might be the end of the road. DH is against donor, and I don't know how I feel about adoption.
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My heart goes out to you too. I am extremly grateful and lucky I have one daughter. I have no idea, it depends on what the urologist decides and if my OH decides on things. He is confused and not sure what to do. As am I, so many options to begin with. I would like TESA with IVF or ICSI but again depends if they can do that or not. Donor I would go ahead but OH is struggling to get his head around that, I dont feel I would want to adopt but you know what the process did look a lot easier than this so I dont think I would say no to it xx
