hopeandpray
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oh i think thats a great point mommyof3, having a nartural consequence that is something that will fix what has happened or prevent it instead of just you did something wrong so i will make you unhappy
i think there are exceptions though, as in if your child is doing something dangerous such as running out on the road, i think in these cases if you have clearly explained to the child why it is dangerous, or they are too young to understand, it is ok to kind of scare your child out of doing something if you know what i mean?
in general kids should not do things because they know they're wrong but if they're putting themselves in danger its ok for them to not to something because they're afraid of punishment
i think there are exceptions though, as in if your child is doing something dangerous such as running out on the road, i think in these cases if you have clearly explained to the child why it is dangerous, or they are too young to understand, it is ok to kind of scare your child out of doing something if you know what i mean?
in general kids should not do things because they know they're wrong but if they're putting themselves in danger its ok for them to not to something because they're afraid of punishment